tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78194430174915602512024-03-14T00:19:39.810-07:00PhDoulaOne woman's path through doula training, childrearing, and a computer science Ph. D. programPhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.comBlogger95125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-45938159825775674932012-10-05T09:32:00.004-07:002012-10-05T11:33:06.404-07:00Gaming and Mathematics: A Cross Curricular Event (Get Your Game On)This is a post about Gaming and Mathematics: A Cross Curricular Event (Get Your Game On), a panel at Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing, October 2012 in Baltimore, MD.<br />
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Sharon Jones, teacher<br />
Renada Poteat<br />
Beth Frierson<br />
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Agenda:<br />
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<li>Common core overview</li>
<li>What is BYOB? (The gaming software)</li>
<li>After school workshop showcase</li>
<li>How to build a BYOB guessing game</li>
<li>Relating common core back to the workshop</li>
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<b>Beth</b>: There has been a big push in K-12 education to include a common core type of activity in STEM fields, including computer science. In doing common core training, we had brainstorming sessions where we investigated combining concepts in one class to another, so students can better relate what we are trying to teach them. Because CS and Math are so closely related, we decided to bridge the gap between these two related fields. We produced a review game for math, so that the math students could review for their final exams with it.</div>
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The benefit of math ability to academic performance in college computer science programs was confirmed in this study (Fan 2002)</div>
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<b>Renada</b>: <a href="http://byob.berkeley.edu/">Build Your Own Blocks (BYOB)</a> is an advanced version of Scratch, but lets you build your own function and blocks in an object-oriented way. Students learn to solve problems</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: We have been working on a CS curriculum called "<a href="http://bjc.berkeley.edu/">The Beauty and Joy of Computing</a>." A few different colleges have picked it up. At UNCC we wanted to take the college-level curriculum and scale it down to high school students. We wanted students to take something away from the three-day after-school workshop that they could call theirs. Also we gave them snacks.</div>
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<li>Day 1: Pre-survey; play math games; begin BYOB</li>
<li>Day 2: Learn BYOB; start creation of math games</li>
<li>Day 3: Complete math game; play games; take post-survey</li>
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The questions were actual questions that we got from the math teachers, came from the curriculum and helped them prepare for their final exam. Students were very excited about computer programming, even if they had never interacted with computers before.</div>
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"I don't know how to create a computer game, and I came into the workshop to learn how to make a computer game." (TJ, football player)</blockquote>
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Of the 20 participants in the workshop, 100% of the students did not know how to use BYOB or what it was. Also 100% of the participants agreed with "I am sure I can learn programming." UNCC students taught the workshop.</div>
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"It's not half-bad. I'm actually enjoying the creation of this. It's also a lot simpler than VisualBasic." (Aaron)</div>
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Now, we're going to call Antonio via Skype. Antonio learned BYOB and taught it to the other students.</div>
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<b>Antonio</b>: BYOB is a really good software. It's not complex; it's essentially drag and drop. It's a software you can use inside or outside of class. The students really adapted to what they were given. The whole concept of BYOB is a good foundation.</div>
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Q: What does Antonio plan on doing after graduation?</div>
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<b>Antonio</b>: Attend East Carolina or UNCG to major in computer science.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: Have you used BYOB for areas other than gaming?</div>
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<b>Antonio</b>: You can use it as a tool to model mathematics. You can use BYOB for things other than entertainment.</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: The whole concept of BYOB is for gaming.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: Have you used BYOB since the workshop?</div>
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<b>Antonio</b>: Yes, I programmed an algebra game for the algebra team; the teacher wants to see if we can use it again this year and see if I can make a game for geometry.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: Has BYOB inspired you to learn other languages?</div>
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<b>Antonio</b>: I am open to all languages. I will make things happen with all languages.</div>
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<b>Renada</b>: One of our students used BYOB to make a flash card language learning program to teach Haiti to English. So that's another way to use BYOB without making a game.</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: Antonio has begun to see the full circle as we've taught him different levels of programming</div>
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<b>Beth</b>: Learning programming through BYOB fosters critical thinking skills. Antonio has grown from an introverted person to the chair of the homecoming committee and helping with the prom. The knowledge this gives them is more than just academic.</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: Post survey questions were all positive! Everyone enjoyed the workshop and found it useful.</div>
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<b>Renada</b>: I wanted to run a quick demonstration and give you an idea of how BYOB works.</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: Sounds are also really cool.</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: The kids really liked this game. [ Game with Alonso following the mouse cursor and being eaten by fire-breathing dragon.]</div>
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[ Handout of the Algebra Guessing Game tutorial ]</div>
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<b>Beth</b>: A computer is like a man. You have to tell it what to do, and you have to be very precise. For Valentine's Day I teach a matchmaking game. We use CS Unplugged, having students write directions to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. We have class debate on current events related to technology. We use GEO boards, which are building blocks using shapes. We storyboard the program that they're working on to draw up algorithms they need to implement. We ask the students to write an editorial article to their local newspaper or technology journal. And we have students blog on specific thematic content.</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: For some sports (e.g., NASCAR) the fanbase is shrinking because they're not engaging students. We had students write letters.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: Can we access the algebra game online?</div>
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Sharon: sjonespob.webs.com</div>
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<b>Q from Leanda</b>: You guys are selling yourself short. There is an entire modeling strand in the common core. Science teachers could really apply the National Academy common core standards much better. For example, recursion is an Algebra I standard. Writing journals is nice but let's be specific. Let's focus on the math skills specifically. </div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: This is pilot work. It was hard to get this far.</div>
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<b>Beth</b>: We have a STEM team at our school that teaches forensics. We are working on other concepts as well and working to get the curriculum up to date.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: You are working on getting a CS course. If you were to do that, would you use BYOB or other formal languages?</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: We're using principles from a pilot project from five college called the Beauty and Joy of Computing. BYOB is one of the platforms. We're going to do GameMaker, App Developer, Alice, and web development. We did a little bit in Photoshop (even though it isn't a language). We will talk about artificial intelligence in conjunction with FIRST robotics.</div>
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<b>Beth</b>: We will also teach Visual Basic (.NET) and entrepreneurial courses so that students can make their websites e-commerce ready.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: What about visual arts as a mathematics theme? I also do a workshop with similar results, but my observation is that I am attracting mostly boys that are all excited by games and computer science already. How do you recruit people that aren't necessarily in that demographic?</div>
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<b>Beth</b>: We struggle with that. We tried to do a weekend workshop to try to get girls in. You have to do a song and dance and feed them and have t-shirts and try to tie in how technology affects them on a daily level..</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: We want to do a workshop that is girl focused (girl power). I try to promote NCWIT in my classes in particular. That has worked really well. There's an article in Glamour magazine that ran in October of last year. I've given it to every girl and that seems to work. Glamour does blogs about fashion and they say, "Oh, I can do that."</div>
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<b>Q from Miko</b>: My question is related. There was a successful Kickstarter called Goldiblocks that found that narrative is really strong with young girls -- that's what they're interested in. Do you see girls making different things and what are they making?</div>
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<b>Renada</b>: The girls would use it more to make plays or sketch out a scene, change the backgrounds, and tell a story. The boys wanted to create war and warcraft.</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: Mine loved the music. They would play songs. They liked the idea of changing the color. But I agree that it's about plays, there's lots of color and flowers. That's what I like too. But then you go next door and "BAM!" and then a red screen.</div>
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<b>Miko</b>: Your experience supports that.</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: We took the Alice course. One of the things the instructor said is that Alice works well with girls because it's more about narrative (it's not so much about the killing and the warcraft). It's more like a play stage.</div>
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<b>Audience member</b>: We have a girls camp and boys camp for middle-schoolers. We used Alice. The boys did shoot-em-ups and the girls did stories.</div>
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<b>Miko</b>: You could do choose-your-own adventure. Like a book.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: As a parent, I think it's great that you teachers are doing this. I've come across a discrepancy between younger teachers who are really trying to do this stuff, and older teachers that are resistant to it. How should I get involved?</div>
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<b>Sharon</b>: That's my dissertation work. The majority of teachers is over 40. What I have found is that if you can show a teacher one element -- one thing -- that they incorporate in their curriculum then they will reach out to you asking if you have other ideas. I once had 25 e-mails from teachers: "Can you show me that again? Do you have any other tips?" SlideRocket. Prezzi. PuppetPals. The kids were ecstatic about it. It's gotta be free, though. The other problem is that we teachers can be blocked from downloading things, so it should be free and in the cloud.</div>
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PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-48727530498704769292012-10-04T15:09:00.001-07:002012-10-04T15:09:23.298-07:00What I wish I Knew When Applying To Graduate SchoolThis is a post about <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2012/event/what-i-wish-i-knew-when-applying-to-graduate-school/">What I wish I Knew When Applying To Graduate School</a>, a session at the <a href="http://gracehopper.org/">Grace Hopper Celebration for Women in Computing</a>, October 2012, in Baltimore, MD.<br />
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<b>Judy Hoffman</b> at University of California, Berkeley in Computer Vision. She went to the same school for undergraduate.<br />
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<b>Katya Gonina</b> at University of California, Berkeley in Parallel Computing. She originally applied as a MS student but switched to PhD.<br />
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<b>Kristin Stephens</b> at University of California, Berkeley in Computer Networking and Online Learning Education. Her undergraduate studies were focused in industry.<br />
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<b>Aude Hofleitner</b> at University of California, Berkeley in Machine Learning. She did her undergraduate education abroad in France, and last year served on the admission committee.<br />
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<b>Elena Caraba</b> at University of Illinois, Urbana-Champaign in Scientific Computing. She was on the admission committee at UIUC for both PhD and MS, and she switched advisors in her 3rd year of PhD work.<br />
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Application Components<br />
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<li>Standardized tests (i.e., GRE, TOEFL)</li>
<li>Recommendation letters</li>
<li>Research statement</li>
<li>Personal statement, for some schools</li>
<li>Transcript and GPA from your undergraduate institution</li>
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What makes a good application? This list is geared towards a PhD application</div>
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<li>Research experience, or industry experience that can transcend to research life</li>
<li>Good recommendation letters</li>
<li>Transcript and GPA</li>
<li>Solid research statement</li>
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Research</div>
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<li>By far, the most important thing to get involved in</li>
<li>Find out if you like doing research</li>
<li>Find opportunities early (in your sophomore or junior year); do internships</li>
<li>Try to get a publication, in any form, including a poster symposium in your school, a workshop paper, a poster in a conference, a conference publication, or a journal article</li>
<li>Reflect your research interests and experience in your research statements.</li>
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Recommendation letters</div>
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<li>Typically professors at your university or managers from job/internship. </li>
<li>Ask, "Can you write me a <i>great</i> letter?" You don't want a <i>good</i> letter. You want a <i>great</i> letter.</li>
<li>Find a person who knows you well</li>
<li>Ask professors who are in the area for which you are applying -- and include </li>
<li>Ask early, and follow up (e.g., weekly: "By the way! Did you get to that letter for me? It's due XXX.")</li>
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<li>Also very important</li>
<li>Take higher-level calasses in topics in which you are interested</li>
<li>Great way to explore grad school topics</li>
<li>Do well in the classes you choose</li>
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Research statement</div>
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<li>Your chance to tell: <i>a</i>) Why you want to go to this particular graduate school, and <i>b</i>) What you want to study.</li>
<li>Discuss your research or work experience.</li>
<li>Why do you want to go to this particular school? Why should they want you to go there? Tell them why you are a good match for each other. Look up the professors you want to work with, and name-drop in your applications.</li>
<li>Get feedback from other students that have written research statements. Then get feedback from the people writing your letters of recommendation.</li>
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Other components of your application</div>
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<li>Standardized test (GRE and TOEFL) -- don't look illiterate in the verbal</li>
<li>Personal statement -- women in computer science already stand out, so go ahead and ride that wave. If there is anything else unique about you, use it to your advantage</li>
<li>Funding -- If you have applied for funding (even if you do not know if you got it), committees look favorably on students that take the initiative to seek their own funding. NSF has funding for graduate students (e.g., <a href="http://www.nsfgrfp.org/">NSF Graduate Research Fellowship Program</a>).</li>
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Rough application timeline</div>
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<li>May -- August (end of Junior year)</li>
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<li>Take GRE</li>
<li>Think about recommendation letter writers</li>
<li>Research schools and professors</li>
<li>Narrow down research focus</li>
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<li>September -- October (beginning of Senior year)</li>
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<li>Ask for recommendation letters</li>
<li>Write research statements</li>
<li>Fill out applications</li>
<li>Fill out <a href="http://www.nsfgrfp.org/">NSF GRFP</a> application</li>
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<li>November -- December</li>
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<li>Submit applications</li>
<li>Submit <a href="http://www.nsfgrfp.org/">NSF GRFP</a></li>
<li>Follow up about recommendation letters</li>
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<li>February -- March</li>
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<li>Hear back from schools</li>
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<b>Q</b>: For international students: When applying to graduate schools, how often is it that your application is rejected because of lack of funding (e.g., need-based funding)? Does applying for funding diminish your chances of getting in to graduate school?</div>
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Aude: It won't affect your chances of getting in. If you get accepted for a PhD you will get financial aid. At the MS level it's different: if you're good then they will accept you; if you're in the top 5% you may get financial assistance.</div>
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<b>Q from Holly from University of Waterloo</b>: What are some of the courses that you really really wish you had taken but didn't have the chance to, or didn't think to at the time?</div>
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Katya: It's never too late to pick up a topic that you feel you missed. I did not take computer science in undergraduate. If your interests change you can get back on it. It is good to get advice from graduate students in your school to find out what they feel the core classes are and who the good professors are.</div>
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Judy: If you really like something, don't be afraid to delve deeper and take a graduate course as an undergrad. It will give you a godo idea if you really like that topic, and will help you to look good on an application.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: When you ask a professor for letters of recommendation, do you have to tell them the list of schools they are writing the letter for? Do they have to write a separate letter for each school? What if I'm still in the narrowing-down process?</div>
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A: The professor can help you figure out which universities to apply to. You can have a conversation with your professor.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: How many schools should you have when you're applying?</div>
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<br />A: I did it wrong. I applied to Top 3, and then Berkeley. Don't do just four. Remember when you were in high school they told you to apply to the really high ones, the middle ones, and the ones you know you'll get in to.</div>
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Judy: I applied to 9 schools. I think that was good. Because the schools are so specialized it's hard to know which one you'll fit in to, which one has nice professors, the school size -- you can't get a good sense of this stuff from just reading their website -- until you visit.</div>
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Katya: Apply for your dream school. You might as well. Dream school, middle schools, and safety schools.</div>
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Aude: You will likely live 5-6 years in the same location. So visit the school. If you can't stand the cold weather, don't go there, because you will be miserable.</div>
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Audience professor: Some schools will let you continue modifying your online application even after the deadline.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: How do you know what's a safety school, what's a top school?</div>
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Elena: I went to my professor and asked. You should apply to just one safety school. It should still be a good school but not highly ranked.</div>
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<b>Q</b> from Jesse from Rice University: When is a good time to go to grad school? Work experience in industry or right after undergraduate?</div>
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Elena: Some people have a hard time going back to graduate school after having been gone for a while. You go to grad school, the stipend is not that great compared to industry pay. Having to do homework. It is good, though, to go to industry to get perspective on what you want to do</div>
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Judy: Some companies will sponsor you to go to school. There are companies that will send you to school with the understanding that you will work for them for a few years afterwards. Some schools offer a 5th year option that grant you a Master's degree.</div>
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Elena: It's something you should get lots of opinions about, so that you can form your own opinion from those.</div>
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<br /><b>Q</b>: Thank you for being here to give us precious tips on how to apply for graduate school. I am a graduate student, but also: Surprise! I'm here to tell us about my school. I'm from University of North Texas. We have a dozen funded PhD positions in different domains and areas.</div>
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A: A plug for going to graduate school. It's awesome and where I learned to ski.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: Another general question related to the admission process. Should I get a MS before a PhD?</div>
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A: Having a Master's will increase the expectation that people will have of you. If you have an outside interest, you should take </div>
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<b>Q</b>: Is it good to put things that make you stand out, for example, screenwriting?</div>
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A: YES. That's something that will go in the personal statement.</div>
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<b>Q</b>: Should you get a Master's and a PhD in the same school or in different schools?</div>
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A: You apply to an MS/PhD program in many schools. It's possible to get a Master's in one school and go to another school in a PhD. But in many</div>
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<b>Q</b>: Is there anything of value in getting a Master's degree? Would you recommend it?</div>
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A: You want the escape pod. If you decide that you don't want to do the PhD, getting the Master's is a way to show that you spent time in graduate school.</div>
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Judy: If you get there and decide you don't like it, you can leave after you have your Master's. So you can apply for a PhD and know that there is an option.</div>
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PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-40940788522797247552012-10-04T13:51:00.001-07:002012-10-04T13:51:07.945-07:00Letter to my younger self: Things I wish I knew when I first started workingThis is a post about <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2012/event/letter-to-my-younger-self-things-i-wish-i-knew-when-i-first-started-working/">Letter to my younger self: Things I wish I knew when I first started working</a> at the <a href="http://gracehopper.org/">Grace Hopper Celebration for Women in Computing</a> conference, October 2012 in Baltimore, MD.<br />
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<b>Moderator</b>: Chiu-Ki Chan (Square Island LLC)<br />
<b>Panelists</b>: Rupa Dachere (CodeChix.org), Christina Schulman (Google)<br />
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The audience in the session was about 50% undergraduate students -- and Chiu-Ki said that most of the material is intended for undergraduate students.<br />
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<b>Christina</b>: Learn from your co-workers. <br />
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<li>Read their code, participate in code reviews. Do not work in isolation if you can help it. A fancy title does not count as leadership experience; strive for something more.</li>
<li>Ask about company and group processes in interviews. Companies with bad processes give you bad habits that are hard to break. Code reviews are a good sign. A lack of automated processes is a bad sign.</li>
<li>Work on things you do not already know how to do. Grow your abilities. Do not get stale. </li>
<li>Even if you are the perfect person for the job, it doesn't mean that it is the perfect job for you.</li>
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<b>Chiu-Ki</b>: What is the difference between school and work? In school, you take courses and you do exams. You have a clear path and you know when you are done: there is an end goal: graduation. At work you may not have that end goal. It may be clear. Another difference is at school, you have an advisor and professors helping you; at work, nobody is making sure you are growing and taking charge of your career. At school, you get grades so you know if you need to work a bit harder -- for example, if you get a B. At work, you have to figure out how you are evaluated. Your work does not speak for itself. If you are working hard, make sure that other people know what you are doing. Tell people what you are doing. An e-mail, for example, saying "Just a quick update on <i>X</i>" or "Took me a while to figure out how to do <i>X</i> but I figured it out and here is the solution." Answer e-mails right away. Even if you are not 100% sure of the answer, and even if you should probably verify -- just outline the steps that you would take. As your name appears more and more in a team setting, people come to associate you as someone that knows the answers. Learn to say no. In school, you cannot say, "This week I will not do this project." But at work, you have a say in the work that you take on. Question your projects and make sure they align with your goals. Defend your position and you will earn respect with your team.<br />
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<b>Rupa</b>: I will tell you the lessons I have learned on how to grow yourself.<br />
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<ul>
<li>When I started programming, I thought that writing beautiful, modular, efficient code was the key to doing well. But writing code is not enough to get a project done end to end, but getting a project done end to end is incredibly important. You need to grow yourself from a sous chef to a head chef. Be the person that glues the project together by appeasing people on both sides of the project. </li>
<li>Next, figure out your manager. Is s/he a morning person? What is her/his personality type? How will you help your manager help you? Learn to manage your boss.</li>
<li>Your review. This is the most difficult and stress-inducing things in our industry. </li>
<li>First, set concrete goals for every quarter. For me, my manager and I meet every quarter and discuss my goals. You never know what might change (the market, the economy, technology, ...). If your goals are not aligned with your manager's, you need to align them. Next, find out how your project and your team is viewed by your peers, your manager, and others. Mangage the perception of your accomplishments.</li>
<li>Know your review universe. Think of a Venn diagram and draw your review circles inside it. Is it your manager? The guy in the next cubicle that knows your personality? Do folks you worked with in the past have a say in your review? Network very well and understand the pieces that come together to affect your review.</li>
<li>Be genuine and be helpful.</li>
</ul>
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<b>Christina</b>: Networking.<br />
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<ul>
<li>You have to build your network <i>before</i> you need it. I am not saying that you have to go out and hold a big party every other month -- that is exhausting. But I am saying that the power of knowing a friend of a friend of a friend is powerful. Then you will never be looking for a job -- your next job will be looking for you.</li>
<li>Networking is about helping other people. Plan to put more into it than you get out of it. Most of the time you will be helping to connect people across your network. It's little benefit to you, but will be hugely beneficial to someone in your network. Don't be the person that is always asking for a favor -- call to say hello, or thank you, or invite to lunch. Your network should be broad and lacking in holes.</li>
<li>Carry a business card, dammit.</li>
</ul>
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<b>Rupa</b>: Negotiate your job offer</div>
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<ul>
<li>Figure out what is most important to you. Is it base salary, benefits, vacation time, commuter passes, free food, maternity leave, location, etc.? Rank these. Then, gather as much information as you can about things like base salary for the position based on your location and experience.</li>
<li>Keep calm. Be confident. And be really polite.</li>
</ul>
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<b>Skits!</b></div>
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<b>Act 1</b></div>
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A software engineering position to Rupa at Foosoft. Rupa wholeheartedly accepts.</div>
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[ Audience boos ]</div>
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<b>Act 2</b></div>
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Rupa negotiates: Can you do something about base salary, bonus, vacation, stock options, a pony... Christine says no to everything and they settle on the original offer.</div>
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[ Audience cheers ]</div>
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(You asked, and you didn't get it -- but you still got the original offer)</div>
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<b>Act 3</b></div>
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Rupa negotiates again, with a <i>higher competing offer.</i> The details of the offer are confidential.</div>
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[ Time passes ]</div>
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Christine comes back with a better offer and more stock but not as high as Rupa wants. Rupa now negotiates some more. Asks for a month of paid vacation.</div>
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[ Time passes ]</div>
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Christine offers a signing bonus. Rupa wholeheartedly accepts.</div>
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[ Audience cheers ]</div>
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More information is online at <a href="http://bit.ly/ghc12-letter">http://bit.ly/ghc12-letter</a>.</div>
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<b>Question and Answer</b></div>
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<b>Q from Emily from Portland State</b>: How do you go about handling competing offers coming at vastly different times?</div>
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Rupa: Rate the places you interviewed from most interesting to least interesting, and wait until you have an offer from the most interesting place.</div>
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Christine: Larger companies are aware that you will not graduate until June, so even with, say, a February offer you will not be expected to start until June.</div>
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<b>Q from Jo at LinkedIn</b>: I have a problem where I'm incredibly transparent about my enthusiasm. I have no poker-face. I can't negotiate. I'm just happy to do this job, and they can see it all over my face. How do I negotiate if it's so clear that I want it?</div>
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Rupa: What is your next step -- what are you trying to achieve? Change fields slightly? Set your goal and </div>
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Christine: I didn't negotiate my offer from Google because <i>I got an offer from Google</i>. Just ask, even if you're crying tears of happiness.</div>
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Chiu-Ki You don't have to be unhappy with an offer. You're just saying, "Can you do better?" Tell yourself to <i>just do it.</i> Ask. If that doesn't work it's a learning lesson. It's a back and forth.</div>
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Jo: This is very helpful for someone that is not a student and has gone through</div>
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<b>Q from Jana at Columbia</b>: What are disparities in pay between women and men like in tech, and how do you battle it?</div>
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Rupa: Go to those sites that I mentioned and find out the expected salary in your region. When you look up those numbers, put in a <i>male</i> name. That is one way to know what the going salary expectation is. These sites have a lot of information on the numbers and also the benefits.</div>
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Christine: Part of the reason that this disparity exists is because women don't negotiate. There is a good book called <i>Women Don't Ask</i></div>
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<b>Q from ??</b>: It is hard for me to think about making a mistake, translated into being overly cautious. I don't want to come across as silly or unaware.</div>
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Chiu-Ki That's the whole reason we had Act 1 and Act 2 for you. Nobody is going to say, "Oh, my gosh, she is <i>so aggressive"</i> for the rest of your career.</div>
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Rupa: I'd recommend that it's how you ask. Be polite. Use terminology that is not overly aggressive, but <i>ask</i>.</div>
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Christine: Research the heck out of it. Ask your fellow students what kind of offers they're getting and compare. Get them drunk first if you have to.</div>
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Chiu-Ki I practiced technical questions and presenting myself as a professional by going to interviews for jobs that I didn't care for. Then I had competing offers on the table so I had some data about what companies offer. If you don't care about the job, you'll be more comfortable asking questions and making mistakes.</div>
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Rupa: You should picture yourself as male. Fight for it like a man would do.</div>
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Chiu-Ki: I tried to push the boundary and realized that the boundary was not there.</div>
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Rupa: With a recruiter it's okay to be aggressive. They expect it.</div>
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<div>
<b>Q from Lauren from University of Richmond</b>: Is there a limit in the appropriateness of negotiations depending on the position that you're applying for?</div>
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Rupa: If you are, say, in a state that you are being expected to work full time but will be unable to fulfill the obligations, don't lie.</div>
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<br /></div>
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Christine: Are you asking if there's a number that is perceived as obnoxious? I'm an engineer; everything is less terrifying when you have data. It is perfectly reasonable to ask what is the range for this position, when you apply.</div>
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<br /></div>
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Rupa: Go to GlassDoor.com and read reviews on what companies are like to work for. Look up the atmosphere for the group as well.</div>
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<br /></div>
<div>
<b>Q from Liz from ?? College</b>: What would you tell someone that's entering the job market for the first time, that doesn't know what to get into?</div>
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<br /></div>
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Christine: It is hard to give a blanket statement. Work with people that know more than you do. The good thing about a start-up is that you have to do everything. In one place, I had to build my own desk; in some places, there are people that keep your computer running.</div>
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<br /></div>
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Rupa: My personal recommendation is, unless you are super entrepreneurial right off the bat, I would recommend a slightly mid-sized company so that you can learn the ropes. Once you learn the ropes, you can switch into a start-up where you have to know the ropes day one.</div>
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Chiu-Ki: My take on this? Internships. That's what they're for. Do one at a big company and do one at a start-up; then you have data.</div>
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<br /></div>
<div>
<b>Q from June from Indiana University of Wilmington</b>: ???</div>
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Christine: Ask the company how many shares they have standing and what their valuation is. Do not believe them when they say their stock will split many times when they go public.</div>
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<div>
<b>Q from ??</b>: How do you balance being aggressive with being diplomatic?</div>
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<br /></div>
<div>
Christine: Own your inner bitch.</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
[ Applause ]</div>
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<br /></div>
<div>
Chiu-Ki: Most of us are leaning toward the non-aggressive side. It will be a long time before you become a bitch. You don't wake up in the morning and go, "Am I bitchy today?" Unless you have been told that, it is not a valid concern.</div>
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<div>
<b>Q from ??</b>: What is a polite way to reject an offer?</div>
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Rupa: I had 45 interviews in 3 months. I would talk to the recruiter and say, "I am very sorry, I have a competing offer that I just cannot refuse. You understand; the market is really hot. I would like you to keep me in mind and I hope we can talk again at a later point."</div>
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END</div>
PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-21992050442134947882012-03-02T11:21:00.004-08:002012-03-02T11:22:17.977-08:00A rant on single-blind peer reviewLet's say you write something novel and clever and technical, and you submit it to a conference for consideration. If the paper is accepted, you will go to present the paper, and (depending on the conference) it can be published in some digital or paper proceedings. To determine if your paper (or poster, or whatever) is accepted, it undergoes what is called <i>peer review</i>. The program organizers electronically corral experts (or budding experts) in the field to read the submissions and provide critical feedback. These are your peers because they are in the same general field as you are. Some reviewers have more experience than you do, and others have less.<br />
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There are usually three or more reviewers per paper, and the reviews are usually in the following format.<br />
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<ul>
<li>There is a score which correlates the degree to which the reviewer thinks the paper should be accepted. For example:</li>
<ul>
<li>-3: Strong reject</li>
<li>-2: Reject</li>
<li>-1: Weak reject </li>
<li>0: Neutral</li>
<li>1: Weak accept</li>
<li>2: Accept</li>
<li>3: Strong accept</li>
</ul>
<li>There is a narrative describing the paper's strengths and weaknesses, suggestions for improvement, layout and organization, and critique of the bibliography. Reviewers answer the question of whether the paper makes a significant impact or contribution to whatever field the paper is representing.</li>
</ul>
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Sometimes there is a meta-review, provided by another peer, which synthesizes the other reviews into a short blurb.<br />
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Selecting papers for publication goes something like this. The reviewers' scores are tallied for each paper, and the papers are ordered from highest to lowest score. The program organizers decide how many papers to accept, and that number of the top-scoring papers is selected. If the reviewers provided any notes to the program organizers, or made specific suggestions for accepting or rejecting a paper, these submissions are taken on a case-by-case basis.<br />
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There are two types of peer review that are used most frequently: <i>single-blind</i> and <i>double-blind</i>. <br />
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For single-blind peer review, you submit your paper as it would be published, with your name and affiliation at the top. Reviewers can see this. But when you receive your paper reviews, you do not know who wrote which review because the reviewers' names are not provided. It is single-blind because it is blind to you, the author.<br />
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In double-blind peer review, you remove your name and affiliation from the paper, and try to anonymize it as much as possible. For example, if you write somewhere, "Our previous work at University of Waterbucket, our home institution," you would take out the reference to your institution's name. Reviewers are discouraged from trying to infer the authors of the paper, and thus should (in theory) not be biased based on your identity and the identities and affiliations of your co-authors. The reviews are also anonymous. It is double-blind because it is blind to the reviewers, and also to you, the author.<br />
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There are two reasons that I dislike single-blind peer review.<br />
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<b><br /></b><br />
<b>Because you are remembered</b><br />
<b><br /></b><br />
Pretend for a second that a particular reviewer has a chip on his (or her) shoulder about your research area. Or about specific methods which you might have used. For example, the researcher hates video games and thinks that people that play games are worthless in society, and your paper is about a game to examine social interactions, such as <a href="http://promweek.soe.ucsc.edu/">Prom Week</a> (which is a fun and lauded new Facebook game; if you have not tried it yet, do). The review will say something like this.<br />
<blockquote class="tr_bq">
Rating: -2 (Reject) -- The authors present a video game that lets the player make and break friendships in the week before the high school prom. The authors failed to cite relevant literature regarding the misuse of gaming technology and associated aggressiveness in players. The proposed game promotes poor behavior and sensationalizes high school relationships which are fundamentally flawed. Arguing for not accepting this paper.</blockquote>
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Now, you can get a review like this even with an anonymous paper. But what can happen <i>next</i> is that the reviewer remembers your name or affiliation -- consciously or otherwise. And when your name comes up again, either in another conference for which he (or she) is peer-reviewing, or dropped in conversation when networking, or presented as a Nobel Peace Prize recipient, the reviewer will remember you for the paper he (or she) rejected. Your name has been associated with That Thing He (or She) Hates (With a Passion). Even if you write on another topic entirely, you are remembered for the paper that was a flop.<br />
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<br />
<b>Because of the discourse</b><br />
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The second reason is that when you receive this angry or scathing or unfair review following the single-blind process, there is nothing you can do. When you do not know who he (or she) is, you cannot engage the reviewer in conversation; you cannot further the discourse of your disagreement. And when you do not know where he (or she) lives, you certainly cannot mail the reviewer a box of flaming poop.<br />
<br />PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-33137524204021371632012-03-01T13:28:00.003-08:002012-03-01T13:39:36.802-08:00Teaching HCI and JeopardyThis quarter, like most Winter quarters, I am a teaching assistant for the human-computer interaction (HCI) class on our campus. It is a mixed undergraduate and graduate class, and is cross-listed to two or three departments (this year: two). There is always a group project, and my job as a TA is to advise the groups on their projects. This was a slow week, in terms of project deliverables, so I thought we would spice up the discussion sections with a friendly game of Jeopardy.<br />
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A night or two before, I made a game using the software on <a href="http://jeopardylabs.com/">Jeopardy Labs</a> incorporating the topics in the first or second slide deck that the instructor provided on the course website. I took the questions -- err, the answers -- directly from the class notes, verbatim. One interesting thing to note is that we do not have regular assessments of rote memorization -- that is, there are no quizzes, no multiple-choice tests, and there is no final exam in the class. Instead, every assignment is project-based. It is an engineering course, and as such, we expect students to incorporate elements of theory and coursework into their engineering (or reverse-engineering) as required by the assignment.<br />
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So when I pulled out the first month's content in the Jeopardy game (which you can <a href="http://jeopardylabs.com/play/human-computer-interaction-topics-lecture-2">play online for free</a>) I was unsurprised at the number of wrong answers... though I did wish there were more correct answers. What I found surprising was each of the three discussion section's reaction to the game.<br />
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In section A, at 11am, four of the five groups actively participated in the game. Group sizes ranged from two to five students per group, with the two-person group leaving the game with 0 points (likely indicating that they did not answer any questions).<br />
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<table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="border-collapse: collapse; width: 225px;">
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<tr height="13">
<td class="xl24" height="13" style="text-align: left;" width="75"><b>Group</b></td>
<td class="xl24" style="text-align: right;" width="75"><b>Group Size</b></td>
<td class="xl25" style="text-align: right;" width="75"><b>Score</b></td>
</tr>
<tr height="13">
<td height="13">A.1</td>
<td align="right" x:num="4.0">4</td>
<td align="right" x:num="300.0">300</td>
</tr>
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<td height="13">A.2</td>
<td align="right" x:num="3.0">3</td>
<td align="right" x:num="-400.0">-400</td>
</tr>
<tr height="13">
<td height="13">A.3</td>
<td align="right" x:num="3.0">3</td>
<td align="right" x:num="-500.0">-500</td>
</tr>
<tr height="13">
<td height="13">A.4</td>
<td align="right" x:num="5.0">5</td>
<td align="right" x:num="-1900.0">-1900</td>
</tr>
<tr height="13">
<td height="13">A.5</td>
<td align="right" x:num="2.0">2</td>
<td align="right" x:num="0.0">0</td>
</tr>
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Negative points indicated groups that would volunteer to answer a particular question (or provide the question for a particular answer) but would get it wrong -- thus subtracting rather than adding the points. Group A.1 won the game with 300 points; Group A.4 had the lowest number of points at -1900. Several members of the group, representing the largest group in the section, would attempt answering the most difficult questions -- frequently getting the answers wrong -- but engaging the class in merriment commiserating on their loss (after loss, after loss) of points.<br />
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The total points awarded in Section A was the sum of the absolute value of each group's points, or 3100.<br />
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In Section A, I did not allow other groups to answer the question after one group provided an incorrect answer. I did, however, provide hints when the answers were not given quickly. For example, I read: "This technique is used to test a system or complicated components of a system that do not exist."<br />
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One student was rubbing his head, and another was softly muttering under his breath: "Oh, oh, I remember this, oh!" -- or "I can even visualize the diagram, with the one guy in a different room with the curtain drawn."<br />
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I said, "That's right, it's like he is a man behind the curtain."<br />
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I waited a little longer.<br />
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"Dorothy would use this technique."<br />
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"Ding ding! What is Wizard of Oz?"<br />
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"That's right!" I exclaimed.<br />
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Section A played the game with a great, positive attitude. One student said, "This is fun! We should do this again!" to which I replied, with a wink, that next week, another game awaits.<br />
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Section B, at 12:30pm, had three groups. In this section, the largest group (B.2) had the most points at the end of the game, and the smallest group (B.1) had the least points. There were 1700 points distributed in Section B, indicating that groups had the chance to make a comeback -- the point total does not capture if a team has a string of bad luck followed by a string of good luck, or otherwise has a mix of correct and incorrect answers. Each of the three groups actively participated in the game, and, when I threatened another game next week, a student responded that it's high time to study. Right answer!<br />
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<table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="border-collapse: collapse; width: 225px;">
<colgroup><col span="3" width="75"></col>
</colgroup><tbody>
<tr height="13">
<td class="xl24" height="13" style="text-align: left;" width="75"><b>Group</b></td>
<td class="xl24" style="text-align: right;" width="75"><b>Group Size</b></td>
<td class="xl25" style="text-align: right;" width="75"><b>Score</b></td>
</tr>
<tr height="13">
<td height="13">B.1</td>
<td align="right" x:num="2.0">2</td>
<td align="right" x:num="-500.0">-500</td>
</tr>
<tr height="13">
<td height="13">B.2</td>
<td align="right" x:num="5.0">5</td>
<td align="right" x:num="800.0">800</td>
</tr>
<tr height="13">
<td height="13">B.3</td>
<td align="right" x:num="3.0">3</td>
<td align="right" x:num="400.0">400</td>
</tr>
</tbody></table>
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Students in both Section A and Section B avoided the Grounded Theory category like the plague. The last category standing, one student in Section B asked, "Can you give us a hint on what Grounded Theory is? Before I select it as a category?"<br />
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I thought for a moment, about whether to facepalm or giggle. Instead I just stared blankly at the student until he said, "Uh, never mind -- I'll take Grounded Theory for 100."<br />
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In Section B, I provided more hints. "These can be administered to large populations and can include open or closed items," I read from the screen. I waited a few moments. "It starts with a Q." I waited a few more moments. "The second letter is a U."<br />
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"Ding ding!" a student called.<br />
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"Ding?" I asked.<br />
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"What is a questionnaire?" the student answered.<br />
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"Correct!" I said, bouncing a little. "Good job!"<br />
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Section C was the smallest of the three sections, with just two student groups. There were 3000 points awarded in this section. But what struck me most was the feeling that the game was unfair. I mentioned earlier that we do not have regular quizzes or other assessment techniques to test memorization and rote learning. However, a huge amount of content is presented -- content that somehow needs to be learned, mastered, <i>and applied</i> to the course project and other design activities.<br />
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<tr height="13"><td class="xl24" height="13" style="text-align: left;" width="75"><b>Group</b></td><td class="xl24" style="text-align: right;" width="75"><b>Group Size</b></td><td class="xl25" style="text-align: right;" width="75"><b>Score</b></td></tr>
<tr height="13"><td height="13">C.1</td><td align="right" x:num="2.0">5</td><td align="right" x:num="-500.0">2300</td></tr>
<tr height="13"><td height="13">C.2</td><td align="right" x:num="5.0">2</td><td align="right" x:num="800.0">700</td></tr>
</tbody></table>
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The student argued that this activity, playing Jeopardy with HCI concepts and terms from lecture, was testing <i>just that</i> -- memorization. Further, he said, designing a system using HCI concepts, and calling out the concepts by name, are two different things. You can look up the names. But you should be able to describe the concepts.<br />
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Further, he said, the class size was unfair. Assuming that each student can answer five percent of the questions correctly (I raised my eyebrows -- hoping he said 95% and I misheard), the student argued that there were simply not enough students in the section to make critical knowledge mass necessary to produce correct answers.<br />
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I argued that part of the course is learning how to convey your ideas to an audience, and how to persuade others in the HCI field that your methods are consistent and well-grounded. And the only way you can do that is to know the terms, to speak the language. What's more, I said, it only takes one person that knows 100% of the content to produce correct answers. The number of students in the class should not matter. You should each know all of the content.<br />
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If an HCI student cannot tell me, the TA, the difference between performance measurement and retrospective testing, or the difference between latent and manifest content, does that mean he or she does not remember the terms, or does it mean that he or she does not understand them? Can you make an affinity diagram if you cannot remember it from lecture? Can you apply Grounded Theory when you do not select it as a category in Jeopardy because the entire concept draws a blank for you?<br />
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I have TAed classes with weekly quizzes, and classes without. My opinion is that (short) weekly quizzes help the instructor and teaching staff in two ways:<br />
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<li>Weekly quizzes give the students a list of solid topics to study each week.</li>
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Maybe HCI should bring back the weekly quiz, so that a little bit of repetition and memorization makes its way to the curriculum. Or maybe we need to reconsider the course project, and see how we can better incorporate the terms and concepts from lecture into the project. That is the danger of creating adequate project requirements: leaving the requirements too open allows students to disregard the formalism; closing them too much stifles creativity.</div>
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What do you think?</div>PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-4423938903498011212012-02-25T10:02:00.001-08:002012-02-25T10:30:08.822-08:00Reblogged: How to have a baby in graduate school<br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">Having babies in grad school: what do you need to make it work? </span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana; white-space: pre-wrap;">This article was published in ACM-W Winter 2011 newsletter, written by three women grad students (two with children, one without). The article highlights why graduate school is an excellent time to have a child, and outlines strategies for success. I reblog it here with permission from the editor, and include tags which link it to the <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2011/conference/schedule-at-a-glance/friday-november-11-2011/#">associated Birds of a Feather session</a> at <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2011">Grace Hopper Celebration for Women in Computing 2011</a>.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #fff2cc;"><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">A. </span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">Holloway</span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">, C. Sadowski and L. Vega. </span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">Babies</span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;"> in </span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">Graduate</span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;"> </span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">School</span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">: </span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">Making</span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;"> It </span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">Happen</span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">. ACM-W CIS Newsletter: Celebrating, Informing, & Supporting </span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">Women in Computing, 2011. 3.</span></span><br />
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<b id="internal-source-marker_0.9991762412246317"><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Babies in Graduate School: Making it Happen</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">by Alexandra Holloway, Caitlin Sadowski, and Laurian Vega</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">{fire,supertri}@soe.ucsc.edu, laurian@vt.edu</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Abstract</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">There is never a perfect time to have a baby, but the present is always a good time. For women in graduate school, pregnancy and child-rearing present unique opportunities and challenges. In this article, we discuss ongoing perceptions about mothers in academia, including common prejudices and preconceptions. Although certain trends are helping mothers pursue a tenure-track position or re-enter the work force after starting a family, key challenges still exist for starting a family in graduate school. These challenges include maintaining both good interpersonal relations between partners and good professional relations within our graduate departments. We propose a checklist of the key ingredients for success in childbirth in graduate school—the things we found most important in our own and others’ experiences for starting a family early in academia. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Background</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Motherhood is a crosscutting concern for women spanning economic, religious, and cultural groups. A known problem is the “motherhood penalty:” mothers are rated as less competent and committed to paid work than non-mothers, are given less slack about being late, and may be offered a lower starting salary [1]. In fact, within particular demographics the pay gap between mothers and non-mothers is larger than the pay gap between women and men [2]. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">These challenges are particularly disparaging due to their inequity; children provide a benefit for men and a penalty for women. Fathers are rated as more committed than non-fathers, are given more slack about being late, and may be offered a higher starting salary [1]. In academia, men with young babies are 38% more likely than women with young babies to achieve tenure [7]. Perhaps a partial reason for this difference is the social expectations about who will care for children. For example, a survey of more than 440 faculty in the University of California system found that women with children spend almost twice as many hours per week acting as caregivers than men [7].</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Taken together, all of these statistics present a daunting picture for a women thinking about, or starting to venture into, motherhood. Recognizing the problem and educating co-workers is the first step to combating these biases against mothers. Furthermore, research has demonstrated that a mother’s ability to do science does not disappear after having a child. For example, a 2004 survey of German postdocs found that there was not a difference in scientific productivity between scientist mothers and female scientist non-mothers [5]. A similar study looking at working mothers across disciplines in the Netherlands also did not find a productivity difference between mothers and non-mothers [10]. Additionally, working mothers have been shown to have better physical and mental health, higher self-esteem, and financial stability [11]. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Much of the difficulty with academia and motherhood is due to the fact that it is difficult to re-enter the pipeline once a woman drops out of the academic workforce [6, 7]. If time is taken off because of a difficult pregnancy or even just to spend time with a young infant, it can be challenging to return to academia. Some programs, such as British Daphne Jackson Fellowships, exist to help female scientists return to the pipeline after taking a leave of absence [5]. Unfortunately, programs to support mothers are not mandatory—not even paid maternity leave. Given the problems apparent at all stages in the academic pipeline, graduate school may be a particularly good time to have children before entering the tenure race. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Recently, awareness has increased of the challenges of combining motherhood with a career in academia as a whole and science in particular [3, 8]. Universities and organizations are taking some steps to improve the position of women who want to combine motherhood with a career in science. Part-time and “stop-the-clock” tenure-track options, which provide additional time before tenure reviews, are becoming more popular [5]. Progress is being made to change the landscape of women in academia. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">We present this article for two purposes. The first is to start engaging in the discussions about motherhood in computer science. The second is to raise awareness on aspects of motherhood as a graduate student. With many female graduate students lacking female academic role models (not to mention role models who have children or who are pregnant), computer science as a field is particularly prone to the biases discussed above. To help raise awareness, in this article we describe personal experiences with motherhood in computer science graduate school. We start by discussing problems for women in graduate school, and then provide advice and personal experience on how we combated these problems. We then consider how computer science as a field can respond to—and support—parents in graduate school.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Time Is Ticking</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Women in computer science are a rare breed. Mothers in computer science, at any stage of academia, are an even rarer occurrence. One large problem for any woman in academia having a child is the lack of communal knowledge about and support for this life-changing phase. Computer Science departments may be particularly prone to this problem, particularly at the graduate school level. For example, when one author when told her department chair that she was pregnant and needed to change teaching assignments, the response was not one of congratulations, nor condemnation—but more one of confusion: “What? Students can get pregnant?”</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Graduate school involves unique time pressures. Three considerations in graduate student family life are personal relationships, financial challenges, and the ticking biological clock. We do not have any magic bullets, but we do have key considerations we wish that someone had passed on to us when our babies were “loading.”</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Time == Love</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Few graduate students strictly adhere to a nine-to-five schedule. Instead, we work in the evenings, nights, and weekends, playing a careful balancing game between work and personal life. This can lead to multitasking and unclear divisions between work and home life: while our code is compiling we may be heating up a bottle, running a load of laundry down to the washer, or quickly uploading baby pictures. Time is precious, and given how little of it is available, finding time to spend with a romantic partner can be vital. Given that leisure time spent with a significant other is already limited, how can we find the additional time to devote to a baby? Will having a child put too much stress on our adult relationship? </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Grad_school != money</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Graduate student research assistants are compensated by university fees and a living wage stipend, which is less than minimum wage when factoring in the long hours spent working. In a family composed of two graduate students and no outside support, money can be stretched thin. According to the National Association of Child Care Resources and Referral Agencies, child care for infants or toddlers costs between $4,388 and $14,647 per year [12]. To put this within the range of the authors’ graduate stipend, child care alone costs half of our pay, without even accounting for the additional costs of having a child. We ask ourselves: How can we find the money to have a baby?</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Time –= 1</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">For many graduate students, the refrain is the same: “I will wait until my Ph. D. to have children.” Then: “I will wait until I have a faculty position.” Then: “I will wait until tenure.” For men as well as for women, advanced age can contribute to decreased fertility [13,14], a more complicated pregnancy and birth [15], and other possible complications. Further, it can take some time—in some cases, as long as a year or more—to become pregnant; then, once pregnant, the normal side effects of pregnancy, such as nausea and fatigue, can negatively affect job performance. How long should we wait to have a baby? How can can we make time to have a child?</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Why Grad School?</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">With these very compelling constraints, why is graduate school a good time to have a baby? First, a graduate student’s schedule is malleable. Especially after coursework is complete, a research schedule is generally flexible, allowing the student to work around the baby’s schedule (and the parents to work around each others’ schedules). Not all universities support tenure programs like stop-the-clock, nor do all employers support extended time off after giving birth. However, it is possible to take a semester off after having a child. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Second, graduate students have youth—hence, energy and creativity—on their side. A young person can adapt to circumstantial challenges and can overcome obstacles more easily. Moreover, grad students are surrounded by equally young peers who can help with occasional, free babysitting to let a new mom (or dad) study or sleep. If the grad student’s parents are available, they are also likely to be younger, making it easier for them to travel and lend a hand.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Third, a grad student’s support network is more flexible. Whether due to pregnancy complications or postpartum mayhem, changing teaching assignments formally within the department, or trading schedules with a peer informally, can be easy as a graduate student.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Finally, we answer a question with a question: Why wait?</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Strategies for Success</span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Having a new baby can be a rewarding yet challenging time for any family. In the first months, the parents are up throughout the night, frequently as often as every two hours—and that is if everything is all right. Meanwhile, meals need to be made, the house needs to be cleaned, and, perhaps most importantly, graduate work needs to move forward. These are the ingredients we have found to be key in making childbearing in graduate school a reality.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">A Supportive Advisor</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">An advisor that supports his or her student’s decision, both in word and in deed, to have a baby is a keeper. The support can be as mild as suggesting ways in which to make sure classes are completed prior to the birth of the child; providing a flexible schedule to allow the student to work in the time between infant feedings; relaxing the deadlines, understanding that the student’s probable decrease in productivity is temporary (although one atypical new mom reported clocking in 80 hours the week after giving birth to twin girls). One progressive advisor suggested to her student that she Skype in to all of her classes after giving birth, and allowed all work to be completed from home.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">If your advisor seems cool to the fact, ask outright about his or her feelings about your impending motherhood. The battle over work responsibilities will not stop at the baby’s birth but will continue until either you graduate or you move to a different advisor. If your advisor assumes you will continue producing at the pre-pregnancy level without missing a beat, one of you may end up disappointed. Think proactively.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Adequate Me-Time</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">With all the work that is waiting, it is easy to lose focus of what is also important: </span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">You</span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">. Not to make having a child seem insurmountable, but there are times when your child is first born when time feels like the enemy. There is just not enough of it to sleep, work, and eat. This lack of time can lead to the malaise that overworking and under-sleeping induces. There are two things that can help you re-charge and re-focus. The first is spending time telling people objectively how cute your kid is, and breathing in the new-baby smell of your kid’s hair. The second is taking time for yourself. Find time to read a book, go on a walk, play video games, go to the gym, or do whatever it is you need to do to recharge. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Although it may be difficult, realize that there are times where you might have to put your career first. There are times when your kid is sick, and he really wants to be held, but you have to get that paper edited by midnight. For one of the authors, her baby boy had just had surgery for ear-tubes earlier that day, but because there was an important networking event that night, she had to leave her child with her partner. There will be conflicts between your career and your family. Knowing that sometimes it is okay to put your career first can help with this dichotomy.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">An Amazing Partner</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">A pinch of prevention is worth a pound of cure. If a partner is involved, having an honest conversation with him or her, in advance, about what is expected postpartum can smooth the new-parent transition. Who is going to do the laundry? change midnight diapers? go grocery shopping? If no partner is involved, the bright side is that there will be no conflict about who will do all of these things. There is not any way that you can prepare for everything before the baby comes, but setting expectations will help. For one of the authors, having a partner who understood that she might be a mom, but her career was important, made a large difference. This meant talking about how soon she might want to return to work, what child care options were available, visiting the child care centers together, and setting some ground rules. Those rules included who pays certain bills, who gets to work which nights late, who stays home when the child is sick, and who does the grocery shopping. If a partner is not responsive to talking about these issues, parenthood, in general, can become very difficult. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">A second benefit of an amazing partner is having someone who values your experience. The shock of being walked in on while expressing milk with a breast pump in a mostly male department is, to put it mildly, upsetting. Or, when people start asking you if you are planning on staying in graduate school now that you are pregnant (because pregnant women should be barefoot and cooking), you need someone at home who will let you express your feelings and then help you react. Or, when you get told for what feels like the hundredth time that, “You must have a very supportive partner,” and you realize that a man in the same position would not get told the same thing, a discussion with your partner about the (hopefully unconsciously) biased workplace is key for your own sanity.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Trustworthy Child Care</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">You can’t start code-slinging again when you literally have your baby in a sling. Find someone that you can trust your child with, even if it is for only a few hours. </span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Trust</span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> is the key part in that sentence: check with friends, listservs, and websites for good home care, child care centers, and nanny shares. Talk to pregnant women; talk to both men and women swinging their toddlers in the park. They face the same decisions, and have probably investigated some of the same, or different, options. One point of advice, though: mom-networks are often sources of second-hand information (e.g., Sally says that Sue says...). Verify anything you hear.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">There are many options for trustworthy child care, even though it might not feel like it: day care, live-in nanny, live-out nanny, nanny-share, au pair, and stay-at-home partner are just a few of the options. Just because you visited a child care center when pregnant and you </span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">know</span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> that it is the right place for your child, that does not mean that in six months you will still feel the same way, when you leave your kid there for the first time. Similarly, just because </span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">you</span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> like your child care solution does not mean that your </span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">child</span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> will. Anything can happen: your nanny might move (or graduate); your child care center might close down; you might realize school is too far from the center. It is important to stay adaptive and recognize that you can find alternate creative solutions.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">A Support Network</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Tap into your family network: your parents, your partner’s parents, and even cousins, aunts, and uncles. One of the authors was able to attend classes for a quarter by asking her partner to take her infant every Tuesday, and mother to come every Thursday for ten weeks. Ask friends. Be creative, accept help when it is offered, ask for help before it is needed, and be thankful.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Having a baby changes your outlook on life. Suddenly, your priorities shift entirely, and it can be a bit of a culture shock to realize that you have a hard time relating to the friends who have not yet had children. If they are interested and supportive of your life’s changes, bring them up to speed and include them as much as they like. But also, find other new and expectant moms that can share your experiences. Even if you are the only female graduate student you know, we promise that you are not the only mom in town. Find others who are having kids. Your ob/gyn may know of a working-mom support group, and you could ask your graduate school about any university-wide efforts. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">A Positive and Grounded Outlook</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">As a final note in the checklist, be positive and celebrate your accomplishments as they come. Enjoy these limited years with Thesis Baby as much as possible and keep the big picture in mind. In the grand scheme of things, your child’s infancy and toddler years, and your dissertation years, are short. For many working women, compartmentalizing motherhood and academia is an ongoing battle: when working on your research, you feel like a bad mother because you are neglecting your child, yet when with your child, you feel like a bad student because you are neglecting your work. Our advice is to remember the big picture, and try not to let the guilt take over. Being a grad student is mental exercise and is as important as having a child. Both of these aspects of your life make you a complete, unique, and fascinating woman.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Making It Happen</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">One mother-professor, known to store expressed breastmilk in her laboratory refrigerator, quoted Gandhi: “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” The only way to change perceptions of, and biases associated with, mother-students, mother-faculty, and mother-professionals is to gently, firmly, and consistently prove these perceptions wrong. Show the world that it can be done: mothers defend their dissertations; mothers produce quality work; mothers are incredible, productive professors and industry professionals. </span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Conclusion</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Having a child is a life-altering event, no matter when the child comes. However, being a student should not impact a mother’s decision to have a child. Computer science and engineering, to succeed as disciplines, are positioned to examine how to support students with lifestyle circumstances such as having a child in graduate school. Our generation of student-mothers paves the way for student-mothers that come after us. In this article we presented reasons having a child in graduate school are favorable yet difficult, and have presented some of the tools and strategies that have helped make our experiences with being student-parents easier. Finally, we end this article with a request from the authors to women faculty: be the kind of role model you would want to have.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">References</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">[1] S. Correll, S. Benard, and I. Paik. Getting a Job: Is There a Motherhood Penalty? American Journal of Sociology, 112(5):1297–1338, 2007.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">[2] A. Crittenden. The price of motherhood: Why the most important job in the world is still the least valued. Metropolitan Books, 2001.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">[3] E. Evans and C. Grant, editors. Mama, PhD: Women Write About Motherhood and Academic Life. Rutgers University Press, 2008.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">[4] G. Gehring. Mixing motherhood and science. Physics World, 15(3):18–19, 2002.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">[5] V. Gewin. Baby blues. Nature, 433:780–781, 2005.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">[6] M. Mason and M. Goulden. Do Babies Matter (Part II)? Closing the Baby Gap. Academe, November–December, 2004.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">[7] M.Mason and M. Goulden. Marriage and baby blues: Redefining gender equity in the academy. The Annals of the American Academy of Political and Social Science, 596(1):86, 2004.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">[8] E. Monosson, editor. Motherhood, The Elephant in the Laboratory: Women Scientists Speak Out. Cornell University Press, 2008.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">[9] S. V. Rosser and M. Z. Taylor. Expanding Women’s Participation in US Science. Global Education, 30(3), 2008.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 15px; font-weight: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">[10] C. Wetzels. Does motherhood really make women less productive? The case of the Netherlands. 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Acta Obstetricia et Gynecologica Scandinavica, 86(11), 1328–1336, 2007.</span></b>PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-2409542813054402302012-02-13T14:27:00.000-08:002012-02-13T18:02:08.384-08:00Choosing a birth facility in five easy stepsHow do you choose where to give birth? This post attempts to answer the question of <i>how</i> to choose where to give birth -- where to look for data, and what questions to ask yourself.<br />
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In the region of the US where I practice, for low-risk pregnancies, there are basically two options: birth at home with a midwife, and birth in a hospital with whoever happens to be on call (sometimes this is your own doctor or midwife).<br />
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Choosing a <i>safe </i>homebirth requires forethought. I am not an advocate for unassisted birth, with no medical professional on hand to help. I think that choosing a homebirth is a big deal and requires sufficient preparation. Selecting a homebirth midwife is a lot like selecting a doula, except there is more responsibility involved in a midwife. (And, you should have a doula as well.) Here are some things to ask your midwife when you consider birth at home.<br />
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<li>How long do you spend in prenatal visits with me? Midwives are known to spend longer in each prenatal visit with their clients than obstetricians or doctors.</li>
<li>How do I prepare and educate myself for birth? Some midwives teach their own homebirth childbirth preparation classes.</li>
<li>When I am in labor, when will you come to my house? How long will you spend with me in labor? Midwives vary widely on when they will arrive. Some will arrive in active labor and will provide doula-like support throughout the birth. Most will arrive at the end of active labor, in time for pushing, to help you have the baby.</li>
<li>How many assistants do you have, and will they be coming to help with the labor? Some midwives send their assistant(s) first for support, and will come later. Others come with their assistants. There should be at least two trained midwives with you: one for you, and one for the baby.</li>
<li>What kind of equipment do you provide? Some midwives will bring a birth (yoga) ball and/or birth stool, and may rent a tub for you to labor in.</li>
<li>What kind of emergency equipment do you have in your midwifery kit, and under what circumstances do you use it? This should be standard, but should include oxygen, Pitocin, sutures, etc. The oxygen can be administered to the mother or the baby; Pitocin helps with postpartum bleeding; and sutures are used to sew up any lacerations (tears) in the mother.</li>
<li>What are the factors that will cause a transfer to the hospital in labor? This is fairly standard as well. Expect answers such as labor before 36 weeks gestation (preterm baby), induced labor (ask when induction will occur), meconium in the amniotic fluid at any point in labor, baby's heart rate decelerating (measured with intermittent monitoring), bag of waters being open for over a certain amount of time (24 hours, 36 hours), and maternal fever, to name a few. Some midwives will not deliver breech babies and multiples (twins, triplets).</li>
<li>How long will you stay with me postpartum, and how often will you check on me and the baby? Expect that the midwife will stay at least a couple hours postpartum, until you are settled with the baby, and will check on you frequently in the following days.</li>
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Of course, you can also ask about transfer rates (the percentage of mothers that transfer to the hospital), c-section rates, emergency intervention rates, and so on, but that may not give you a good idea of what the midwife brings to the birth. These numbers could tell you her willingness to relinquish control, or to "allow" interventions to happen to the mother, but there is a chance that all it tells you is whether she has had a run of good luck or a run of bad luck.</div>
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Research what other mothers said about their home birth. Check out <a href="http://thebirthsurvey.org/">The Birth Survey</a> project, which is a self-reporting tool in which mothers can enter their own experiences and information in the months after their birth. Keep in mind that these data may be skewed because of selection bias: this is not a randomized study, and mothers choose whether or not to participate.</div>
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Finally, skip to <i>Step 5: You are not locked in</i>. Though it may be trickier to switch home birth providers later in pregnancy, it can be done.</div>
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<b>Birth in a hospital</b></div>
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Choosing a hospital can be a hairy task. No two hospitals are alike. I hope this guide will help you narrow down your choices.</div>
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<i>Step 1: Choose a non-profit hospital.</i></div>
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Nathaneal Johnson of California Watch (2010) reported that <a href="http://californiawatch.org/health-and-welfare/profit-hospitals-performing-more-c-sections-4069">for-profit hospitals have a higher c-section rate than non-profit hospitals</a>. And that increase in c-section rates is nontrivial: mothers giving birth at a for-profit hospital have a 17% higher chance of delivering surgically. For-profit hospitals are more likely to perform costly procedures, less likely to serve under-served populations, and less likely to have breastfeeding success.</div>
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<i>Step 2: Figure out what's important.</i></div>
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Priorities the importance of the following things: cost of birth, mode of delivery (vaginal vs c-section), c-section rate, breastfeeding success, diversity of population served, infant outcomes, whether you will have a room mate, what language(s) are spoken, where your doctor/midwife practices, how many residents (trainees) there are, how close the facility is to where you will spend most of your labor, and any other factors you consider important to you.</div>
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<i>Step 3: Do the research.</i></div>
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There are several ways to look at birth facts. Check out <a href="http://www.healthgrades.com/">Health Grades</a> and search for the hospitals in your area. In California, you can use <a href="http://californiawatch.org/">California Watch</a> to look at statistics. For example, say I wanted to compare <a href="http://www.sfdph.org/">San Francisco General Hospital</a> (SFGH) and <a href="http://www.ucsfhealth.org/">UCSF Medical Center</a> (UCSF) -- both non-profit teaching hospitals in the center of San Francisco, California.<br />
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Figure 1 shows the <a href="http://projects.californiawatch.org/c-sections/hospital/san-francisco-general-hospital/">California Watch page for SFGH</a>. Interesting things to note here: the decreasing trend of the low-risk c-section rate across three years, and the most recent reported average is 11.10% in 2007, much lower than the US average of 33%. This is very reassuring if mode of delivery is important to you and/or you wish to avoid a c-section. The Hospital Info section below tells you that SFGH is a non-profit teaching hospital that caters to under-served families, with over 60% of the patients coming from a low-income household. If breastfeeding is important, the 88.90% exclusive breastfeeding rate is a very good sign, and there is a positive correlation between beginning breastfeeding in the hospital before discharge and continuing to breastfeed for at least a few months postpartum. Finally, the (risk-adjusted) VBAC (vaginal birth after c-section) rate is a promising 30.23%.</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b>Figure 1</b>: Decreasing c-section rate for<br />
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Figure 2 shows the <a href="http://projects.californiawatch.org/c-sections/hospital/ucsf-medical-center/">California Watch page for UCSF</a>. You will notice that it is very similar to SFGH: relatively low c-section rate of 14.20% in 2007 (compared to the US average of 33%), even when you look at the base c-section rate: 19.47% of all mothers, even high-risk mothers, deliver surgically. About 30% of the patients are low-income, judging by the insurance carrier. The breastfeeding success rate is 74.77%, which is still very good -- three quarters of all babies born at UCSF are exclusively breastfed when they check out. The risk-adjusted VBAC rate is 24.23%, which is fairly good.</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b>Figure 2</b>: Information on the University of California - San Francisco<br />
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Another thing these charts do not tell you include whether or not vaginal breech birth is attempted at each hospital (it is).<br />
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<a href="http://www.healthgrades.com/">Health Grades</a> gives both of these hospitals one star for maternity (worst grade possible), but it is unclear <i>why</i>. So let's take a look. Figure 3 shows that San Francisco General Hospital (SFGH) and UCSF Medical Center (UCSF) each has one star. SFGH reports 64% of the cases that UCSF received in 2011 -- implying that SFGH is a smaller hospital. But here is where it gets interesting.<br />
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At SFGH, 2544 women delivered vaginally (79.62% of all women that delivered at SFGH in 2011), 12.23% (N=311) had complications related to the vaginal delivery. But the national average for complications is 8.21% so we would expect only 209 women to have had complications. So <i>more women</i> have complications at SFGH due to vaginal delivery than the US average.<br />
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We know that SFGH had a 11.10% c-section rate (in 2007) from Figure 1 and we will assume the same c-section rate in 2011. In Figure 3, we see that there is a 20.28% c-section <i>complication</i> rate. That is, of the 651 women that delivered by c-section at SFGH, 20.28% of them (N=132) had complications related to the surgery (e.g., infection, excessive bleeding, etc.). But, the national average is 4.34% so we would have expected only 29 women to have had complications. So, the c-section complication rate at SFGH is <i>more than four times</i> the US average.<br />
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At UCSF, 3745 women delivered vaginally (74.81%). Of these, 15.09% had complications (N=565). The national average for complications related to vaginal delivery is 8.21%, so we would have expected only 308 women to have complications. The vaginal delivery complication rate at UCSF is <i>almost twice</i> the US average.<br />
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Now, UCSF's c-section<i> </i>complication rate is a little worse than SFGH's, at 13.16%. That is, of the 1261 women that had c-sections, 13.16% of them (N=166) had complications. Since the national average is 4.34%, we would have expected 55 women to have had complications. The c-section complication rate at UCSF is <i>three times</i> the US average.<br />
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Health Grades does not explain the "Newborn Survival" column so we have to take it at face value, and, if possible, compare the newborn survival (text) across the hospitals we wish to examine.</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b>Figure 3</b>: One-star ratings in maternity care for San Francisco General Hospital <br />
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If we wish to investigate whether there is a difference between any of the following, we can run a quick Chi-square on the data from Figure 3.<br />
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<li>SFGH and the national average, in terms of vaginal and c-section complications</li>
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We find that indeed, <i>there is a difference</i> in all of these categories. Although calculating Chi-square does not give us the direction of the relationship, we can see that SFGH and UCSF both fare poorer than the national average, and that c-section births at UCSF are more than twice as likely as expected to have associated complications. Yikes! Figure 4 contains all of these calculations.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b>Figure 4</b>: All correlations for SFGH, UCSF, and the national average.</td></tr>
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Research what other mothers said about their birth experience at the facility you choose. Check out <a href="http://thebirthsurvey.org/">The Birth Survey</a> project, which is a self-reporting tool in which mothers can enter their own experiences and information in the months after their birth. Keep in mind that these data may be skewed because of selection bias. For example, SFGH has 60% under-served population; are mothers from this group more or less likely to fill out an online survey than higher-income mothers, in the interests of science?</div>
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Ask your friends about their experiences in the facilities. One gal I know praised her birth facility for its harp music and tea time in tones that I understood to be insincere. Then she divulged that she had a room mate, and she hated the experience of someone else's baby crying in the night next to her own bed. No amount of tea could make that memory go away.</div>
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Knowing, on paper, that these hospitals are so similar, how can you choose the right one for you? Visit. Maybe it is a prenatal appointment with a midwife or obstetrician. Maybe it is a procedure, like lab work or the 20-week ultrasound. Maybe it is a maternity center tour. Get a feel for the dynamics of the hospital, for the nursing staff, and for the check-in and check-out procedure. Imagine arriving in labor at rush hour. Is it crazy, with papers flying and nurses pulling their hair out? Or is it a smooth and calm atmosphere? If it is a teaching hospital, ask when the new residents start their training. If their first week corresponds to your due date, and that makes you nervous, that could be a strike in the "no" column. If you are taking a tour, look around the birth room and ask what kinds of things the nurses usually try to help a mother labor. Look for answers that promote relaxation (e.g., birth ball, music player), movement (e.g., waterproof wireless fetal monitors), and hydrotherapy (e.g., bath tub, shower). Ask about routine procedures and if any of them can be skipped (e.g., pubic shaving, IV, Pitocin for labor augmentation).</div>
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<i>Step 5: You are not locked in.</i></div>
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Even if you have made your choice of birth facility, or obstetrician, or midwife, or doctor -- whatever -- you are not married to that choice. You can <i>always, always</i> switch. Remember that you are paying good money for the services that will be rendered to you. You are hiring a medical professional. If you are unhappy with your choice, and you are unable to reconcile it (by talking about it, e.g.), you can switch. I have asked doulas, midwives, and nurses in the past: When is it too late to switch providers? The answer: After the baby has come.</div>
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Good luck, and happy birthing!</div>PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-28844785402883119272012-02-07T14:52:00.000-08:002012-02-07T16:26:40.315-08:00HypnoBirthing for Birth Professionals: A seminarLast weekend, I attended a seminar called Supporting the HypnoBirthing Mother and her Partner: A Workshop for Birth Professionals. You may know me as a scientist. As a researcher. As a critically-thinking repository of information. You probably do not know me as a HypnoBirther. Which I am totally not.<br />
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But this workshop left me with several ideas of how to use <i>aspects</i> of the method to help a mom and her partner feel calm and confident. These are using slow, deep breathing with some position change, and using positions in which the weight of the body is being held. Having confidence in visualization suggestions is also key in creating an atmosphere in which the body can relax.<br />
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But perhaps the biggest benefit of HypnoBirthing is that it gives the mother and her partner something to <i>do</i> throughout her entire labor.</div>
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<b>What is HypnoBirthing?</b></div>
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<a href="http://www.hypnobirthing.com/">HypnoBirthing</a>, also called the Mongan Method (after its creator, Marie Mongan) uses hypnosis to enhance the trance-like altered state of active labor. That is my definition. Maybe yours is different.<br />
In effect, HypnoBirthing <i>is</i> relaxation, breathing, and visualization.<br />
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The crux of many popular modern childbirth philosophies is the "fear-tension-pain" phenomenon. When you are afraid or anxious, you tense up. When you tense up, you feel more pain. And when you feel more pain, it is scary. So if you can teach your body to relax, you can nip the cycle in the bud and things will hurt less. At the risk of using Comic Sans, I have illustrated the cycle on the right in Figure 1.<br />
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The idea is that the mother and her partner begin preparing for a hypno-birth early -- around the 20th week of pregnancy, much earlier than the typical childbirth education which is usually around 35 weeks -- and the preparation includes <i>childbirth education</i> (that is the Birthing part) and<i> guided meditation</i> (that is the Hypno part) which is to be practiced at home in the months to come. The focus of the meditation is deep relaxation, the kind you get when you can no longer tell where you are or how long it has been, with a particular emphasis on breathing and visualizing the baby. And when the time comes to birth the baby, the mother has practiced relaxation so much that she can enter that state of deep relaxation easily and willingly. Add in some breathing and visualization techniques, and you have it.<br />
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<b>What are these doctors doing here?</b><br />
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The instructor of this seminar for birth professionals, <a href="http://one-moon.com/">Rachel Yellin</a>, a spunky gal with a huge mane of curly hair draping her cheeks, shoulders, and back, addressed the roomful of birth professionals. There were seventeen women and one man (a man!) in the room. Most were birth doulas, some were also yoga instructors and massage therapists. There were two obstetricians (the man was one) and a midwife; two grandmothers or soon-to-be grandmothers; and a few volunteers from the doula organization to which I belong. And there was me, researcher, marked by academic articles seeming to fall out of my ears.<br />
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I was as surprised (pleasantly) as Rachel to see obstetricians in the audience. It was surprising because douas are taught that obstetricians only come to deliver the baby. They do not participate in labor support. So what were these three clinicians (two OBs and a midwife) doing in the audience? It turned out that Jack was going to be supporting his brother and sister-in-law in the coming months, in the birth of their child, and he was terrified: having never been in a position of support, especially in early labor, and especially continuous, he was lost. As a birth professional, he did not want to take a full-blown childbirth education class, so he came here instead. Blair, the other obstetrician, and Alice, the midwife, wanted to learn how to help their hospital staff support HypnoBirthing couples. Learning more about the process of HypnoBirthing would help them not startle anybody and break the focused flow the mother had established for herself.<br />
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They really stole the show. Doulas had so many questions -- about obstetric interventions, procedures at their hospital, and, most importantly, <i>how doulas can help.</i> I touched on this a bit in a previous blog post, <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2011/09/why-ill-never-be-nurse.html">Why I'll Never Be a Nurse</a>: some newer doulas have just enough education to be a nuisance, but not enough to be an asset to a birth team. I watched the collaboration unfold, and in the fifteen short minutes that the conversations proceeded I saw the doulas' eyes light up, and some were taking notes. There really does need to be more training for doulas about hospital procedures, regulations, and liabilities. But I digress.<br />
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<b>Do you want me to help you?</b><br />
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This is the first question any support person should ask any supportee. Do you want me to help you? Sometimes the answer is no. Sometimes the mother may want to feel miserable for a while, or to complain, or to find her own way. In that case, be present and wait.<br />
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But if the answer is yes, the support person will have some work to do.<br />
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HypnoBirthing is not a comfort measure. At least, not in the common sense of the words -- which HypnoBirthers are encouraged not to use. The connotation of "comfort measures" is that something you can do will make the mother more comfortable. The idea is not to get more comfortable, but to dive deeper into the sensations. The idea is to relax more, enter a state of deeper relaxation: one that will allow the mother to open herself to the point of letting the sensations of labor sweep over her body.<br />
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<b>Labor as an altered state of consciousness</b><br />
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Especially starting with active labor, when the mother can no longer ignore her body, and must concentrate her energy inwardly, the mother enters an altered state of consciousness. HypnoBirthing tries to harness this potential and works with it to help the mother enter this state of consciousness sooner and deeper than otherwise. The mother's focus turns inward and she uses the techniques outlined above and below. Because the mother is in an altered state of consciousness, she is susceptible to suggestion. The altered state of consciousness can be considered meditation, and here is thus dubbed <i>hypnosis</i>. And because in this altered state, the mother is more keenly aware of suggestions, we call this altered state <i>suggestion hypnosis.</i> It is a relaxed altered state of consciousness.<br />
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Rachel said, "Remember that anything and everything that happens <i>around</i> a woman or <i>to </i>a woman during labor is a suggestion." You look at the clock? Suggestion (too slow). You look at the read-out from the monitor? Suggestion (what's wrong). The nurse does a vaginal exam? Suggestion (things go in, not out).<br />
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She said as labor support persons, we must be mindful of everything we do and the suggestions we give off, even unintentionally.<br />
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I could not agree more.<br />
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<b>Three reasons for purposeful breathing</b><br />
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Rachel explained that there were three main reasons for purposeful breathing in labor, which is breathing while really concentrating on the breath going in and out of the body.<br />
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<li>Oxygen. That is, you need it to survive. And so does the baby. Bringing oxygen to all the parts of the body that are doing the Big Work of Birthin' is the main reason.</li>
<li>Sound. When the mother is concentrating on the sound the breath makes as it passes her throat and her nose (like yoga breathing), she cannot possibly concentrate on anything else. She cannot talk and (especially) complain, and she is forced to relax. It helps her enter and maintain that altered state HypnoBirthing is known for.</li>
<li>Bridge from Mother to Baby. Visualizing the baby and its uterine cocoon helps the mother's body go through the steps of birthing a baby. And a continuous flow of oxygen to the baby is very important for the baby's and the mother's wellbeing in labor.</li>
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<b>The good, the bad, and the skeptical</b><br />
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For me, there are two sides to every coin. Here are a few of those coins that hit a bell for me.<br />
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<b>Relaxation in labor</b><br />
<i>The idea:</i> Relaxing in labor helps labor move faster and hurt less.<br />
<i>The good:</i> Certainly key! How many mothers exhaust themselves in early labor, pacing or cleaning? Rachel explained the importance of relaxation and breathing. She said to imagine a mother in labor as she is climbing up and down stairs or pacing the hallway to get things "moving," as mothers in early labor are apt to be encouraged.<br />
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"Pain in labor comes from the baby pressing against a dehydrated uterus," she said, meaning that the uterus lacks oxygenated blood. "Where is the oxygen? It is in the thighs, as she mounts each step; in the heart, beating faster, in the arms, holding on to the handrail." Consider how much more blood her uterus would be getting if she were sitting, slumped over her baby (Figure 2); or lying on her side, curled around her baby; or on all fours, letting the weight of her body be held by a yoga ball. As an aside, I could not find a single freehand drawing program on my entire hard drive -- my apologies to the woman pictured in Figure 2.<br />
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"The idea is," said Rachel, "that all this movement and letting gravity help will bring on stronger and harder surges." Oh, I forgot to mention. Contractions were renamed as <i>surges</i> because you want to give the idea that things are loosening, not tightening. <i>Surges</i>. Say it with me, and have some granola. It is good for you. "The harder surges may not be doing anything for the mother besides exhausting her." Rachel's implication was that the active mother's uterus depleted of oxygen is the reason her surges are getting more intense, <i>not that labor is actually moving faster.</i><br />
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<i>The skeptical:</i> None, really, but I wanted to mention one thing: The supported-body positions must be changed on a regular basis. Because in the end, we do rely a little on gravity, and we need to help the baby traverse the narrow passage. As an active participant, the baby needs to tuck and turn and twist, and changing position frequently helps baby do just that.</div>
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<b>Three types of breathing</b></div>
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<i>The idea:</i> Practicing three types of breathing (sleep, balloon, and birth breathing) helps the birth process. </div>
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<li>Sleep breathing is a medium-length inhale and long, slow exhales lasting twice as long as the inhale: count in, in, in; and out six times. </li>
<li>Balloon breathing is similar to yoga breathing, using the sound in the back of the throat as a focal point in the meditation. Think about saying "haaaa" so that the whole room can hear you. Now do it with your mouth closed.</li>
<li>Birth breathing, or "breathing the baby down," is a sequence of short, light grunts with which you expand the size of the stomach. They are like stomach thrusts using the air in your belly. This breath is supposed to be used in the second stage of labor.</li>
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<i>The good:</i> Sleep breathing promotes oxygen exchange through the body. Way to oxygenate that uterus, girl! Balloon breathing helps focus! And birth breathing helps the baby move into position gradually, come down the birth canal slowly, and be born gently with little danger to the perineum and little stress to the baby.</div>
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<i>The skeptical:</i> A few comments.</div>
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<li>Early iterations of the Lamaze method tried to teach breathing. Remember the "hee-hee, ha-ha" breaths that movies always implement? That is Lamaze from the 70s. Researchers found that not only does Lamaze breathing not work as a labor support tool, but also the mother hyperventilates with these quick breaths. Good thing they got rid of that, right?</li>
<li>No animal has birthing breathing rituals in the wild. Have you ever seen a dog giving birth to puppies while yoga breathing?</li>
<li>When Rachel got to birth breathing and how it is meant to be performed in the second stage of labor (i.e., pushing), showing us how to do it, with her stomach bouncing rhythmically, we (that is, the class) imagined a woman in labor doing this and roared with laughter. "I have never seen a woman do this," Alice (the midwife) said, "and I have seen <i>a lot</i> of HypnoBirthers." When the body bears down, there will be no such breathing.</li>
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<b>Remove the reference to pain</b><br />
<i>The idea:</i> If you reframe the sensations a mother experiences, she will not be tempted to see it as pain. "Pain is when your body says something is wrong," Rachel explained. "When you are in labor, there is nothing wrong. The sensations you are having are perfectly normal. They can be uncomfortable, sharp, stabbing, tightening, tingling -- whatever!" She said that if you cut your finger, that hurts, and that is painful. Your body sends the signal to your brain so you can fix it. But in labor, there is nothing to fix.<br />
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<i>The good:</i> The woman in active labor is already in a deep state of relaxation, and an altered state of consciousness, so asking about pain and entertaining conversations about hurting are all very suggestive to her. Perhaps because pain is scary, and fear leads to tension, and so on. Refraining from bringing a mother's attention to pain is probably a very good idea.<br />
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<i>The skeptical:</i> Alice, the midwife at the session, said she frequently sees HypnoBirthing patients come in and she cannot tell, at all, how far along in their labor they are because they are relaxed and smiling. She says it can be a real challenge, because they are the same patients that try to forego vaginal exams to determine labor progress. Rachel agreed and said the only way she can tell if a HypnoBirthing mom is pushing is she sees her stomach contract rhythmically.<br />
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So perhaps a strong benefit of HypnoBirthing is that <i>nobody sees you in pain.</i> When the mother is in a state of deep relaxation, nobody can tell how much discomfort she is feeling. That includes her care staff and her partner. If her partner is more relaxed (i.e., not worried about the <i>sensations</i> she is feeling), he or she can provide better care for her. Anxiety related to the mother's pain level is a major fear factor for birth partners.<br />
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When HypnoBirthing women recall their experience, they <i>do</i> say things like "Oh, it hurt like hell," or, as Rachel retold, "It felt like being stabbed by a fire poker." So clearly, simply <i>not thinking about pain</i> does not make the pain go away. But it does alter other peoples' impressions of the mother's sensations because outwardly, she is not complaining.<br />
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<b>The Benefits of Relaxation</b><br />
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A <a href="http://mhc.homestead.com/Assisting_women_in_labor_using_HypnoBirthing.doc">pamphlet about assisting women in labor using the HypnoBirthing techniques [doc]</a> published in 2010 by <a href="http://mhc.homestead.com/">Brandy Astwood</a>, a HypnoBirthing childbirth educator, outlines the relevant research supporting HypnoBirthing and provides helpful suggestions for birth partners and nurses on how to help a woman that is using deep relaxation as her primary labor strategy. Her pamphlet collects results from several sources and is repeated here.<br />
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Fear, stress and tension have long been known to be associated with increased levels of pain as reported by patients. Grantly Dick-Read, MD, described the “Fear-Tension-Pain Syndrome” in the 1920s, and since that time obstetrical care providers have noted that education and stress management strategies have been effective in decreasing the level of pain reported by women in labor.<br />
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Hypnosis has been used effectively in the management of pain for over a century, but fell out of favor with the advent of safer, more effective analgesia/anesthesia. Over the years, several studies have been undertaken to research the efficacy of hypnosis in childbirth. A meta-analysis of these studies, “Hypnosis for Pain Relief in Labour and Childbirth: A Systematic Review,” appeared in the British Journal of Anesthesia in 2004. The article states<br />
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This report represents the most comprehensive review of the literature to date on the use of hypnosis for analgesia during childbirth. The meta-analysis shows that hypnosis reduces analgesia requirements in labour. Apart from the analgesia and anaesthetic effects possible in receptive subjects, there are three other possible reasons why analgesic consumption during childbirth might be reduced when using hypnosis. First, teaching self-hypnosis facilitates patient autonomy and a sense of control. Secondly, the majority of parturients are likely to be able to use hypnosis for relaxation, thus reducing apprehension that in turn may reduce analgesic requirements. Finally, the possible reduction in the need for pharmacological augmentation of labour when hypnosis is used for childbirth, may minimize the incidence of uterine hyperstimulation and the need for epidural analgesia.1</blockquote>
Obstetrical patients using self-hypnosis have been shown to have lower scores for pain associated with childbirth, shorter duration of both first and second stage labor, increased number of spontaneous births, decreased use of analgesia, anesthesia and labor augmentation and infants with higher average Apgar scores.<br />
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HypnoBirthing® teaches women to relax quickly and completely with uterine contractions, and to use visualization to help facilitate cervical effacement, dilation, and fetal descent. Women and their birthing companions are taught that fear and tension lead to increased levels of catecholamines, which ultimately causes increased pain during labor. The positive effects of visualization are thought to be similar to those achieved by athletes using mental imagery to prepare for competition. Rather than using multiple types of breathing and imagery to distract the laboring woman from her discomfort, HypnoBirthing® allows a woman to become deeply focused upon the birthing process.<br />
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When in labor, a woman using this method is not asleep or unconscious, and is receptive to suggestions made by her birthing companion and others. For this reason, references to pain, medications and procedures are best kept to a minimum. Women using HypnoBirthing® will ask for analgesia or anesthesia if they need it.<br />
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HypnoBirthing® encourages the laboring woman to allow passive descent in second stage and to “breathe the baby down” with release of air as she “feels the urge.” The HypnoBirthing method discourages Valsalva pushing, and beginning to push before the woman has the involuntary urge to do so. Recent studies have shown few risks and some benefits in allowing the mother to “labor down” in second stage, allowing passive descent, as opposed to “pushing” as soon as cervical dilation is complete. With passive descent, there are fewer fetal heart rate decelerations and less fetal acidosis. Maternal benefits include a shorter period of “pushing” and less fatigue. Unless specifically instructed otherwise, women begin bearing down spontaneously when the fetal presenting part is well down in the birth canal; they will generally wait until the contraction peaks and then give a series of “mini-pushes” with air release.<br />
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HypnoBirthing® stresses that the goal is a gentle and safe birth for the baby. Staying relaxed and focused upon her baby and the birthing process enables the birthing woman to remain calm and more comfortable. Her companion(s) will help her to maintain this calm focus with music, dim lights, soft touch, and speaking words of encouragement. They will also help her to remain well nourished and hydrated and assist her in moving about. The companions will advocate for the mother and baby if interventions are suggested and help the woman to make informed decisions.<br />
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We find that, no matter what turn the labor and birth may take, most couples are very satisfied with their birthing experience. Because they are calm and relaxed, they will feel empowered to make good decisions if interventions become advisable.</blockquote>
-- <a href="http://mhc.homestead.com/Assisting_women_in_labor_using_HypnoBirthing.doc">Brandy Astwood's pamphlet, 2010 [doc]</a><br />
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<br /></div>PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-46048328696525636982012-01-22T14:53:00.000-08:002012-01-24T14:26:33.432-08:00Sue's second babySue and I go way back -- in fact, the <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2009/10/my-first-birth-doulas-eye-birth-story.html">first birth I ever attended was the birth of her first baby</a>. So when she was pregnant again, there was very little discussion about whether or not I would be at her birth. Even though I had moved two hours away from her house, it was just understood that I would be there, rain or shine, night or day.<br />
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<b>Past due part deux</b><br />
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Five days past her due date, Sue felt her first real labor contractions. She had had contractions for months, just like with her first baby, before real labor set in. Some contractions, like the Braxton-Hicks that plagued her throughout both pregnancies, did nothing, and others opened her cervix, a little at a time.<br />
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"Why doesn't my kid like to pee in nature?" Sue lamented one morning. "I have never heard of a toddler that doesn't want to use the great outdoors. I tucked him under my arm and wedged him above my huge belly and ran with him looking for a bathroom. Contractions the rest of the day."<br />
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Three days past her due date, her OB checked her cervix at her request. "She says I have a super thin and super favorable cervix and I will go into labor for reals next time I start contracting," Sue related. "She didn't give me a number for dilation but I could tell she could get her fingers further into my business."<br />
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Of course, I gave the best advice I could: "Are you thinking what I'm thinking?" I wrote on my antique cell phone. "That's right. Mad nookie all afternoon, and baby this evening." Of course, I was <a href="http://www.webmd.com/baby/inducing-labor-naturally-can-it-be-done">not even a little bit kidding</a>. Sex is a great way to stimulate contractions for two reasons: orgasm has been known to set off contractions (because orgasm is a type of contraction); and semen contains the same chemicals as the stuff they use to induce labor, so just letting it hang out in the vagina will help ripen the cervix. Plus all those orgasmic hormones are the same ones that course through a mom's body when she is birthing a kid and breastfeeding. Sue replied that the timing would not work out -- it would complicate the pick-up from day care for her toddler, so she decided to wait.<br />
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But she did not have to wait long: just two days later, it happened. The familiar tightening of the belly, rhythmic, every few minutes. Just like last time! That evening, Sue made dinner for the last time for her family of three. Her toddler helped her put the finishing touches on the pie, and they waited together for it to bake. I stopped by for a while, took a look around, and read a book with the toddler. Sue said, "You can probably just go home. It will be just like last time. You know, days of early labor. I'll call you if anything happens."<br />
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I went home, and straight to bed at the early hour of 9:30pm, snuggled up with my own toddler, who was about seven months older than Sue's.<br />
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<b>It's code for "get me some caffeine."</b><br />
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No calls all night. At around 8, as my kid and I were getting up, I got a message from Joe. They were at the birth center (more like a maternity hospital, because they have anaesthesiologists on site, and a surgical room) checking on the labor because the contractions went on all night. Sue slept for two minutes at a time all night long. And on that note, I was on my way -- despite Joe's warning: "We may be sent home again." To explain -- the birth center generally practices evidence-based care, and will send a mom home if she is not in active labor, so she can labor at home without the risk of unnecessary interventions. On the road, I got the confirmation (again from Joe) that they were staying.<br />
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As I rolled into town, I messaged Joe if they wanted anything from town: coffee, breakfast?<br />
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"Soy latte please," Joe wrote. "And Sue says she would kill a man for a coffee."<br />
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"Is 'coffee' code for peppermint soy latte?" I asked.<br />
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"It is," he replied.<br />
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I walked into our neighborhood coffee house and was greeted by Jill, who remembered me from my own infant-in-arms days, well before we moved two hours away. Because I was a regular, in the shop every day for something decaffeinated.<br />
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"Hey! What can I get ya?"<br />
<br />
"Joe and Sue are havin' a baby, so I need to pick up a couple soy lattes for them," I said. "A medium soy latte for Joe."<br />
<br />
"No, no," she interrupted, beaming. "Joe <i>always</i> gets a caramel soy latte."<br />
<br />
"Oh? He did not say caramel," I pondered. "But let's go with the usual. And a soy latte with peppermint for Sue."<br />
<br />
"That is <i>so exciting!</i> I saw Sue in here the other day and she told me she was past due but it's OK because she was past due with her first baby," said Jill, "and all I heard was <i>past due</i>... What if she had broken her water <i>here</i>?"<br />
<br />
"Nah," I replied. "Only 25% of labors start with the water breaking." I do not know why I busted out the statistics.<br />
<br />
"That's not what happens in movies! They always <i>swoooosh</i>, gush all over the floor, and then there is always yelling because there's only like ten minutes to get to the hospital before the baby plops out."<br />
<br />
We laughed, and I left with the two lattes.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Birthin'</b><br />
<br />
Arriving at the birth center around half-past 10am, I delivered the two lattes to Joe and Sue, who greeted them like undergraduates after an all-nighter. I learned that they checked in at around 4cm. Yes, it is funny to talk about time in units of measurement -- but when birthin', does time really matter? Then again, do centimeters? What really matters is how the mom and her partner(s) and the baby are doing. And here, they were doing splendidly.<br />
<br />
Sue was standing and slow-dancing with herself during contractions, and Joe was browsing the web on his smartphone, coming over every few minutes to show off a hilarious photo -- like the one of the lemon giving birth to another lemon -- sending Sue into laugh-induced contractions. When she complained of sore feet, I asked the nurses for a labor ball. Sue sunk into the ball and moaned, "Oh yeah. That's the stuff."<br />
<br />
Strangely, Sue had some back labor which was new to her, since her first baby did not give her such an affliction. Joe was delighted to push on her back, and was even more delighted to say obscene things about their position: her, bending forward and him, standing behind her with his hands on her tailbone, his arms locked, his feet planted firmly into the floor, and his back against the wall.<br />
<br />
"This position was more fun before," he remarked.<br />
<br />
"You're telling me, kid!" Sue smirked.<br />
<br />
Between contractions, we talked about toddlers, about mutual friends, about babies, and, of course, about labor. "I can tell this baby is bigger than the first one," Sue said. "I think this one is 9 1/2 pounds. The first one was almost 9."<br />
<br />
"We will see!" I said.<br />
<br />
At 5cm, or 2:20pm -- a full six hours since her 4cm cervical check -- and after a long shower, with the hot water pushing on her back (after this, the baby turned and there was no more back labor), Sue agreed to break her water. In her first birth, the AROM (artificial rupture of the membranes) sent her into full-blown labor and she had had her baby a mere five hours later. We expected similar results this time.<br />
<br />
The OB reached the crochet-like hook inside and ruptured the membranes. "There is some meconium in the fluid," she said. "We will have to keep you on the monitor for a few more minutes."<br />
<br />
The baby was watched for a while, but the nurses saw nothing strange; thus, Sue was released to get into the large bath tub provided she keep the wireless, waterproof monitors strapped to her belly by a wide green stretchy band. This time, there was no tub in the room, but there was one a few doors down. Sue got dressed -- the hospital gown which covered her front only, the band that covered her stomach, and a pair of gauze panties with a pad big enough to soak up a small aquarium.<br />
<br />
We ventured into the hallway: Sue, then Joe with Sue's water bottle, and then me with the camera. A nurse from across the hall opened her eyes very wide at me and made a closing motion with her arms. I looked at Sue -- from behind, of course, and saw the problem (the behind) -- and immediately closed her gown and held it shut on our short walk down the hall.<br />
<br />
In the warm water Sue relaxed immensely. The "ooh" and "ahh" moans were back. This time, I tried the count-up-to-ten, count-down-from-ten method that I had found to be working with my most recent clients. Her instructions were to stop me if she did not like it. She never stopped me. So I counted up to ten with each contraction, trying to match ten with the peak, and counted down as the contraction subsided.<br />
<br />
The lights in the tub room were insanely bright. I asked the nurse if she had any of those battery-operated LED candles lying around, but she could not find them. So I did the next best thing: I taped blue washcloths over the lights with some fabric tape.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Mood lighting meets <br />
modern engineering</td></tr>
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<br />
<b><br /></b><br />
<b>Transition is when the baby falls out</b><br />
<b><br /></b><br />
An hour after getting into the tub, at 3:45pm, the telltale pressure at the top of each contraction. I called the nurse, who called the doctor, who called Sue to get her out of the water and back into the room for an exam. The nurse was the first to arrive, followed by Sue, who got on the bed and draped herself over the top of it, on all fours.<br />
<br />
"Seven and a half," the nurse said. "Call the doctor," she shouted over her shoulder.<br />
<br />
One more contraction, when Sue puffed like she was blowing out candles at her 3000th birthday.<br />
<br />
"Where is the doctor?" the nurse snapped. "When I say 7 1/2 centimeters, you get the doctor," she complained with a huge fake smile and a glance at Sue and Joe to the other nurse, who had just walked in.<br />
<br />
Sue growled.<br />
<br />
"Hm, why don't you try just going with that feeling," said the nurse. "Just push through it."<br />
<br />
Sue pushed.<br />
<br />
The doctor walked in, introduced herself, and asked if she could do a little exam. Receiving the affirmative, she reached inside and whispered, "I can't find a cervix. The head is right there."<br />
<br />
Sue whimpered.<br />
<br />
"Why don't you get on your back," the doctor said. "It will be easier for you and the baby."<br />
<br />
Sue turned over, graceful as any mammal with a baby hanging between their legs.<br />
<br />
"Joe is going to count to ten, and you are going to push for the whole time," said the doctor. Joe counted; Sue pushed in silence. Then a deep breath, and more counting, more pushing, for the duration of the entire contraction. Above: Joe and Sue's heads; Joe's soft voice counting. Below: the baby's head, molded like a walnut. I snapped pictures of Joe supporting Sue. It was nearly 4pm.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>But then something happened</b><br />
<br />
The room filled with people: nurses for the doctor, nurses for the patient, doctor for the baby, nurses for the baby-doctor. Everyone was watching the baby's heart rate. The machine should have been beeping, but it was not. Maybe the lead was off. We had been having problems with the monitor finding the heart rate throughout the labor. The lead was off. Right?<br />
<br />
"Let's get mom some oxygen," the doctor commanded. A plastic mask was handed to us and Joe and I placed it over Sue's face. "It's for the baby," the doctor said.<br />
<br />
The baby-doctor, Dr. Moss, a wholly unremarkable middle-aged man in plain blue scrubs, looked concerned, with his hands folded in front of him, as he watched patiently for the baby to emerge. His two nurses were unwrapping things behind him on the baby warmer.<br />
<br />
One more contraction, and Sue's baby boy slid out. Neither Joe nor I saw it because instantly, the cord was clamped in two places and cut in under three seconds. The baby flew in Dr. Moss' arms to the baby warmer, where six hands simultaneously rubbed a grey and floppy form of a plump infant. I put down my camera. For the first time in any of my births, I did not feel my eyes water. I felt bone dry as I came up to Sue and Joe.<br />
<br />
"Good job," I cooed through my parched mouth. "Great job. That was so good." But nobody was paying attention. All eyes were on the baby warmer. Something white flashed in the doctor's hands -- something I have come to associate with the term "intubate" from watching TV shows like House.<br />
<br />
There was a wet, muffled cough. Joe looked at me and whispered, "What's happening?"<br />
<br />
"I don't know," I said.<br />
<br />
I could see the baby's chest being massaged from both sides -- top and bottom, and his grey, limp ribcage was dancing on the warming bed. And when the ribcage danced, the grey arms bounced about on the bed as well. He looked like a lifelike doll, bouncing and dancing to some unheard music.<br />
<br />
"He is doing fine," said the doctor. A suctioning sound came from the baby. Nobody believed him.<br />
<br />
I looked at Sue. She was looking straight into Joe's face. The doctor was draining her placenta. Then we heard the baby's first cry, and we could all breathe again.<br />
<br />
The nurse said, "Joe, you can go to the baby."<br />
<br />
"I can?" he said, and, squeezing his wife's hand tenderly, and with a kiss on her head, he went to the warming bed.<br />
<br />
The baby's head and chest had gotten pinker, but his arms and legs were still grey. Dr. Moss lifted an arm, and it snapped back into its curled place, jiggling a little.<br />
<br />
"He is doing better, but I don't like to see babies so floppy," he said, explaining. "I want to take him to the nursery for some tests and to make sure he gets better." He used small words.<br />
<br />
Dr. Moss was making preparations to carry the baby to the nursery. An astute nurse asked -- and for this, I thanked her silently -- "Can the mom see the baby first?"<br />
<br />
"Oh, yes, of course," he answered and held the baby out to Sue. This gesture reminded me of The Lion King, when Rafiki the monkey presented Simba to the animals in the kingdom. Held up for the subjects, high above them and far from them, to be seen, but not touched. I watched from behind and snapped a photo: an anxious, worried, pained mother longing for her child; and the wrinkled, chubby back of a limp, pinkish grey baby.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Rafiki presenting Simba to the animal kingdom. <br />
(c) The Walt Disney Company, 1994--1995</td></tr>
</tbody></table>
<br />
"Do you have any questions for me?" asked Dr. Moss.<br />
<br />
"No," Sue said.<br />
<br />
I looked at Sue. "Do you want to ask when you can hold the baby?"<br />
<br />
"Yes," Sue said.<br />
<br />
"It's hard to say," Dr. Moss said to Sue. "After we draw some blood, and run some tests. I would like to say 45 minutes. But it may take longer."<br />
<br />
"OK."<br />
<br />
And with this, Dr. Moss ran away with a tightly-swaddled baby. Joe went with him, and I stayed with Sue.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">A blur of Dr. Moss taking away the new baby</td></tr>
</tbody></table>
<br />
There was so much cognitive dissonance for me. On the one hand, every doctor and nurse were saying things like "He's doing so well," but on the other, nobody could touch the baby. And he was grey and floppy. If he were doing so well, he would be on his mama's chest, just like last time. And Joe would be cutting the cord, just like last time. What did it mean? Was the baby okay, or wasn't he?<br />
<br />
The nurse said the baby likely inhaled some meconium. I looked at the remains of the umbilical cord. It was blue, not stained by meconium the way the cords get after they had been bathing in meconium for hours. So the meconium could not have happened too long ago. What did it all mean? And why was everyone using small words and saying he was so well, when he clearly unwell?<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Physical repair</b><br />
<br />
Sue's doctor was threading a curved needle and began to make the repairs. "Second degree?" I asked.<br />
<br />
"Yes," she replied.<br />
<br />
"Ah, like last time," Sue said.<br />
<br />
"Yes, and it looks like you tore in the same place," her doctor said. "I can see the scar right here."<br />
<br />
It was clear that Sue was in a significant amount of discomfort. Her doctor worried: "Would you like some more numbing?"<br />
<br />
"It's not you," Sue replied. "It's just everything. I'm very sore. Ow! OK, that one was you."<br />
<br />
We tried to have a sense of humor, but it was so grim in the room. The doctor finished her repair, and left. Sue turned to the side, away from me, and shut her eyes. I thought she was trying to sleep after her long ordeal: twenty-six long hours of early labor, and an hour and a half of the real deal. And then this.<br />
<br />
I touched her thigh. "Do you mind if I go to the nursery and try to get some pictures of the baby? I have my phone. Call if you want me to come back."<br />
<br />
Sue nodded, eyes shut. I went out.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Nursery</b><br />
<br />
The nursery was a single room, attached to a the single operating room. Outside the nursery door, I saw through the mostly-closed blinds that inside, there were just two warming beds. Only one was occupied, with Joe and Sue's baby. Joe was rocking in the chair nearby and two nurses and Dr. Moss were doing something to the baby. A third nurse was at the computer, typing furiously.<br />
<br />
I do not know what I was imagining a nursery to look like. Maybe like nurseries in the older movies, with a row of beds and a baby in each bed, and a large window to see in. This was a far cry from that image, and there was significantly less cooing over new babies.<br />
<br />
A nurse approached the door and I asked her if I could go in.<br />
<br />
"Are you family?" she asked.<br />
<br />
"No, I am a friend," I replied. "I am Joe's friend. He is inside on the rocking chair."<br />
<br />
"I will ask," she said, and disappeared inside. I stood back and read some things posted on the bulletin board while I waited. There was an article about a woman that had a c-section, and someone had left a surgical sponge inside her abdomen. The sponge caused several of her organs to fuse, and the court granted her over $500k in medical expenses, and the nurses were held responsible because they should have counted the sponges. They said they did, and it should be the doctor's fault because he was in charge.<br />
<br />
The nurse returned and said that I could not come in because they were going to clear the room for a chest x-ray, to check whether there was any infection in the lungs from inhaling meconium. I thanked her (for what?) and headed back to Sue's room.<br />
<br />
In the small waiting area, I met a white-haired woman wearing nice exercise clothes. I had seen her waiting, talking on the phone, and reading books on those couches several times in the hours since I arrived. I asked: "Having a baby?"<br />
<br />
"Well, I hope so. We have been here all morning and things are happening very slowly. How about you?"<br />
<br />
"My friend had a baby boy recently."<br />
<br />
"Oh, how lovely! There was a baby boy born at 3, is that your friend's?"<br />
<br />
"No, hers was at 4."<br />
<br />
"Oh, two baby boys! How nice. Is he with your friend now?"<br />
<br />
"No, he's in the nursery."<br />
<br />
Her eyes lit up. "There is a nursery? Where you can see the babies?"<br />
<br />
"Um." I did not know how to answer that question. I could have said, "It's where the sick babies go." Although not untrue and not really revealing anything about Sue's baby's condition, I did not know if it would be the wrong thing to say. Instead I said, "No, you can't see in, and there is just the one baby inside."<br />
<br />
Sue's nurse came out of her room. Seeing me she said, "Can you do me a favor? Do you know where the baby blankets are?"<br />
<br />
I confessed I did not. She explained where to find them, and that underneath the warm baby blankets are the warm adult blankets. Sue was cold. I rushed off.<br />
<br />
In the room I found a frightened Sue. She had not been sleeping -- she had been terrified. I put the toasty blanket on her and sat by her head.<br />
<br />
"I thought you were sleeping," I said. The room was dark, and the rain spattered on the window and the small balcony outside. Sue's room was silent and lonely.<br />
<br />
"No," she replied. After a pause: "Everything hurts." And: "I want my baby."<br />
<br />
"I know. Joe is with him. I was watching him watching your baby."<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Emotional repair</b><br />
<br />
Hours passed without any of us really understanding what was happening. The turning point was when the nurse suggested a trip to the nursery. This motivated Sue so much that she immediately forgot about her body's aches; with her nurse's help she got up, got dressed, and was wheeled in the chair to the nursery.<br />
<br />
Joe was standing up over the warming bed with a finger in the baby's mouth. The baby was sucking beautifully. Joe said: "My finger is all pruny. This has been going on for hours. My feet are sore." We laughed. Finally, we laughed.<br />
<br />
The baby was connected to a heart monitor, oxygen saturation sensor, breathing monitor, and an IV in his ankle, and the nurse was trying desperately to draw blood from any of the baby's four limbs, with little success. She had been trying for quite some time. With each needle-stick, the baby would cry briefly, and continue sucking.<br />
<br />
"Do we have any sugar-water?" another nurse asked. "If you put some on your finger for him to suck, it's a natural pain reliever for the baby."<br />
<br />
"How about we use breast milk?" I suggested, always the advocate.<br />
<br />
"I'm not sure there is any in there," Sue said.<br />
<br />
"That is a great idea," the nurses said, and gaily approached Sue. "Try it!" Sue tried expressing a little milk onto Joe's pinky and out came a copious amount of colostrum. And as soon as Joe put the finger into the baby's mouth, his eyes opened and he visibly salivated.<br />
<br />
"He likes it!" everyone exclaimed.<br />
<br />
Sue finally got to hold her baby, still connected to all of his tubes and monitors, at 7:30 -- over 3 1/2 hours after his birth. She held him and nursed him, though he was already drifting into a solid sleep. But in his sleep he would wake, nurse, and fall asleep again, snuggled skin-to-skin with his mama.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Conclusion</b><br />
<br />
Every birth is different. How true this is.<br />
<br />
Sue's goals for this labor were to complain less and to push faster, and she succeeded in both. She complained very little -- only in transition did a little complaint escape her lips (and who wouldn't, a little?) -- and she pushed for just fifteen minutes. One could say it was a better birth in this way.<br />
<br />
But after the baby's birth, when things took a turn for the unknown, when the baby did not go directly on mama's chest but was instead whisked away, and nobody understood what was happening -- oh! how different it was than the first, picture-perfect natural birth.<br />
<br />
You will hear, "What matters is a healthy mama and a healthy baby." While this is true, it is an understatement to the emotional roller coaster which is made more prominent by the mother's extreme hormone shifts after the birth of a baby. In the end, this story had a happy ending, though certainly not without serious worry.<br />
<br />
What really happened? I guess this is something for Joe and Sue to figure out with their doctor. My part is to support them throughout birth, and my support will continue until they have closure.PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-65796612383950250882011-11-25T08:08:00.001-08:002011-11-25T08:16:22.096-08:00Five hundred hours500 hours. That is the cumulative number of hours that I have spent speaking in front of a group. That is three summers I taught courses with 40 lecture hours each; 8 quarters of graduate teaching assistantship; and 10 quarters of undergraduate group tutoring where I led lab lectures for an hour once a week before one-on-one tutoring. That is six conference presentations (and four practice talks), one in-house research presentation, an advancement proposal, and a commencement address. That is two guest lectures in a graduate class, and one in an all-girls' day school. That is at least one trite talk for general-education requirements (I lost count after one, because it matters so little).<br />
<br />
I am not so nervous about public speaking anymore. It really does come with practice.PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-81702264499326283692011-11-25T02:08:00.001-08:002011-11-25T08:29:52.186-08:00Clinical data management: My response to a new technologyMeanwhile in Austria, at the <a href="https://www.conftool.net/usab2011/index.php?page=browseSessions">USAB 2011</a> conference on eHealth, hundreds of health and technology professionals gather to discuss topics relevant to information flow, patient empowerment, and clinical decision-making.<br />
<br />
The first of four (<i>four!</i>) keynote presentations was given by <a href="http://people.dbmi.columbia.edu/patel/homepage_files/home.html">Vimla Patel of Columbia University</a>, whose interests lie in quality of eHealth data. In the talk, <a href="http://www.springerlink.com/content/r876848118354161/">Cognitive Approaches to Clinical Data Management for Decision Support: Is It Old Wine In a New Bottle?</a>, Dr. Patel argued that indeed it is <i>new</i> wine in a <i>new</i> bottle. This post chronicles my reactions to the talk. Dr. Patel, if you happen upon this post, please know that I am quite jet-lagged and had had three of the complimentary espressos, in rapid succession, shortly before your talk. I do not intend this as an apology, but as an explanation, and as a hope that you will not hate me for expressing my views so plainly. I don't buy it, and here, I explain why.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Patients are in danger!</b><br />
<br />
The problem was outlined thus: Information technology impacts patient safety. There is simply not enough evidence that current information technology systems are good for patient safety -- in fact, they might be detrimental. One of the reasons is that there is no accountability for these systems. According to Dr. Patel, in many cases, systems are designed and deployed by engineers without consulting with clinicians or patients, and without proper responsibility for upkeep of the systems for new ideas and trends.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Federal regulations</b><br />
<br />
A way to address this? Dr. Patel suggested: Technology should be monitored by an agency or government; there should be federal regulations on software released for eHealth purposes.<br />
<br />
Pardon me while I gather my jaw from the floor. Right off the bat, I can think of at least two reasons this will never work. <br />
<br />
First: <i>The design-development cycle would be too cumbersome</i>. Can you imagine being the poor programmer that has to succumb to federal regulations, to laws and restrictions, to government-imposed checks and balances? Can you imagine trying to add a new feature, a new decision flow, or a new interaction method? I thought the Apple Developer cycle was bad; this would be murder. <br />
<br />
Second:<i> Regulations on software are restricting.</i> No, I don't have a citation for this, you overachiever. I know from my experience and from the experiences of all of my colleagues that regulations are inversely proportional to success of a software product. While it is true that some restrictions spark creativity, what we are talking about here is a severe impediment to the development process. <br />
<br />
Here's a bonus: Third: <i>Every hospital, every office, every provider has different requirements. </i> How do you federally-regulate this difference and custom instances of the same product? It is a nightmare.<br />
<br />
<br />
<b>Why Electronic Health Records (EHRs) suck</b><br />
<br />
Problems with current electronic health record (EHR) system include the following.<br />
<br />
In EHRs, information is structured temporally, which is how clinicians come about gathering the data. As a clinician, you see a patient, you take notes; you see the patient again, you take more notes. Over time, this presents a time-oriented view of the patient's health. But the problem is that clinicians do not <i>think</i> about patient health in this way. They think in terms of symptoms and relationships between symptoms, tests, and diagnoses.<br />
<br />
So the question is how to store the data in a way that is fundamentally useful to clinicians, and how to retrieve and display it in the same way that they think about the data. There is too much data, too much redundant data, and too many sources of related data. There is a mismatch between cognitive processes of clinicians and the way the data is stored and represented.<br />
<br />
The result Dr. Patel drew is that there is poor usability study and requirements gathering for these EHR systems. By involving users (i.e., clinicians) in the process early and often, she argued, we can explicitly retain the relational structure in software that clinicians use in real life: a complex mental model of vital signs linked to symptoms linked to potential diagnoses. A directed graph of thoughts and decisions. Understand what people want, she said. Test iteratively with users, she said.<br />
<br />
I thought: Don't be afraid to say <i>participatory design.</i><br />
<br />
<br />
<b>User study is not enough</b><br />
<br />
Dr. Patel never outright said it, but it is a question of <i>tagging</i> and <i>metadata</i> and, most certainly, <i>provenance.</i> In effect, the question is the same as in any large-scale file system (think peta-scale): how can you predict which data the user will want to retrieve? I refer the reader to work done by the <a href="http://www.ssrc.ucsc.edu/">Storage Systems Research Center</a> which has been tackling the problem in full force.<br />
<br />
Sure, representing the data is important. As with any file system (let's face it; that's what we are talking about here), we can know everything about what users <i>want</i>, but it may be fundamentally <i>impossible</i> to deliver this kind of system. Big data have an inherent bottleneck at retrieval; they have an inherent bottleneck at storage and archival.<br />
<br />
<b><br /></b><br />
<b>Nobody likes to be wrong</b><br />
<br />
In real life clinicians draw logical conclusions in a guess-and-check fashion: given a set of symptoms gathered from charts, nurses, attendings, and other sources of information, they make a mental model of the potential problems and solutions which can be confirmed or refuted. In the ideal scenario, the clinicians would chart these decisions and potential diagnoses. They would chart, in this system, anything that they considered <i>potentially</i> important <i>in the future</i>.<br />
<br />
Oh god! So many problems!<br />
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First, think about the paperwork overhead. Electronic paperwork, whatever. Sure, in the ideal world with infinite time and infinite memory (as they say in computer science), doctors would save all of their thoughts.<br />
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Second, think of the liability. I am not even talking about <i>not wanting to be wrong</i>, which, of course, everyone feels. It is well-studied in elderly patients with dementia: they will not admit to forgetting appointments or missing meetings. People won't chart wrong guesses. Being wrong is bad. For a clinician, being wrong leads to liability. Mis-representing a symptom that can lead to a missed diagnosis leads to liability. How can you prove your motives were good, when the patient's health was compromised?<br />
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Third, is this another way to minimize patient interaction? Look, in labor and delivery in the US, the average doctor spends something like <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2011/03/should-i-come-to-my-partners-first.html">2 hours, 41 minutes</a> with her patient, total, throughout her entire average 10-month pregnancy and including the 24-hour birth. With such a system, will it mean that a doctor no longer needs to spend quality time with her patient, but instead spend this time mining data? I do not argue that in aggregate, data gathered over time in a particular facility can be powerful. But what happened to patient-centered care?<br />
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Electronic health records have a different set of abstractions and information flow (and hence, a different set of mistakes one can make) than paper-based ones. For paper-based health records, it goes basic concepts (such as vital signs) : intermediate constructs (what to do with the vitals: e.g., compare to normal, compare to expected, compare over time) : heuristics (visualization and diagnosis). Concrete to abstract. But most experts do not bother writing down some basic concepts because it is inefficient, much in the same way you do math in your head or play chess without writing down the possible moves. For EHRs, the flow goes heuristics : intermediate constructs : basic concepts. Abstract to concrete. The overlap is at intermediate constructs, and the question is how to move them from the head to the computer.<br />
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I imagined <a href="http://www.webmd.com/">WebMD</a>, the website that spits out a list of things that could be killing you subtly or not-so-subtly, given an input of real or imagined symptoms. The output from WebMD is potentially useless. You have a stomach cramp and a head ache? It could be a brain tumor and pregnancy.<br />
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Of course, the tool Dr. Patel described would need to be understood by a doctor, or someone else medically trained. In fact, she said, in some cases, you do not want the patient to know at all. There are cases that the patient should not have access to these private thoughts of doctors. With the exception of one situation which I do not have training to understand, namely, adolescents seeking psychiatric care (if I were said patient, I would damn well like to know what the doctor thinks!), I thought that it was a huge oversight that the system would be unusable by anyone without proper training. Make it understandable, she said, for the doctor.<br />
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What about patient empowerment? What about patient information? In Germany, a doctor will sit alongside the patient to look through a clinical workflow, and they will decide together, collaboratively, on the proper treatment. Why is there not more of this worldwide? And why not just <i>teach the patient</i>?<br />
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Dr. Patel said the goal is to move towards patient-centered cognitive support for the clinician. I realize that this is the goal, but with this technology, I worry that we are removing real interactions between the clinician and the patient in favor of data collection. We are in a digital age where we teeter on worshipping data: in some ways, we hold data above all other things. We hold data collection, for example, above the real-life interactions, the real time that doctors and nurses <i>used</i> to spend with patients, that now they spend writing down things about their brief encounters.<br />
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Finally, and then I will stop ragging on this keynote, what about evidence-based medicine? Why has it never been mentioned, alone or in conjunction with "patient-centered" care? Why are we increasing the burden on care providers while decreasing the burden on the very people that are meant to do well -- by removing them from the patient and treating their thoughts, education, and logic, which makes them unique and valuable, as interchangeable with any other doctor, clinician, or robot?<br />
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Now, take this with a grain of salt because my triple caffeine buzz is wearing off. I was pretty excited about this talk when it began: the initial idea was that medical technology, and electronic health record systems in particular, are possibly doing harm to the patients they intend to serve. But near the end, it was clear that the only take-away, for me, is that more user study is needed for electronic health records, to determine what doctors need to make them disposable. As a patient and as a researcher, I feel disempowered.<br />
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But it is an interesting file systems problem.PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-39362838624465967662011-11-15T10:37:00.001-08:002011-11-25T08:17:00.028-08:00How to get my number at a tech conferenceIn technology, the male-to-female ratio strikingly favors the males. Of course, it depends on the specific field how rough it is: game design, for example, has more women than semiconductor research; human-computer interaction has more women than systems and security.<div>
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Having just had come from <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2011/">Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing</a> I was keenly aware that at <a href="http://sc11.supercomputing.org/">Supercomputing 2011</a> the ratio was not 2:2900 (I think there were a few men at Grace Hopper) but more like 150:11. Yup, I counted, sitting in the back of the room where my workshop was being held. Interestingly, there were five of us students from the same university at this workshop, and four of us were women.</div>
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My talk was third in a block of three, and the latter two were similar in that they stemmed from the same set of interviews and touched on similar topics. After my talk, there was discussion in the audience, and when I rejoined my university's group of students, we began being approached by researchers interested in our work -- with comments, suggestions, and questions.</div>
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A young man, probably a few years younger than me, in a white and green graph-paper-patterned shirt, wearing dark-rimmed glasses on his long nose, and his hair cropped in the typical defense-industry fashion, approached me and my female colleague.</div>
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"I work on the very system you were studying," he said. "I'm the guy. I run everything, set the policy, and have tons of data on it."</div>
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"Hang on! Stay right there!" we exclaimed in unison. In a flash, my colleague and I ran off to retrieve our business cards. Tons of data! An expert in the field we are studying! This was very exciting. I ran back to my chair where I had left my laptop and bag, grabbed a stack of cards, and ran back, nearly knocking over chairs in the process. I saw my colleague also rushing and rummaging. </div>
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He looked at my card, and looked at me, and I could see that he was trying to determine whether what I had said was shocking or funny. I laughed.</div>
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But if you meet me at a tech conference, now you know how to get my card.</div>PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-81844464203942375512011-11-11T16:01:00.001-08:002011-11-25T08:17:00.035-08:00The Thin Line: Advising vs. Supervising<div>
This is a post about the session <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2011/conference/schedule-at-a-glance/friday-november-11-2011/#session-6">The Thin Line: Advising vs. Supervising</a> at <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2011/">Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing</a>.</div>
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The panelists: Laura Dillion has spent decades advising students at three different large universities, and spent time as department chair. Susanne Hambrusch has experience dealing with situations between students and advisors that went from bad to worse. She says that just <i>knowing</i> that a situation can occur is important. Lori Pollock has had experiences being the unbiased mediator between graduate students and their advisors.</div>
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<i>Can I be co-advised by two professors? Can I switch advisors?</i></div>
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Sometimes switching advisors is controversial both in terms of your own work and in terms of the political climate of the department or school. Consider your own work, which may or may not move with you to the new advisor or department. It likely won't. Figure out if you will still have a project, and enough to do in order to graduate with a big dent in the new field. If there are concerns (and there should be), find someone that doesn't have a stake in the problem, and ask him or her for help. Someone unbiased can provide valuable advice. It could be a former instructor, a graduate advisor, or even more senior graduate students. Some students don't ask for help. In some places there is no help. That's where you should turn to other sources: e.g., friends' advisors, family, the Systers mailing list.</div>
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Talk about it early. It can change, but know before you invest a ton into a paper how much credit you'll get for the work. Three possibilities are alphabetical order, percentage of writing done, and switching author orders if you expect more than one publication.</div>
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This is a good question in interviews, so make sure you have a well-reasoned answer: your research is your identity. The abstract of your dissertation, and your introduction, should make it very clear the different roles. Co-authored and multi-authored work can become "background" for a dissertation, and some papers never make it into anybody's dissertations. Think ahead: the part that's yours is the part that you will continue when you graduate. Be scrupulously honest.</div>
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Ask. Sit down with your advisor(s), and have the conversation. Don't wait until after you've done the additional work to ask, but ask right then. Show your credentials: the number of papers you have, your advancement proposal which has been fulfilled, the chapters you've written, etc. It may the case that you aren't ready to graduate, but it may be that you are. It may be that you have differences in expectations (e.g., your advisor thinks you want to go to an R1 research institution, but you want to go into industry) which have serious differences in preparation for graduation. You won't know unless you have that conversation with the advisor.</div>
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Your advisor is your advocate. He or she needs to convince the committee that you're ready. There are no hard-and-fast rules to follow: you may want to look for a mentor for an outside, unbiased opinion.</div>
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Find someone that can advocate for you. Go to the other faculty. But don't go straight to the dean, going over the head of the senior faculty and department chair, because this can cause bad feelings and really burn bridges. Learn about what's possible in your university and what resources you have. Sometimes it takes intervention for your advisor to do change; sometimes you have to switch departments and get your work to count toward your new affiliation. But get support from the senior people in the school that have influence. </div>
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Understand that this could very well be true: the faculty member may have thought he had secured money but the money didn't come through; he or she could have overanalyzed the financial possibilities for the quarter or the year. Sometimes the money just disappears, such as with government contracts. It is embarrassing to the advisor, especially when the advisor had already made plans on the money (such as by promising you funding). Consider going to the chair or graduate director. Take up a TAship, teach a summer class, or find other sources of funding around your department or even in a different department.</div>
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First you have to find a job in a supportive environment. Attend the CRA-W workshop for junior faculty in which they teach you how to be a good mentor and advisor. Have a mentor in the department that you join, that can help you along. Don't do it as trial an error, one student at a time. As a graduate student you can work with undergraduates in the summer on collaborative projects, and practice advising and mentoring.</div>
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<br /></div>PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-72615513553550889822011-11-11T10:01:00.001-08:002011-11-25T08:17:00.033-08:00Connecting the Disconnected: Improving Internet Access for the Other Four BillionThis post is about <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2011/conference/schedule-at-a-glance/friday-november-11-2011/">Connecting the Disconnected: Improving Internet Access for the Other Four Billion</a> with Professor <a href="http://www.princeton.edu/~mrm/">Margaret Martonosi</a> from <a href="http://www.cs.princeton.edu/">Department of Computer Science at Princeton University</a>, at <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2011/">Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing</a>.<br />
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Information technology is an enabler. It is an enabler in education - for people to learn, through online courses, articles, and things in the public domain; in health care - getting an ultrasound when needed; in agriculture - the ability to find out why your crops aren't thriving; and in open and fair government - the ability to discuss politics openly with other people.<br />
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This presentation was about C-LINK, a type of delay-tolerant vehicular network. (Note: This vehicular network is an example of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sneakernet">Sneakernet</a>, though I don't think Margaret ever called it this.)<br />
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<b>The current state of universal connectivity</b><br />
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Sure, the US is connected. Over 75% of the country has wired or wireless access. But there's the digital divide. The digital divide means that the places that need this technology the most are the places with the most impaired access to it.<br />
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The three factors influencing universal information technology access includes relevant and accessible software, using effective and affordable hardware, and have universal connectivity. C-LINK, Margaret's project, was influenced by all three.<br />
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The problem with affordable hardware is the "last mile" problem: it is easy to connect the majority of the people, but in the last mile, you have to extend connectivity to rural or hard-to-reach regions. This can be complicated, and costly. In rural Africa (for example), the last mile is of a whole different scale. So then we consider wireless technology, which is expensive, we need to think about how it still needs a wired backbone, requires ongoing maintenance, is subject to corruption or salvaging (because copper sells), and it needs political support. On the other hand, wireless technology is leapfrogging wired connectivity (especially in developing regions). Mobile and cellular is a big growth area and are increasingly penetrating the world. But even though there is so much cellular technology going on, that doesn't mean that it's cheap.<br />
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Let's look at effective and affordable hardware. Although there are efforts to build cheap hardware (such as the hundred-dollar laptop made by the <a href="http://one.laptop.org/">One Laptop Per Child</a> organization), it's not taking off. It's just not pervasive -- most of Africa and Asia have less than 10 computers per 100 people. That's even when you consider microcontrollers as "computers." So what is the world's computer? The world's computer is a cell phone. About half of the world's adults own one. There are more cell phones in India than credit cards -- and cell phones, even when they're not smartphones, are chock full of interactivity. (Note: Can you imagine an accessible <a href="http://www.qwiki.com/">Qwiki</a> for developing nations that works over SMS? I can.)<br />
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Wired connectivity: availability is increasing and costs are dropping. For example, transit prices in Kenya have dropped to $120/Mbps -- which are similar to US prices in 2003.<br />
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Delay-tolerant network: Imagine a big city with a broadband connection, and a nearby village. Imagine that the village is on some rural bus or taxi route to the city. Now, imagine that the bus has a laptop inside, with a large hard drive and a wireless access point. People (and goats and chickens) board the bus in the village, send some requests on the laptop. Although the laptop isn't connected to the broadband, it can queue the request and send it when it reaches the city, and bring back the reply when it returns to the village. If the bus visits the village every 5 hours, that's a 5-hour latency -- but at least it is access to information.<br />
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The vehicular delay-tolerant network is very low-cost, easy to deploy, and has a very high data carrying capacity. Villagers can collaborate on their queries, and the results can be available to others in the village doing similar web searches (called collaborative caching). The system can also be improved by clever prefetching -- the computer on the bus can be thinking hard over the next several hours about what <i>else</i> can be proactively fetched based on the current queries. Clearly, prefetching all of the links on a page would be smart, but maybe so would translating a page from a local language to a more commonly-used language. This isn't a microcontroller with a tiny cache. This is a big hard drive. If the hard drive is huge, there is no worry about performance loss in prefetching things that will not be used, but the overhead of not having things that may be useful is huge.<br />
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<b>"Come back tomorrow. Your data will be on the bus."</b><br />
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The authors designed, built, and tested C-LINK, the vehicular delay-tolerant network, over a week in Nicaragua. The city was Somotillo, Nicaragua -- no skyscrapers, but there was a school with a computer cluster and wired connectivity and a small, expensive Internet cafe with 2 computers. Participants were school children, invited to come in and browse the highly-delayed web. About 80% of the participants in the project had never used the Internet before. One of the cool things that the project looked at is when participants sent at the same query, or searched collaboratively. With each successive trip into the village, the bus brought back more data. As the village's cache filled up, users' miss rates plummeted. Data were on their computers or on the computers of their collaborators -- remember collaborative caching? The authors found that highly correlated access patterns provided strong incentive for collaboration. Oh, and we can evict old data or data that has not been accessed recently. Any cache eviction policy will work here.<br />
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Then Margaret and her team considered using laptops and other mobile computing devices and, despite the worry of data loss, found that going mobile wasn't so bad. If anything, it made for <i>more</i> kiosks -- little hubs for collaborative information. Then, they found that the requests for data were fairly small, so it was possible to exploit cellular connectivity, where available. They looked at data brought back by the once-a-day trip into town, by the 5-times-per-day bus ride, and a hybrid data retrieval mode by combining these with exploiting SMS.<br />
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<b>Look around you</b><br />
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Other software that the authors found interesting and noteworthy included these.<br />
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<li>TEK is an e-mail-based web browser.</li>
<li>M-Profesa helps Kenyan children prepare for the secondary school test through SMS.</li>
<li>Ushahidi, also originally Kenyan, helps with crowd-sourcing of information.</li>
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Imagine what you could do if you could alleviate teacher shortages by having better distance learning technologies. Imagine what you could do if you could have better information flow and expose corruption in the government. Get involved in <a href="http://www.ewb-usa.org/">Engineers Without Borders</a> and attend Development conferences, such as <a href="http://dev2012.org/">ACM DEV 2012</a>. Make a company. Build stuff!</div>
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<br /></div>PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-97819553324480392011-11-10T15:46:00.001-08:002011-11-25T08:17:00.039-08:00Community College Women in Computer Science: A Study's Preliminary ResultsThis is a post about <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2011/conference/schedule-at-a-glance/thursday-november-10-2011/">Community College Women in Computer Science: A Study's Preliminary Results</a> at <a href="http://gracehopper.org/">Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing</a>.<br />
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The authors present their preliminary results from studies from community college students around California, aiming to answer the question <b>what makes community college students transfer to 4-year university?</b> That is: What factors determine whether community college students enrolled in a CS1-like course intend to study computer science at a 4-year university?<br />
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<b>True or false? </b>There are different motivations for males and females in pursuing computer science as a major, and women just don't value computing. The answer is false. Men were found to have great expectations for success with computing, but there were no gender differences in how much students value computing.<br />
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<b>True or false? </b> Family support is critical in choice of major and parental pressure is based on gender stereotypes. Also false. Family support was not critical, but peer encouragement was very important for both women and men in pursuing science.<br />
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<b>True or false?</b> Women's under-representation in computer science majors is due to lack of computer use an lack of computer game play. This one is true. Intention to pursue computer science was very important, and exposure to computing and computers (including gaming) was associated with intention.<br />
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The authors presented work collected over a true longitudinal study over two years, looking at demographics as well as social factors that may influence students' staying in computing after community college. They sampled the students three times: at time of enrollment, half-way through the program, and at the end of the two-year program.<br />
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Women were more likely to be older, have had a degree already, have a mother working in computing, and have had a programming mentor when enrolling in the introductory programming course, compared to male students. Whether or not a woman was comfortable talking to her professor did not affect her intention to pursue computing (and the other way around). Women thought computer programming was like thinking.<br />
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Men had a greater intention to pursue computer science at a four-year university, were more likely to play video games longer, and have mothers with no BS/BA, compared to female students. Men thought computer programming was creative.<br />
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How do we increase the number of women in computer science?<br />
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1) Men see computer science as creative, but women don't -- they see it as thinking. How can we bring creativity to women?<br />
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2) Men are influenced by computing experiences, including video games, in their intention to pursue compter science. How do we use games to help intention to pursue a bachelors (or higher) degree in computing? How do we get gals into games? How do we provide early programming opportunities to gals?<br />
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3) Men report that they get more support from their peers. How do we encourage peer support for women?<br />
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I'm envisioning a League of Legends clan for high school girls!PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-70155903904491387572011-11-10T10:11:00.001-08:002011-11-25T08:17:00.031-08:00What if... You Thrived on the Tenure Track?This is a post about <a href="http://gracehopper.org/2011/conference/schedule-at-a-glance/thursday-november-10-2011/">What if... You Thrived on the Tenure Track</a>? at <a href="http://gracehopper.org/">Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing</a>.<br />
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<b>Ceclia Aragon</b> took a 14-year leave from graduate school. In the time, she had two kids, was a stunt pilot (yup, in air shows), and worked for NASA. When she was a little tired with the life of a badass rockstar, she finished her PhD and got a tenure-track position (she is now tenured). She gives some advice about organic networking: It's easy to say that you should hang out with important people. But what do you do when you're shy? "I hang out with my friends, and now, guess what -- my friends are now important people." She says that the life of an academic suits her perfectly because it lets her pursue the things that are interesting and to truly find balance in her home. Jobs are more flexible, interesting, and fun at the top of the food chain, she says, and you work just as hard as in lower-level, less interesting jobs. "Life balance works well when you have that kind of autonomy."<br />
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<b>Magdelena Balazinska</b> has a lot of accomplishments, but also a lot of failures: grant rejections, paper rejections, proposal rejections. "Just don't list those," she says. Focus on the positive. She shows pictures of the house she and her husband designed and built, and her two children in various stages of infancy and toddlerhood. How does she manage? "I get help from anyone who's willing to help! I do what I have to do, and I ask for what I need." She flashes photographs of her husband with a baby during one business trip, and her mother with a baby during a conference in Greece where she had to present. NSF panel in Washington, DC? No problem -- a photograph of her and a baby outdoors with an explanation: "You can just call in, and then nobody sees how you nurse your baby!" Magdelena says, "I don't try to be perfect. I just do what I can."<br />
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Following a different path, <b>Anne Condon</b> was an assistant professor when she was barely 25 years old -- and now her daughter, whom she had when in her first faculty job, is attending Grace Hopper Celebration. "For me personally, the combination of the academic life and the family life is fantastic." Anne gives some advice:<br />
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<li>Communicate effectively -- and if you need to bulk up your public speaking skills, it's never too late.</li>
<li>Enjoy teaching others.</li>
<li>Build strong research support networks. The research community is just not that supportive, she says. "You might give a talk at a conference and there might be 20 people in the room, and 19 of them are on their laptops." I think she looked at me, here, as I typed out that phrase. Oops.</li>
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<li>Focus on your students. Mentoring your students is a form of teaching, and this is a service that you need to provide to your students.</li>
<li>Know your institution. You don't have to make it work if your expectations are not met.</li>
<li>Get involved beyond your institution. This is where opportunities come from, to grow as a person and as a researcher.</li>
<li>Appreciate life beyond work. Family and friends make life worthwhile.</li>
<li>Enjoy the ride!</li>
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Q: How did you make the choice to go into academia?</div>
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Cecilia: In academia, you get to determine what is important. You choose to perform research that has impact.</div>
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Magdalena: Apply everywhere, and make the decision with an offer in hand from both industry and academia. The interviewing process is a lot of fun. The reason I went into academia because the interview in academia was more fun than in industry. One of the huge advantages in academia is not only that you get to pick <i>what</i> you work on, but also <i>who</i> you work with.</div>
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<br />Q: We all know that tenure-track positions are hard to get. Should we accept non-tenure-track positions (postdoc, industry), or hold out?</div>
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Cecilia: In 2004 I wanted to be a faculty member, but I wasn't ready (by publication count and preparation). I took a job in an industry lab not really knowing if I would make the transition. But I worked on making my CV look like I was an academic while keeping up in my industry job. I wrote papers and attended academic conferences that came out of novel research in my job. Choose the industry position or the post-doc that will be most suited to your goals. Have a deliberate plan.</div>
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Jodi: There are lots of schools out there that are not the R1 institutions. If you really want to get into academia, consider going to lower-tier institutions. Maybe the pay isn't as good, maybe you start on a non-tenure-track position, but keep your mind open to other options.</div>
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Q: Do you really need a post-doc nowadays to get a tenure-track position?</div>
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Anne: As someone that went straight into such a position without a post-doc, I think it's a good thing to do. There is a maturity process that happens over that time; you meet different people and you investigate other institutions. I encourage you not to rush through things if there is no reason not to.</div>
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Cecilia: That's a great answer. I have seen people that have gone straight through. If you do it right from the very beginning of your PhD program -- you are publishing 2 papers in top conferences, you're networking with the top people in your field for 5 years -- then yes, you can get such a position. But if you're like everyone else, you don't have the pedigree in your publication record, then yes, take a post-doc. But make sure you choose your postdoctoral mentor carefully: they can make or break your career. A post-doc is an apprenticeship. You're getting paid less than you're worth. But on the flip-side, you're getting priceless mentoring from someone that's going to show you the ropes and make you very marketable.</div>
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Q: How do you make the choice between academic offers, or between a research lab versus a university?</div>
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Magda: If you have no other constraints (e.g., personal ones), go to the best university, because you will work with better students. The better the students, the easier it is for the faculty to do well.</div>
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Ioana: Go where the smarter people are and where there are more opportunities.</div>
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Cecilia: I put together a matrix of things that were important to me. Vacation locations, startup package, what my family liked.</div>
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Natalie: The people. Colleagues. Also, my husband was leaving his job so I wanted to go somewhere that he had a choice</div>
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You have to go home every night and still be happy.</div>
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Q: Cecilia, you are shy. How do you overcome this and how does it impact your career?</div>
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Cecilia: Yeah, I am shy. I miss important connections, and I just accept that. I know that when I started interviewing, I did not mention certain rare accomplishments that few academics achieve, and I didn't mention my highly technical background in mathematics and algorithms. The unsurprising feedback was that I wasn't technical enough, and I didn't get an offer from this institution. I told myself that for future interviews, I'm going to brag, even if I don't like doing that. I felt like I was acting kind of like a jerk, but I got offers. It works.</div>
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Q: How do you publish, write grants, mentor students, etc., in your first years?</div>
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Natalie: At first, it was terrifying. Teaching can suck up a lot of your time because it's the most urgent thing. The hardest thing is to make time for the thinking, to think about problems, solutions, and what you're going to do next. I think I messed up my first student. And have someone in your life that can give you practical advice when you're stuck.</div>
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Q: How do you deal with stress?</div>
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Jodi: It's actually a very important question. If you don't deal with it, it will impact everything that you do. I have to get out and do something: ride my bike, go to the gym, jump on the treadmill. And then I go do something else, make myself some space to think about something else. Then things fall into place and things don't look so bad as when you left them.</div>
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Magda: I talk -- to my husband, my family, my friends. But not colleagues. That's why it is so important to have family and friends.</div>
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Q: Family is my first priority. I want to be a professor, but the 7-year tenure time is prime baby time. I'm afraid that my male department won't like my priority of family dinners and baby-having.</div>
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Cecilia: Men, when they have to take care of a family obligation, they say, "I'm busy." Women say, "I'm busy, I have to go take care of my kid." So when you have to go take care of a family obligation, be more like a man, and say: "I'm busy."</div>
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Magda: I work and work and work, and at 5, I say, "I have to go." And I leave. And guess what, a lot of my male colleagues have to go too. And after the kids are in bed I work and work and work. Maybe I don't sleep always as much as I used to, but it works for me. And when I need to, I do sleep.</div>
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Ioana: Having family as a priority is not a problem. Being confident and admitting that is the way to go. I wouldn't want to be hired by a family-unfriendly institution. I was very open about my 2-body problem in my job search. The places that were not very accommodating, I did not consider.</div>
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Q: What advice do you have for someone applying for a tenure-track position with a partner? It's a 2-body problem with a similar area of computing.</div>
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Anne: I think it's good to bring it up reasonably early with the institution. If one of you has got an interview, that is a good time to bring it up. You may want to wait until you have an offer, but it is better to let them know sooner so that the university can work on this issue. Institutions need time for this. There are other options: a short-term position that can turn into something more permanent; maybe there is industry nearby. Be flexible but know what you really want. For the university, if you can attract two great people to your institution, it's amazing.</div>
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Q: What are you proud of that you have done outside your academic career that you wouldn't have been able to accomplish without an academic career?</div>
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Jodi: My academic career allows me to be flexible to do things like pursue mentoring with ACM-W and Grace Hopper Celebration</div>
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Anne: I got to take on many projects of national scope, such as the distributed mentor project and work through the Computing Research Association (CRA).</div>PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-89807165386014634962011-11-08T11:55:00.000-08:002011-11-25T08:17:00.037-08:00Grace Hopper '11 checklist: Five things to do at GHC11<a href="http://gracehopper.org/">Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing</a> is basically a giant lady-party in which all of the conference attendees are gorgeous, brilliant, and interesting. But you already know this, because I have blogged about Grace Hopper in my post about <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2011/09/five-do-overs-since-my-first-grace.html">do-overs next time I go</a>, and in my post from <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2009/10/grace-hopper-celebration-of-women-in.html">my attendance in 2009</a>. That is not totally right -- it is not just a party. It is an opportunity to showcase your work, learn about other women's research, find out ways to bring more women into our field and make it more woman-friendly, meet new people, and build lasting relationships.<br />
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Here are the top five things that I wish to get out of attending Grace Hopper Celebration this year, in 2011.<br />
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<b>5. Reconnect with old friends</b><br />
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It has been a year -- in some cases, more -- since I have seen old acquaintances, friends, and mentors. From my first room mate, to the professor that has changed how I see myself as a researcher, to the group of 200 women that have given me the gift of working with my rockstar undergraduate student, I look forward to seeing these ladies again.<br />
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<b>4. Find a collaborator</b><br />
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Researching alone can be dismal. Would it not be fun to meet someone with similar interests, in which we can complement each others' strengths? I have this rosy dream about collaborating on a paper with someone I had met once (maybe twice) at Grace Hopper.<br />
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<b>3. Meet a new mentor</b><br />
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My career will soon be in flux: next year, I will be dissertating while on the academic job market. (Note: Even though Blogger doesn't think "dissertating" is a word, it totally is.) I imagine I will be in need of new guidance -- of help finding appropriate job openings, navigating the complicated job-seeking and application system, and finding the best way to present myself to particular universities. What better place to meet someone that can potentially help me than at Grace Hopper?<br />
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<b>2. Make a new mentee</b><br />
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(Note: Blogger doesn't think "mentee" is a word, but if it isn't, it should be. It's who mentors advise!) As a senior graduate student in her final throes, maybe -- <i>maybe</i> -- my experience can be valuable to someone. I have an undergraduate degree with two majors, I worked in industry for 3 years, I had a baby pre-advancement in graduate school, and I work in a highly interdisciplinary field doing research of my own invention. I write grants, I write blog posts, I invent eHealth learning methods, and I play video games. Surely I could be a resource to somebody!<br />
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<b>1. Say thanks</b><br />
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I am pretty lucky that in four years of attending Grace Hopper, I have never paid for the visit myself. In three years, I have never paid for child care. In two years, I have contributed to the program at Grace Hopper, hosting sessions and panels. I feel privileged that I have helped shape the community of women that I am about to see again, meet, or just observe. So, at Grace Hopper this year, I plan to say thanks for accepting me as a part of the package of women in computing, of technical women.<br />
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If you will be at Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing in Portland, please find me and say hello! I will be tweeting as <b>@lexyholloway</b>.PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-58258955974546276982011-10-30T19:23:00.000-07:002011-10-30T20:35:08.534-07:00Women, video games, and stereotype threatHow does being a woman affect my perceived ability to, as they say, <i>pwn it up</i> in video games? Secretly, I feel a huge pressure to do well, and feel that I constantly fail to achieve not only mine, but everyone else's expectations for me as a member of a multiplayer team. No one is more surprised than I am when I capture a point, destroy an enemy, or execute a plan. I tell myself that it must be an accidental and temporary victory. What is it that renders me unable to believe my own accomplishments in game, and how do I deal with these feelings?<br />
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In a recent meeting of women scientists and engineers on our college campus, we discussed stereotype threat and how it can affect women. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotype_threat">Stereotype threat is defined on Wikipedia</a> as "the experience of anxiety or concern in a situation where a person has the potential to confirm a negative stereotype about their social group." How susceptible one is to stereotype threat depends on a few things:<br />
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<li>How much one identifies with a particular group;</li>
<li>The negative stereotypes society places on that group;</li>
<li>Knowing about (2), and not knowing how to counteract stereotype threat (e.g., by just knowing thine enemy).</li>
</ol>
Some examples of being touched by stereotype threat can include women that believe that women are <i>supposed to</i> underperform on math tests compared to men; African-Americans that believe they <i>ought to </i>under-perform on graduate entry exams; and, well, women that believe they don't belong among their male peers in video games. When left unchecked, stereotype threat can develop into self-handicap and other types of self-fulfilling prophecies: You believe you will do poorly (maybe because you believe everyone else believes you <i>should</i> do poorly), and so you do. You study less, you practice less, because -- what's the point? -- you will still underperform because it is destiny. And if you do not do poorly -- if you did well, if you exceeded your expectations? The thinking goes that it was clearly a mistake. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syndrome">You are an impostor in your field.</a><br />
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<b>It is not destiny.</b><br />
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I will just out and say it: <b>I am a gamer.</b> Whew. Just writing that makes me feel all sorts of awkward. Because in my head there is a doubting monologue: Am I a gamer? But I'm not good. I'm not that good. I'm actually pretty bad. In fact, I'm worst on the team. We lose because of me. I spend most of my time dead or making bad choices, or both. It's probably pretty dull to have me on the team. My playing frustrates my teammates. People play with me out of pity. It goes on and on and manifests itself in other ways: for example, if a teammate types something mean in chat (such as "<i>wtf</i>, <i>noob</i>" -- code for "you idiot"), I start looking around furiously for what I have done wrong.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This is the game at which I allegedly suck.</td></tr>
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And here is the weird thing. Nine times out of ten, I have done nothing wrong, and the comment is not intended for me. A quarter or even half the time, I am among the top three players on my team. <i>People still play with me.</i><br />
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Why is this surprising to me? I come from a long line of anti-gamers. With the exception of my grandfather, who played chess, a socially-acceptable game, none of my family looked kindly on games and the people that play them. Moreover, there is the rest of society: Women should not be gamers. And if they are gamers, they should be <i>really good</i>, like they always are in the webcomics about gamers. They should be pro-level. They should be <i>so good</i> that <i>nobody</i> dares to challenge them. I am not making this up -- do a quick search for "woman gamer." I am not like any of these women.<br />
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In the women in sciences group meeting, it occurred to me that I expect the worst so that I can be pleasantly surprised in the end. I do this in classes, on exams, in grants; to some extent, in my conference publication submissions... and in video games. I expect to be worst on the team, and when, at the end of the game, I discover that I was <i>not</i> worst (or better) -- well, it is cause for celebration! Right?<br />
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But it is more complicated than pure joy at the surprise: The feeling sours quickly. I feel that it is a fluke. Somehow, the statistics engine generating the score had a malfunction. It missed a few of those times that I fired the missile in the wrong direction. Or teleported on top of an enemy and died instantly. Or forgot to use my very powerful weapon ability. Video games are a strange place to find <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syndrome">impostor syndrome</a>, but there it is.<br />
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Of course, none of those thing happened. There was no fluke in measurement. I really did perform as well as the statistics say I did: nine kills, four deaths, ten assists. Number two on the team. Really. Why is it so hard to acknowledge my own success? Because there is no way I am as good as my male peers, and I am nowhere near as good as I feel I ought to be, as a woman-gamer.<br />
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What is interesting is that the level of anxiety that surrounds me playing multiplayer online battle arena (MOBA) games greatly exceeds anything else I have done: public speaking, presenting research, taking a math final... even wooing hot-shot investors. Although -- no surprise -- playing games is more fun, it is also the thing about which I have such serious performance anxiety and self-criticism.<br />
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<b>Getting over it, baby steps</b><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Really? This is what I look like?</td></tr>
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I have attended several "impostor panels," panels and talks about impostor syndrome -- including at <a href="http://gracehopper.org/">Grace Hopper Celebration for Women in Computing</a> and locally at my university through the women in science, engineering, and technology group. Here are some of the steps in dealing with stereotype threat and impostor syndrome.<br />
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<ol>
<li><b>Recognize it. </b>Just knowing that stereotype threat and impostor syndrome is there, looming, empowers you to reframe your experiences, both during the experience and after the fact. Recognize that your feelings, although genuine, are affected by societal pressures, and that these are things you can change.</li>
<li><b>Talk about it.</b> Lots of other people have these feelings. How many other women feel like I feel about video games? I have no idea. But I know that lots of other women feel this way about being in computing, hard science, and math fields because I have talked to them about it. I have heard their stories and shared mine. And part of moving on is to get validation. </li>
<li><b>Help others.</b> One of the ways found to counteract stereotype threat was to just say at the start of class that the threatened group is expected to (or is known to) perform as well as the other group. "Men and women score the same on this test." If you are a professor, teaching assistant, teacher, or just a friend, you can do this. One (male) player told me, "You play just as well as my other friends." And that was priceless.</li>
<li><b>Take criticism, and take praise.</b> Criticism is meant to make you perform better. You could have solved that problem differently, better, or faster? Think about it, and move on. If someone offers praise -- you really blew everyone out of the water with that proof (or damage-dealing stun), take it at face value. This part is difficult, but you can start by saying "Thank you" rather than the self-insulting "Oh, it was nothing" while feeling that you did not deserve that victory. There is even a <a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Putting-Yourself-Down">WikiHow on how to stop putting yourself down</a>.</li>
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One final note for women: In online multiplayer video games, it helps to remember that more than half the time, everyone else thinks you are a 14-year-old boy anyway. Me? I like to act the part.<br />
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<b>About you</b><br />
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<b>Have you studied stereotype threat in women in video games?</b> If so, I would love to hear about it.<b> </b> I have found only one proposed study on <a href="http://crossculturalrhetoric.wordpress.com/2011/02/01/stereotype-threat-for-women-in-gaming/">stereotype threat for women in gaming</a>, and the rest seems to be anecdotal. <b>How has your experience been?</b>PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-72073094550346821012011-10-26T11:36:00.000-07:002011-10-26T11:36:15.727-07:00I write like Jonathan Swift?!<a href="http://iwl.me/">I Write Like</a>, the website which analyses your writing and tells you which author your writing resembles most, analyzed my blog with the following result:<br />
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I write like<br />
<a href="http://iwl.me/w/d7939cdb" style="color: #698b22; font-size: 30px; text-decoration: none;">David Foster Wallace</a></div>
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<em>I Write Like</em> by Mémoires, <a href="http://www.codingrobots.com/memoires/" style="color: #888888;">journal software</a>. <a href="http://iwl.me/" style="background: #FFFFE0; color: #333333;"><b>Analyze your writing!</b></a></div>
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Next, I input a couple paragraphs from my most recent publication on file systems usability:<br />
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I write like<br />
<a href="http://iwl.me/w/49609d48" style="color: #698b22; font-size: 30px; text-decoration: none;">Jonathan Swift</a></div>
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<em>I Write Like</em> by Mémoires, <a href="http://www.codingrobots.com/memoires/" style="color: #888888;">journal software</a>. <a href="http://iwl.me/" style="background: #FFFFE0; color: #333333;"><b>Analyze your writing!</b></a></div>
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What's interesting is not necessarily the authors, but what this may mean. Is my academic writing hard to read and antiquated? Do I use unnecessary English anachronisms? I don't know. <br />
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But I do know that <a href="http://iwl.me/">I Write Like</a> analysed a professor-mentor's <i>academic</i> writing as David Foster Wallace. Her grant proposals read like my blog.<br />
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That's harrowing. By which I mean, that's distressing.PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-56439055777065815782011-09-23T15:00:00.000-07:002011-09-23T15:17:08.591-07:00Why I'll never be a nurseI'll be honest. My research direction has been making me curious. Could I be a nurse, or a midwife, or even an obstetrician? I am already a doula, and I have more book-knowledge of labor, birth, and the early postpartum period, including surgery, than many of the nursing students I have met. Each time I have attended a birth so far, my curiosity was tickled: is this for me?<br />
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When I was invited to attend a labor support workshop, part of a nursing student course in midwifery taught by one of my research collaborators, I was excited. Walking up to the building and passing dozens of men and women dressed in scrubs, walking quickly along both sides of the sunny street, engaged in conversation or talking on cell phones, I thought: with a small difference, a slight twist of fate, that could have been me. <br />
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To the workshop I arrived on time, took a seat, and looked about the room. It was filled with students just like me: young (I would like to think I am young, despite being older than most of the students in the room), energetic, eager to learn. I asked around and learned that everyone had already chosen a specialty. The woman sitting beside me would become a nurse practitioner, the man beside her will be an "acute" nurse (that is, working with very ill patients), and the woman across the table will go on to an administrative position. <br />
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I was interested in this, and was especially interested in the students' experiences in different classes. One student talked about her last class, which was about oncology. I liked the idea of the "grand tour" of specializations that every student submits to, no matter his or her interest, and thought that something similar for computer science (or, more broadly, computing and electronics) would be excellent. I knew I would be a computer engineer even before I took my first computer engineering course -- but the course sealed my love and I declared my major. But other students were not so lucky to have found their niche as smoothly as I did. Would they have benefitted from a grand tour, exposing them to electrical engineering, programming languages, assembly language, high-level database design, and robotics?<br />
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Later, I asked my colleague, who was teaching the class, how it is that everyone already knows what they will be at the end of the three-year program. She explained that students choose their specialties before they even apply. Once applied and accepted, they cannot switch, and if switching to another program (such as midwifery, as often happens as a result of this birthing class), they must withdraw from the program and re-apply.<br />
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"Yikes," I said. "That's heartless!"<br />
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"Yes, it is difficult," she replied. "There is no way to know for certain before you apply what you will be good at, or what you will even enjoy as a profession."<br />
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I spent all day in the hospital classroom among the students learning about birth support, and what it means to support a woman in birth. Having undergone doula training and having read everything possible on the subject, I could answer the rhetorical questions about the mother and how to support her. But I was pleased to learn about the relationships between the clinicians and to hear, from a midwife who practices in a hospital, how the medical pieces of birth fit together and work. <br />
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I did not know, for example, about the rigid hierarchy that exists between nursing students, nurses, clinician instructors, and providers. But on learning of it, I thought it was lovely. Every student that belongs in the program occupies a very specific place in it. As a student, you always know where your place is and to whom to turn with questions. And whom you mentor. You know where your responsibility lies, and (more importantly) where your responsibility <i>ends,</i> and where you escalate your issue or question to someone else, someone farther up the hierarchy.<br />
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In computer science, we do not have this. You wade through your program, sometimes overtaking your peers, and other times falling back. You graduate, sometimes ahead of your peers, sometimes behind them. You get a job, and depending on the work and the company and the culture, you are left to fend for yourself. You are given a stack of tasks, sometimes poorly-defined, and are left to figure them out on your own, because you are, after all, a college graduate. You are a computer scientist. When you have questions, you ask anybody and everybody and hope for the best, or you ask no one at all. Mentoring relationships are forged, usually accidentally, sometimes forcedly -- and frequently, not at all. The stereotype of the computer scientist working alone, always alone, is sadly true, but never desired. Nobody likes to work in a vacuum.<br />
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So, I thought these relationships which were so rigid and unquestioning were also beautiful, like lace that ties all these students who will be graduates together and to their peers and superiors.<br />
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As I looked around the room in the second half of the workshop, I saw some faces still eagerly listening, taking it all in. Other faces were contorted in horror -- the horror of the memory of what a woman's vagina actually <i>does.</i> The explanation came moments before. And then it hit me: Nurses <i>learn</i> not to fear their jobs. They do not come in to the practice unfearing. First they learn to conceal their fear, and then they learn not to fear.<br />
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At the end of the workshop, I left for another hospital, where I attended a volunteer doula meeting. I am in the process of becoming a volunteer with this teaching hospital (in which many of the students from the workshop will be training). In the meeting, issues came up which highlighted some doulas' misunderstanding of the nursing relationship to the patient and to the provider. For example, doulas do not always understand <i>why</i> certain procedures are necessary and argue on behalf of their clients in inopportune ways. Continuous fetal monitoring is always required with an epidural because the baby is at risk when drugs are crossing the placental barrier, yet sometimes, through their own ignorance and not through any malicious means, doulas may argue with the nurses. I was surprised to learn this because I thought as a doula, my job is <i>not</i> to argue with anybody, and especially on behalf of the mother -- to create a calm atmosphere regardless of the situation at hand.<br />
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But really, what the doula meeting taught me was that doulas are seriously unprepared. A workshop covering the basics of nursing and the clinician relationships is absolutely essential. I am glad I profited from such a workshop, and wish more doulas had a similar opportunity.<br />
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I came home that night exhausted. I had spent the majority of the day in hospitals. The monotony of artificial lighting, artificial air, and artificial manner (for example, nurses hiding their boredom) was too much for me. All this talk about birth and babies, a topic that I absolutely adore and consider a fundamental cornerstone to my own work, had, for the first time ever, completely drained me. At home, I was conscious of the desire to reunite with my computer, to pull out my notebook, and to design, code, engineer, and think.<br />
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And for the first time since embarking on my research, I realized: Nursing, midwifery, and obstetrics -- maybe these are not for me.<br />
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I am a technical woman.PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-27582384614087811992011-09-23T11:47:00.000-07:002011-11-25T08:17:00.026-08:00Five do-overs since my first Grace Hopper Celebration for Women in Computing<a href="http://gracehopper.org/">Grace Hopper Celebration for Women in Computing</a> is an annual event bringing together thousands of women from different technical computing specialties and at different stages of their career. Attendees include undergraduates considering computer science as a major, graduate students choosing their research direction, recent graduates looking for a job, women in industry, professors, researchers, and recruiters. It is a diverse, funky, exciting, inspiring, and nurturing environment of two thousand women, all of whom are smart, brilliant, beautiful, and different in their own right.<br />
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This year will be my fourth time attending, which makes me a Grace Hopper veteran. I first heard about Grace Hopper Celebration from my room mate from <a href="http://cra-w.org/graduate-cohort-workshop">CRA-W Grad Cohort</a> -- a similar but much smaller mentoring program for graduate student women -- when I asked my room mate how on earth she knew all these people. She was saying "Hi," calling people by name, and giving hugs to everybody!<br />
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"How do you know everyone already?" I asked her.<br />
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"Some women I know from last year's Grad Cohort," she replied. "But some women I see basically twice a year: at the Grad Cohort and then again at Grace Hopper Celebration."<br />
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"What's that?" I asked. Casually hiding her surprise that I had neer heard of Grace Hopper Celebration, she explained it to me, and that night in our hotel room I looked it up and bookmarked it.<br />
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When Grace Hopper Celebration came around that year, my advisor asked if there are any women that would like to go, because our university was a sponsor and received a few spaces for student attendees. Of course, I replied immediately in the affirmative, and off I went!<br />
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Now that I have been three times to Grace Hopper Celebration (this year will mark my third time as a contributor) and twice to the CRA-W Grad Cohort, I can look back on my first Grace Hopper Celebration visit a bit critically.<br />
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My first year, Grace Hopper Celebration was held in Keystone, Colorado, a small resort town situated in the mountains among an aspen forest. The trees were just starting to turn in ones and twos: blots of color among a sea of green leaves. I was driven from the airport in a shuttle and looked out onto the picturesque landscape with wide eyes. I was young, impressionable, and pregnant.<br />
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Yup, I was about 24 weeks along in my pregnancy. I knew I was carrying a boy, and I had just returned from a trip abroad -- a delayed honeymoon -- before having time to buy clothes that fit me. My belly had just started getting too big for my pants. It happened so suddenly that I was ill-prepared, wardrobe-wise, for the change in my figure. I was a hot mess, unbuttoning my jeans and praying that my fitted t-shirts did not bust into holes stretched over my growing belly. When my mother saw me at the airport on my return from Grace Hopper, she was shocked at my fashion sense, but at the time, I figured that is just an extension of the typical graduate student lifestyle. Right? Please tell me I am right.<br />
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Anyway, back to the point -- I could have done a better job. As an early(ish) graduate student, my main role was to be receptive to mentoring and to meet people that would help me in my career path. I see that now, in hindsight, but at the time I did not recognize these goals. Here were my top five mistakes from the first year. Every year I go back, I get a do-over and do my best to avoid these.<br />
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<b>Do-Over #5. Eat lunch and dinner.</b><br />
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At CRA-W Grad Cohort, one of the rules was that no two women from the same university could sit together at lunch. You <i>had</i> to learn to network, and to meet other women. But here, at Grace Hopper Celebration, there was no such rule, and even if there was, there is no way to enforce it with 2000 attendees. So attendees would sit with the people they knew more often than not, and I, seeing this social norm, followed suit. Not a good idea. Now I know that it is best to sit at a table where you know <i>no one.</i> Even better: sit at a table where you know no one, and everyone is different from you. Is everyone older? They have more experience. Is everyone younger? Maybe they have questions. But if everyone is exactly like you, there is no way you can broaden your experience. Challenge yourself.<br />
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<b>Do-Over #4. Use the room mate.</b><br />
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I was at Grace Hopper Celebration on an underwriter scholarship, and, like all scholarship recipients, I had a room mate. Actually, in this year, we were in a three-room cabin in the mountains of Keystone, Colorado, and I had two house mates. My house mates were amazing. They asked me about pregnancy and married life, about the proverbial work-life balance (as if there is one), about what I will do once I have the baby (hint: stay in school). On our last night in Colorado, we all went shopping to the outlets nearby and my lovely room mates bought me a shirt that actually covered my entire front. Maybe it is silly, but I was moved.<br />
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But most of the day, my house mates (who knew each other) would be off on their own, and, in pregnancy-related discomfort (more on this later), I left them to themselves. I did not go to see their posters at the poster session; I did not ask for introductions to other women; I did not sit with them and their colleagues at lunch. But this was wrong. Use your room mate (or room mates, if you are lucky enough to have two) -- use them as mentors if they are more experienced at Grace Hopper Celebration than you are; use them as friends if they are new like you; use them as a sounding-board for your elevator pitch for your research.<br />
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My room mates approached me on the second day and said, with a sly grin, "We are thinking of taking a drive up to the summit, instead of one of the sessions. Are you in?" I considered for a moment, wondering if it is OK to skip sessions, and if we could leave the conference grounds without arousing suspicion among the organizers. Hesitating a little, I said that it sounds like great fun, and that I would certainly come.<br />
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As we arrived to the summit, the weather shifted dramatically, from cool and clear autumn to cold and foggy winter. Not another person and not another vehicle was within sight: it was just us. It began to snow in large, fluffy flakes. The electricity in the air made our hair stand straight up, and lightning bolts noiselessly crashed all around us. We giggled and photographed and huddled in our insufficient jackets -- and bonded. We formed relationships which would survive the test of time and geography -- relationships we could later fall back on in our professional and personal lives, because we had this shared experience.<br />
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<b>Do-Over #3. Couch potato networking.</b><br />
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During the course of Grace Hopper Celebration, my baby, whom I called Galahad ever since knowing I was pregnant, grew as well. I would like to think it is because of my <i>rock hard abs</i> that, one day into the Celebration, I started getting rib pain. My ribs were expanding to fit my high-carried fetus and I was in pain from the pressure in my ribcage from about noon until I went to bed every night. I did not tell anybody (except my amazing room mates) because I had never enjoyed complaining, especially to strangers. Even strangers that are there for the express purpose of caring for and mentoring me.<br />
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Half the day, my ribs would hurt so much that I could not sit up. Sometimes I would go back to my room and lie down; other times, I would sprawl out sideways on one of the low arm chairs in the conference area and try not to moan. Both of these were missed networking opportunities. Now I see that it is OK to sprawl in pain rather than attend a session, as long as I am doing something to further my career.<br />
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See, I had no idea where my academic career was going. Here I was, not even half-way through my first pregnancy, not even two years through grad school, and with no idea where my research interests were. Every class I took was fascinating for the first three weeks; every project I undertook was interesting only for the first half. I knew I was a fantastic teacher but had never undertaken any serious research project. I knew I wanted to be a professor eventually -- but a professor of what? How do you find the one thing that really turns you on?<br />
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These are all questions that, though they cannot be answered by someone else, they can point you and your mind and heart into a direction. Other women's experiences can influence how you experience yourself. Maybe I am getting a little hippy-dippy. But my point is that I was not using this time to the best of my abilities. I could have been meeting women in a higher position than myself and asking for advice; I could have been meeting my future mentor; I could have been learning with others, rather than suffering alone!<br />
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<b>Do-Over #2. Tell your secret.</b><br />
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Maybe it was the pregnancy hormones talking, but I posted an anonymous advertisement on the bulletin board:<br />
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Looking to connect with other pregnant graduate students and those with kids.</blockquote>
I added my e-mail address and hoped for the best. The truth is that I did not know what I was looking for. Support? Advice? Encouragement? I did not have any concrete questions but I wanted to know that I was not alone, that my experience was not unique. In some ways, I suppose, I wanted validation. I wanted someone to say, "I know things will get rough, but you can do it, because I did it." Though I did receive a few notes, mainly by other participants pinning replies to the same bulletin board, I never replied to them, in part because I did not know what I wanted to say, and in part because I did not want to give away my secret.<br />
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I had only told my room mates, and mentioned it once at lunch. One of the women, another student, lit up: "Do you have maternity leave at your university?" I answered honestly that I did not know. She persisted: "You know, it should be covered by the union. They bargained for it just last year. It is brand new this year. You should look it up." After lunch, she and I both went to the computers and found the relevant sections. She was glad to help me, and I was glad for the help, because until then, I had never considered my rights and my future as an employee of the university.<br />
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It was not until the last hour of the last day, when several of us were loading the bus, that I told one more person about my pregnancy. She was a young woman with a large baby, and introduced herself as a professor. We chatted briefly about pregnancy, and exchanged information. It seemed so natural and inconsequential at the time -- especially as I had such a reverence for professors because of what I now see was mild <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syndrome">impostor syndrome</a> -- but I was calmed by her easy nature and friendly manner. This small event which I had put out of my mind as an impossibility because of the difference in rank, this easy exchange of words and information, this event was probably the best thing that happened to me at Grace Hopper Celebration that year. Today, the professor who befriended me continues to mentor and support me through my final years of graduate school. I told my secret to the best person I could possibly meet.<br />
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<b>Do-Over #1. Meet the speakers.</b><br />
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I had attended a great many talks, but one in particular still speaks to me today. It was a talk I had heard before, at CRA-W, given by a graduate student that had changed direction several times in the course of her studies. She was explaining the same feelings I was having: She would take an introductory class and enjoy it immensely, but not enjoy the follow-up class. It took her a long time to find a dissertation topic. She explained several ways that dissertation topics come into existence: the extended course project, the advisor's list of unfinished work, the stroke of genius, and others. She struck me as someone I would love to be friends with -- but she was so smart! so accomplished! What would I have to offer by speaking with her?<br />
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Wrong, wrong, wrong!<br />
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Now that I am also a speaker at Grace Hopper Celebration, I know that speakers are people too. I love it when people attend my talks, and I love it even more when they stay afterwards to tell me that the talk was useful to them, my nervousness did not show, or even that my animation skills in the slides were top-notch. Which, I assure you, they are not. I love it when people tweet about my talk. I love it when people come to ask me for advice, or ask for my contact information in the case they have questions about something I said. I love just knowing that someone, somewhere, was affected by my talk.<br />
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I did approach this particular speaker, and I told her that I had heard her talk before and I really admired her. She was surprised: "What, me?" Laughing heartily, she chatted with me about grad school, clearly expressing that she considered us equals. She and I are still friends today.<br />
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Since then, I make it a point to meet every speaker that inspires me. Even if she is the president of some fancy corporation, or the first author of an influential paper, or simply the woman that said something that really resonated with me. I introduce myself and say, "What you said just now, I really took to heart. Thank you for a great talk." If we happen to meet again, I can say, "We met at Grace Hopper last year. I loved your talk." This usually leads to an invitation to join her lunch table, which -- by the way -- I always gladly accept.PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-29769116446487666122011-09-09T23:10:00.000-07:002011-09-09T23:10:21.102-07:00Violet's birth. Part 2: Fay gives birth.Read <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2011/09/violets-birth-part-1-fays-negotiations.html">Part 1 of Violet's birth, in which Fay negotiates</a> with Dr. Kim in the weeks before her due date.<br />
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That night, the day of the NST and start of the 42nd week, Fay's belief in her body was reinstated as she lost her mucus plug and had some mild contractions for about an hour, but then they stopped. I did a little dance of joy on her behalf, because I knew that her body was getting ready for it.<br />
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And that night, Fay and Simon went in to the hospital to have their NST. With the nurse's help, Fay climbed up on the hospital bed, turned on her back, and --<br />
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Gush!<br />
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"Did I pee?" She wondered. "Is it blood?"<br />
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She looked down.<br />
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Nope, not blood. It was clear and odorless. The nurse turned to her and smiled. Fay's water had broken. Simon looked on.<br />
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"I guess you're staying now," the nurse said. "I'd better admit you."<br />
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<b>"Deliver, not rest."</b><br />
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Admitted to the hospital, Fay lay on the hospital bed and looked at Simon. "This is it!" she thought. The non-stress-test (NST) was beeping merrily on the cart beside her. The nurse entered, and Fay said:<br />
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"I think I'm having a contraction. I can feel it in my back and my belly."<br />
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The nurse looked at the monitor.<br />
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"Doesn't look like it," she said. "But we'll have to get them started four hours from now. I'll bring the Pitocin."<br />
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Fay and Simon looked at the clock on the wall. It was 11pm and they were exhausted. Fay remembered my advice to her: sleep when you can in early labor.<br />
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"Can we wait?" asked Fay. "Until morning. So we can sleep and be well-rested for the Pitocin in the morning."<br />
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The nurse rolled her eyes. "You came here to deliver, not to rest."<br />
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Simon spoke next. "No, actually." He cleared his throat. "We came here for a non-stress test. We did not come to deliver."<br />
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Fay asked, "Can we go home?"<br />
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"No," replied the nurse, her voice raising in annoyance. Collecting herself, she added: "Well, yes, but you would have to sign this form in which it says you are leaving against doctor's orders. What happens to you outside this hospital," she closed her eyes and spread her hands, palms up, for dramatic effect, "is out of my hands."<br />
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Fay and Simon looked at each other.<br />
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"We'd like to wait eight hours before Pitocin."<br />
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"What difference does it make?" huffed the nurse. "If labor doesn't start in four hours, what makes you think it will start in eight?"<br />
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Fay and Simon blinked at her.<br />
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"Fine. Fine!" she scolded. "You can have six hours. I will be back to check you in four hours, at 4am. Then at 6am I will start Pitocin."<br />
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"Deal," Fay and Simon said, and breathed a sigh of relief as she waddled from the room.<br />
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<b>Sleeping labor, and active labor</b><br />
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Simon slept on the roll-out partner bed. And in her sleep, Fay had contractions. She woke up for each and every one of them. The pain radiated from her back, and with each contraction she would wake up and press her back into the bed with all her might. The counter-pressure was a relief but the pain was exhausting and all-consuming. <br />
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At 4am, the nurse returned and checked Fay's cervix. It was 4cm dilated. The nurse was defeated. Packing up her Pitocin bags, she left the room and left Fay to labor, quietly, on her own.<br />
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At 6am, Fay called me, her doula, to come. In the meantime, I told her, get on all fours and have Simon squat over you, putting pressure on your back with his hands. On your back in bed is the worst place to be. And <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2010/11/non-negotiable-two-things-that-will.html">drink some water</a>. And try the shower. Water on the back may feel nice.<br />
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<b>The doula comes</b><br />
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When I arrived, Fay and Simon were in the bathroom, with Fay in the shower. The room was hot. I knocked and pushed open the bathroom door as steam poured out. I closed the door behind me. There was a floral scent of shampoo, and with each contraction, Simon would lean into the shower and press on Fay's lower back.<br />
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"The pain was easily ten times worse in the bed," said Fay. "It was unbearable. It is so much better here in the shower, but my back still hurts during contractions."<br />
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"Sometimes back labor is caused by the baby presenting in an odd way," I said. "She's probably pressing with her head on your spine. Being upright and leaning forward like you're doing will help the baby turn a bit." When we get out, I thought, we will try hands and knees, kneeling, and lunging.<br />
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"Ohhhh," said Fay as a contraction hit, turning her back toward the hot stream.<br />
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"The bonus is that in <i>this</i> shower, you won't run out of hot water." I smiled and Fay copied my smile.<br />
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I heard some noise outside the bathroom door. "I'll be right back," I said and excused myself.<br />
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<b>How much does it hurt?</b><br />
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In the room, a nurse, Katie, was standing with another woman whom she introduced as one of the nursing teachers. I told Katie I am Fay and Simon's doula, and Katie exclaimed that she was <i>so cool</i> with doulas, unlike <i>some other nurses</i>, and that we would work well together. The shower turned off, and in a few minutes, Simon and Fay emerged.<br />
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Katie did her work, taking blood pressure and temperature readings and setting up the monitors to listen to the baby.<br />
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"I don't usually ask this," she said, blowing her bangs out of her eyes, "but, on a scale of one to 10, ten being the worst you could possibly imagine, how would you describe your pain right now?"<br />
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I rolled my eyes. Here we are, Simon, Fay, and I, trying to keep Fay from <i>seriously thinking</i> about her pain, trying to keep her distracted and taking things one at a time, and now she is expected to put a <i>number</i> on her sensation.<br />
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"In the bed," answered Fay, "it was bad. Like nine. I can't imagine it being worse. But in the shower the pain decreased tenfold; probably a four."<br />
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I stammered: "Can we, uh, not do that again?"<br />
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"Yeah, sure, it's just one of the vital signs," explained the nurse, who probably saw me rolling my eyes anyway. "Temperature, blood pressure, pain level. We have to take it every hour. If you want, I can just fill in numbers from now on. Six, seven, six, seven."<br />
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Simon and Fay nodded, watching me. I nodded vigorously.<br />
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Katie pulled on a sterile glove and checked Fay's cervix. Fay held Simon's and my hands.<br />
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"Five centimeters," Katie announced. "I think it is great you are laboring normally," she said, not looking at anyone in particular, and added that natural labors usually are assigned to her because she is <i>so awesome</i> at "dealing" with them. Then she started talking about what a "good" labor pattern looks like and how we can tell that we are "progressing well." She pulled up a chart showing 1cm per hour dilation. Simon looked on, and I, knowing that talking about expected progress is not encouraging, sat by Fay's head and talked to her about her night in the hospital.<br />
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"I'll be back in about an hour to take your vitals again," Katie said. We thanked her as she left.<br />
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<b>Fired from birth support</b><br />
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We labored normally for several hours, changing positions frequently. We tried every position that I could think of to try to alleviate back labor. I coached Simon how to spread his legs, lock his elbows, and use his back to push on Fay's lower back during contractions as Fay leaned forward on a stack of pillows on the raised bed. If his hands slipped, or he changed his grip, or he got the wrong spot, Fay would scold him for a good half of each contraction -- and then we would all laugh as the contraction eased. Laughter brought on contractions. Walking brought on contractions. Touching Fay brought on contractions. We joked that we could not do any of these things, and if we did, Simon would be fired.<br />
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Simon was fired from labor support eleven times.<br />
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At 10:30, just two hours after the previous cervical check, we had progressed to a heartening "6cm, almost 7." Things were great. <br />
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But at noon, something happened.<br />
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<b>Crying</b><br />
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We were sitting in the middle of the room, with Fay on the birth ball between contractions, Simon in the glider, and me squatting at Fay's knee. We heard a noise next door. It was a woman. And she was screaming. She screamed for what felt like an hour, though it must have been just a minute. She would stop screaming only to take a sharp breath and then the blood-curdling scream would come again. Under the woman, we could hear other people's loud, mumbled voices.<br />
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Fay looked at me.<br />
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"She is not doing as well as you are," I said, smiling. "Those are bad noises to make. You are making good noises."<br />
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The screaming continued. Fay stared at me.<br />
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"She is probably delivering," offered Simon.<br />
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The screaming continued.<br />
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"Oh my God," said Fay, the color draining from her face.<br />
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"It isn't necessarily pain," I said. "The sensation is overwhelming. This is why she is screaming." We all looked at the floor, waiting for it to stop.<br />
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The screaming increased in pitch for a split second. We held our breath. Then, the screaming stopped, and was replaced by tearful shouts: "Oh, my baby, my baby!"<br />
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I looked at Fay and smiled. She was crying. Tears were rolling down her face. I looked at Simon. He was pale.<br />
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We talked about it. We talked about fear, and how we need to get past it. About how the baby is coming today, and we are helping her come. About how most women do not sound like that. Fay did not talk about delivery. She was trying not to think about delivering the baby, about pushing the baby out, about the woman screaming next door.<br />
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Fay was exhausted. Climbing into the bed and rolling onto her side, she fell asleep in no time. Though I tried to convince Simon to sleep, he and I sat near each other and talked. We would chat, and then Fay would wake up with a contraction. We would rush to her: Simon to her back, me to hold her hand. Then it would ease and she would drift off. This happened infrequently: contractions slowed to a crawl. Every seven minutes. Every ten minutes.<br />
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<b>The drill sergeant</b><br />
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At 1pm, I went to fetch the nurse. Because contractions seemed stronger, though infrequent, and there was that electric feeling in the air, that particular odor that I have come to associate with transition. Katie came back in and, checking, we were pleased to hear we were 7-8cm. Which is almost transition. It is close.<br />
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"I've had some women complete on the toilet," Katie suggested, meaning that women dilate the rest of the way, to 10cm, or "complete" the dilation.<br />
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"Try the toilet," Katie continued. "Try the shower. Try nipple stim. We gotta get things moving."<br />
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Determined to do everything I can that we should get through this part, that is, transition, quickly, I got Fay out of bed (bribing her with getting back in it later) and we went to the toilet. Then the shower. Then the birth ball, with her legs spread wide. I kept waiting for that contraction with the <i>pressure</i> on top which indicates real transition, but I did not hear it. It did not come.<br />
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Acting as a drill sergeant, I sent Fay back and forth from the door to the baby warmer. She did laps around the room, and I suggested she try some nipple stimulation. She ate a little bit. She drank water. We tried <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Effleurage">effleurage</a>, in which Simon gently rubbed Fay's belly to bring on contractions. But contractions were still slow, and there was still no pressure at the top.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">How to do effleurage in labor</td></tr>
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An hour later, at 2:30pm, we learned that we had made no progress. <br />
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At 4, Katie returned with a vengeance. She showed us the graphs again (and again, I distracted Fay from seeing them). She talked about progress and how we were not making any. And she gave Fay two options: an epidural, which would help her relax, and the relaxation which may bring on contractions again, or Pitocin, which would bring on contractions.<br />
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"But if I choose the epidural," said Fay, leaning on the bed, "wouldn't contractions slow down, and then I will need Pitocin anyway?"<br />
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"Maybe," said Katie. "Maybe you just need to relax, that's all. But it's possible that we will need Pitocin too." She looked her up and down. "See, we've been talking about this for about five minutes. You should have had two contractions by now."<br />
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Fay stood up and started walking, rubbing her belly in small circles. No contraction came.<br />
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"Look," Katie proceeded once she was sufficiently convinced that she would not sell the epidural. "We can start you on the lowest dose of Pit. We can turn it off once contractions have started again." Again she brought up a graph. "See, this is a woman that's already delivered. This is her contraction pattern at 7cm, which is where you are."<br />
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"Are these Pitocin contractions?" I asked, recognizing the shape -- which looks markedly different than that of a natural contraction.<br />
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Katie checked. "Yes, it is." But she was not discouraged. "But it doesn't matter," she pleaded. "See, you should be having another contraction, right now. I <i>want</i> you to have this baby vaginally. I <i>want</i> to help you. You have to let me help you. What have you been trying?"<br />
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"We've been walking around," I said. "Nipple stimulation. Effleurage."<br />
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"Why did you stop the nipple stim?" Katie asked Fay. Fay looked away.<br />
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"Walking around seemed to work too," said Simon.<br />
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"But it isn't working!" cried Katie. "It is not working. Fine. What about Fentanyl. It's a narcotic and it may help you relax a little. We just have to get you past this hump." Katie felt Fay's belly during a contraction. "See, it's not very strong, either." She sighed. "Sometimes a mom needs some help to get over the hump. Sometimes she just needs to relax, or a break from the pain. Sometimes she needs Pitocin to make contractions stronger. Sometimes the baby won't come at all, and she needs a c-section."<br />
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I winced. Katie had made offhand c-section comments before, but I was too busy distracting Fay from the conversation to wince properly. This time I winced. Alluding to surgical birth to a laboring woman is akin to alluding to filet mignon to a calf. For some women, it is a blow to her faith in herself.<br />
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<b><br class="Apple-interchange-newline" />Passenger, passage, and power</b><br />
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Contractions were coming in pairs: a big one, and a little one riding on its back. Then seven minutes of silence. This is called <a href="http://www.brooksidepress.org/Products/Military_OBGYN/Textbook/LaborandDelivery/electronic_fetal_heart_monitoring.htm#Coupling">coupling</a>, and is fine unless no progress is being made. But if the labor is dysfunctional, which is, medically speaking, where we were heading, then it can be treated with rest (which we had done in the hour Fay slept), hydration (which we were doing), and everything Katie suggested: Pitocin, epidural, Fentanyl.<br />
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Coupling contractions can be a symptom of an occupit posterior (OP) position of the baby, or sunny-side up. Other symptoms of an OP baby are back labor. Which is why we had been trying so hard to get Fay's baby to turn. Most babies, <a href="http://transitiontoparenthood.com/ttp/parented/laborbirth/variations.htm">something like 70-90%, that start out OP will eventually turn in labor</a>. We had hope.<br />
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Katie suggested, "We have one more thing we could try before Pit." She left and came back with a package, a long tube inside. "This is an intra-uterine pressure catheter. It goes in next to baby's head in the amniotic fluid, and when you have a contraction, we measure the strength of the contraction in milligrams of mercury."<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Intra-uterine pressure catheter (IUPC)</td></tr>
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She paused to make sure we followed. We did.<br />
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"Normal labor has three components. The passenger, the passage, and the power. We don't know much about the passenger. We don't know how big she is. Do we?"<br />
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"No, we don't," said Fay.<br />
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Katie continued: "Maybe she's malpresented. Maybe she's facing funny down the birth canal." She pressed her glasses up her nose, letting her blonde bangs fall into her face. "We don't know much about the passage yet. About the birth canal. Maybe you aren't big enough to let the baby pass. I don't know. So we can try to find the power."<br />
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She held up the IUPC. "We use this to measure the strength of the contractions. We can use this measurement over time, over the space of several minutes and several contractions, to get an objective number called a Montevideo unit, an MVU. If we have enough MVUs, we know that contractions are strong enough and that labor <i>should</i> be progressing -- and if it isn't, then one of the other things, the passenger or the passage, is stopping it. But if we do not have enough MVUs, we can try putting you on Pit, to make the power stronger." She paused. "This is <i>real, empirical evidence."</i><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Position of intra-uterine pressure catheter (IUPC).</td></tr>
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Now, hang on a second. I am a newer doula, so I had not heard about the "three Ps of labor." But I did know about the <a href="http://birthingwithguinever.com/2007/01/">fourth P: Patience</a>. Sometimes it just takes time. We had been patient, resting and walking and eating, at 7cm for three hours. The clock was ticking since Fay's water had been broken for 16 hours.<br />
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Fay and Simon talked about it. "Basically, our options are Pitocin, or IUPC and Pitocin," Simon concluded. "Let's just do the Pitocin."<br />
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"Finally," Katie said. "You are letting me help you. I feel like I am doing something."<br />
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Fay, Simon, and Katie agreed on a dose of Fentanyl and the lowest dose of Pitocin, just to get past the hump. Fay would still be allowed to labor upright, but intermittent monitoring was no longer an option. Antibiotics were started because of the ruptured membranes.<br />
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Pitocin contractions were different. They hurt more, and lasted longer, but they were not closer together. An hour later, the dose of Pitocin was increased, and, the contractions still not any closer (though more painful), Fay asked for an epidural.<br />
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Katie started an IV, and we waited for the doctor, all the while taking one contraction at a time.<br />
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The doctor, an older man with white hair who seemed to be old enough to retire by now, came with his epidural cart and asked Fay to bend forward, achieving "the worst posture you could imagine." He cleaned Fay's back, numbed it, and inserted the needle.<br />
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"Hmm," he said. "Can you lean forward more? I seem to have missed the epidural space."<br />
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I gave her a pillow to hug in her lap.<br />
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He stuck her again. "Hmm," he said, withdrawing the needle. "I hit the bone again," he said. Simon's eyebrows raised, but he was quiet.<br />
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The needle went in again. "Missed," he mumbled, perplexed. <br />
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"Look," he grumbled, having missed again, "just curl your back into a C."<br />
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Eventually, it made it in, and the pain from the contractions dispersed. They were still coupling, so Katie increased the Pitocin. They were still coupling.<br />
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Before she left, knowing her shift was soon over and we would not be delivering on her watch (as was secretly our plan), I asked her to transfer us to another nurse that would be patient and kind with us and try to get us back on the path of natural birth. She said she would, but no promises. Then, she added:<br />
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"The IUPC is your last resort, so keep it in mind." She glanced at the door. It was closed. Katie lowered her voice. "If your doctor comes in and tells you she wants to do a c-section, you ask her to try the IUPC. Try to see if the power is sufficient, if the MVUs are enough to get the cervix opened. Do you understand?" We nodded. "Good," she said, taking her leave.<br />
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<b>A new hope</b><br />
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At 8pm, the sun was starting to descend outside the closed mini-blinds. Fay drifted back to sleep, covered by a sheet and a blanket. Simon, who still refused to sleep, and I were sitting under the window, talking about how good it was that Fay was getting rest.<br />
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A new nurse came in, introducing herself as Megan. She was stouter than Katie, brown-haired, and was full of fresh energy.<br />
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"Hi, Megan," I said, and, meaning how Fay has been coping with labor, "we've been doing great!"<br />
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"Not really," she said, turning away from the computer with just her shoulders. "You haven't made progress since 1pm. Your labor has stalled." She turned back to the computer and read the notes.<br />
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I looked at Simon and gestured that I clearly said the wrong thing.<br />
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Megan woke Fay to check her. "Eight or 9cm," she said.<br />
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"There, that's progress," I suggested.<br />
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At this point, Simon went to take a break, and brought back food for me. When he returned an hour later, Dr. Kim came, and Megan checked Fay's cervix in Dr. Kim's presence.<br />
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"She's a nine," said Megan. Dr. Kim looked concerned, turning up the Pit again, and promised to check back in an hour.<br />
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<b>The 11th hour</b><br />
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It was 10pm, 23 hours after Fay's water broke, when Megan and Dr. Kim returned.<br />
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"The contractions have spaced out, and they are moderate," Megan explained. "Maybe the uterus is tired. That can happen. The uterus is a muscle, and muscles get tired."<br />
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Fay, Simon, and I looked at each other. I nodded: it's true. They do.<br />
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Dr. Kim pulled on a glove. "Still nine," she said, withdrawing from under Fay's sheet.<br />
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"Do you know what this is?" Dr. Kim asked, holding up the IUPC that Katie described earlier. We nodded. "I'm going to use this to measure the strength of your contractions. We will see what is happening."<br />
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Meanwhile, Megan took Fay's temperature and found it to be elevated. Megan pulled the blanket away from Fay. "You can't use this anymore," she said, and set the temperature in the room to a cool 68F.<br />
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Alone in the room with Fay and Simon, they turned to me.<br />
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"We need to talk about the possibility of a c-section," Fay said, and Simon leaned in close to me. It was like a team meeting at a football game. "What if they come in and offer me a c-section? I think I should take it."<br />
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I did not reply, but listened.<br />
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"It has been a long time and I don't know if this will happen naturally. We have been trying everything."<br />
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"We can try a few more things. Let's see what happens," I said. Fay and Simon nodded, and we all relaxed into the possibility.<br />
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<b>Complete</b><br />
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At midnight, Fay was complete. Megan checked with Fay's pushes: "Pushing doesn't seem to move the baby," she said. "We'll let you labor down, meaning the baby will come down on her own." We pushed in many different positions, despite being connected to so many machines: squatting, side-lying, legs up, legs down, back, all fours. As Megan's hand disappeared under the sheet, she looked at me and shook her head sadly.<br />
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I was drinking a lot of soda by this point. It was past midnight and I was tired, walking down the long hallway to the staff kitchen for more caffeine. I ran into Megan in the hall. She whispered to me:<br />
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"I don't know," she said, "if this baby will be coming vaginally. Her pelvis is so small. I can barely get my fingers inside. I can feel the head and it's just sitting there," she made a motion with her fingers, "just sitting there on the pelvic bone." She looked at me with sad eyes. "Talk to them," she said, "get them ready for a conversation about a c-section." I nodded.<br />
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Going back to the room, I did not talk to them about the possibility of a c-section, because we were already on the same page.<br />
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Five minutes later, I saw Megan rushing in from down the hall. The machine was beeping with the baby's decelerating heart rate. She urged Fay not to push, and we went back to the breathing we had been doing earlier. Megan turned off the Pitocin.<br />
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"Talk to us," I said to Megan after the contraction had passed.</div>
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She looked at Fay, then at Simon. "The baby is not moving down," she said. "I slide my finger up by the baby's cheek," she said, showing with her fingers, "and I expect the baby to slide against my finger with each contraction. And the baby just isn't moving down."<br />
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We sighed.<br />
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"I don't know if this baby wants to come vaginally. I think this may have to be a surgical birth. You have tried everything you could: I have never seen a mom spend so much time upright and out of bed. You really have tried everything, and I have tried everything that I could think of as well."<br />
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When she left the room, I talked Fay and Simon through the procedure. I tried to explain what Fay would feel, when she could see the baby, and where Simon would be. Where I would be. This hospital had a strict one-person-per-patient policy, so I could not come into the OR as I had previously done in <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2011/03/very-short-birth-emergency-caesarean.html">other</a> <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2010/11/c-section-and-doula-support.html">births</a>.<br />
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"Will you visit us tomorrow?" Fay asked.<br />
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"I will visit you in the recovery room," I said, smiling. "I will see you as soon as I can. I will help you breastfeed your baby." Simon was quiet, pulling on his hospital robe and paper shower cap. We were all so exhausted. Simon was worried both about his baby, who was showing signs of stress in utero, and about his wife, who had been in labor for 29 hours.<br />
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I knew Fay and I had done everything we could think of to turn and move the baby. Simon was an amazing birth partner, pressing on Fay's back with almost every contraction for over a day. Bags under our eyes and our feet heavy with the weight of relief, we collected our items, for we would not be returning to the delivery room.<br />
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As we rolled away, Megan exclaimed, "It's a party! A birthday party!"<br />
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<b>Postpartum</b><br />
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That's the end of the story, at least, the story as I know it. Baby Violet was born beautifully just after 2am, and though her head came out screaming before the rest of her body was even born, and though she had spent quite some time in a meconium-rich environment (for she had pooped quite some time ago), she had not breathed any of it in. She had a ridge crosswise on her head, rather than lengthwise where the plates of her head typically fold over each other. She was trying to get out, but really was stuck.<br />
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Latching on to the breast in record time, Violet was perhaps the most relieved of all to be born.<br />
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<b>Foreshadowing?</b><br />
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Was it premonition, or did she just <i>know</i>, when Dr. Kim had pressed her point, with a sly smile: "Just keep your mind open for a c-section?" Had she known that a surgical birth was necessary, she still had the kindness (to Violet and Fay) to let labor go on naturally for as long as she did.<br />
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Megan, the second nurse, on whose shift Violet was born, approached the topic of a c-section with such kindness and sensitivity to the laboring mom that I was swept off my feet. I appreciated her acknowledgement of our hard work, of the hours we poured into the labor, and the multitude of things we tried. I liked how she looked Fay in the eyes when she said these things with a soft voice and maternal touch on her thigh.<br />
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And, for the doulas and birth partners that read this blog: What would you have done?<br />
<br />PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-35959741237558414012011-09-06T10:40:00.000-07:002011-09-06T10:40:43.902-07:00Birth partners: Lend me your ears!I am actively seeking <b>birth partners</b> in <b>California</b> for interviews! My research is on how birth partners prepare for birth and their roles, goals, and support strategies in supporting a mom through birth. Sorry, doulas -- though I value your work, I am interested in the non-professional kind of birth partner.<br />
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Interviews last 30-45 minutes and are <b>compensated</b> with a $10 gift card to Amazon.<br />
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A <b>birth partner</b> is someone who was, or expects to be, in a role of emotional, physical, and/or informational support for a woman in labor.<br />
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You are eligible if:<br />
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<ul><li>You are expecting to be a birth partner in the next 3 months (i.e., the mom is in her 3rd trimester, or 26 weeks along); <i>or</i> you have been a birth partner less than 4 months ago.</li>
<li>The birth takes place (or plans to take place) in California.</li>
<li>You have never had a baby yourself.</li>
<li>You can dedicate 30-45 minutes of time.</li>
</ul><div>Please contact me directly (phdoula <<at>> gmail dot com) or post a comment below. Thanks!</at></div>PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-62091217828489146212011-09-02T12:31:00.000-07:002011-09-09T23:11:01.996-07:00Violet's birth. Part 1: Fay's negotiations.Was it premonition, or just a standard interview, when Fay's obstetrician laid down the ground rules for laboring under her care? Fay, Simon, and I stood in the doctor's office, surrounding the small woman with her hair in a messy pony tail, backing her against the wall. Dr. Kim invited us there to talk about the birth plan, but instead of planning together, the interview was more of a lecture. Point by point, she informed Fay and Simon of her procedures: what she would and would not allow. Silently alarmed, I considered, point by point, the boundaries and tried to make sense of them. Fay and Simon listened to Dr. Kim, nodding; I interjected clarifying questions and mentally noted the answers, knowing that a long discussion would come from this interview. The boundaries were alarming because they would push Fay and Simon into a path of intervention after intervention, disregarding the body's natural tendencies to progress at its own rate in labor, and wholly undermining the ability of the body to give birth on its own. Once, after I had interjected a question about her feeling about the birth party staying home after Fay's water had broken, Dr. Kim threw her arms up and exclaimed:<br />
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"If you want a midwife and a home birth, feel free to go hire one! I am a physician, and these are my rules."</div>
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I asked no more questions.</div>
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After meeting twice more with Fay and Simon before their next prenatal appointment a week later, and knowing there no time to lose, I made a list of the items Dr. Kim mentioned along with the things Fay and Simon should push for in their discussions with Dr. Kim. Thus, negotiations began, and, armed with the marked-up list, Fay went to Dr. Kim's office the following week. <br />
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<b>Negotiations</b><br />
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We had studied a <a href="http://birthkalamazoo.blogspot.com/2011/07/reducing-cesarean-rate-for-first-time.html">list of ways to reduce the risk of having a c-section</a>, and took some inspiration from it. Here is the list that Fay used to discuss her birth plan with Dr. Kim, after Dr. Kim had specified <i>her</i> version of a birth plan.<br />
<ul>
<li><b>Bad idea</b>: Dr. Kim would let Fay go until 41 weeks, and then induce.<br />
<b>Better idea</b>: Wait until 42 weeks to talk about induction.<br />
<b>Reason</b>: When labor starts is hard to predict. The average gestation is 40 weeks, with anything between 38 and 42 considered normal. The baby and the body know best. Estimated due dates are just that: estimates!</li>
<li><b>Bad idea</b>: If water breaks before contractions start, labor induction with Pitocin follows after 2 to 3 hours.<br />
<b>Better idea</b>: If the fluid is clear and has no odor, wait. Wait 24 hours. If nothing, try natural methods. Try natural methods while waiting.<br />
<b>Reason</b>: Contractions will usually start on their own within 24 hours. If you are impatient, or nothing is happening, first, try to <a href="http://www.webmd.com/baby/inducing-labor-naturally-can-it-be-done">induce naturally</a>. Two to three hours is not long enough.</li>
<li><b>Bad idea</b>: Come to the hospital when contractions are 6 to 7 minutes apart.<br />
<b>Better idea</b>: Come to the hospital when contractions are 4 minutes apart, lasting about a minute, and this pattern has gone on for an hour or more.<br />
<b>Reason</b>: When contractions are 6 to 7 minutes apart, you are in early labor. Getting to the hospital early can increase your chance of interventions leading to a c-section. Early labor can last a long time, so it is best to be at home, where you are more comfortable and can rest and eat.</li>
<li><b>Bad idea</b>: Continuous monitoring with telemetry (wireless) unit upon entering the hospital.<br />
<b>Better idea</b>: If mom is laboring naturally, monitor the baby intermittently with a doppler unit.<br />
<b>Reason</b>: Continuous fetal monitoring is associated with an increase in c-section rates. Sometimes there are things on the "strip" (monitor readout) that can be misinterpreted as fetal distress and a c-section can be called when no danger is imminent. This is less likely to occur with intermittent monitoring. Also, with intermittent monitoring, the nurse has to physically come in and look at you when she monitors, rather than watching your strip from the nurse's station.</li>
<li><b>Bad idea</b>: Progression expected is 1cm an hour; failing that, augmentation with Pitocin.<br />
<b>Better idea</b>: There is no such thing as "expected progression." Do not put time pressures on a mom in labor.<br />
<b>Reason</b>: Would you tell people how much food they need to eat per minute? And if they do not meet that expectation, would you threaten to force-feed them? Every person and every labor progresses differently, and labor progress is affected by many different factors (including physical and, yes, emotional ones). Putting a laboring mom on a time schedule only makes her nervous; it does not actually speed things up. Things that do speed up labor include continuous support (e.g., from a doula), being allowed to move around (especially upright positions) and giving her the space and freedom to express herself.</li>
<li><b>Bad idea</b>: No eating upon entering the hospital. But drinking is OK, even with an epidural.<br />
<b>Better idea</b>: Do not explicitly restrict food or fluid intake.<br />
<b>Reason</b>: Labor is hard work, and if mom is hungry, she should eat. I have already ranted about the <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2010/11/non-negotiable-two-things-that-will.html">importance of a sip of water after every contraction</a>, so I am glad to hear that even with an epidural, drinking is allowed. Most moms will not be hungry past a certain point in labor because the digestion slows way down, but occasionally (especially with a long labor) mom will need some energy.</li>
<li><b>Bad idea</b>: Baby will be taken away after birth for cleaning unless parents expressly request to breastfeed.<br />
<b>Better idea</b>: Baby will be placed directly on mom's chest after birth, and left there for bonding for at least an hour.<br />
<b>Reason</b>: Smelling the baby. Feeling the baby. Wiping the baby. Bonding. Breastfeeding. Oh, and the <a href="http://www.imbci.org/"> International MotherBaby Childbirth Initiative</a>.</li>
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It took more than one visit to clear up the questions and concerns that Fay, Simon, and I shared. Over the next several weeks, Fay whittled down at Dr. Kim's stringent guidelines, point by point, and Dr. Kim eventually agreed to everything on Fay's list, saying sweetly that she can see what Fay wants from her birth and she will accommodate her (though not mentioning <i>how</i>). </div>
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Over these weeks, outwardly, we were patient with her, and she was patient with Fay. But secretly I had started thinking about how one transfers care after 36 weeks -- what is the process involved, and who would take on someone else's patient. Whenever Fay or Simon asked her what Dr. Kim would do to help them labor normally, Dr. Kim would don a sweet smile, place her hands on the wall behind her, and say, "Just keep your mind open for a c-section." I was shocked. Fay and Simon were confused, and felt unsupported. I began to feel that we would need to be subversive to get the kind of birth Fay wanted: "forget" to call in early labor, come in "oops-late," and refuse non-emergency procedures. I did not like this train of thought. It is better when the parents, doctor, and doula are all on the same page and have the same goals in mind.</div>
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In the end, the result of the series of interviews was positive, and all of our concerns were addressed with a good-natured smile: "If the mother and baby are doing well," Dr. Kim said, nodding, on all points, "that is fine."</div>
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Dr. Kim agreed to wait until 42 weeks gestation, given that she monitors the baby with ultrasound to check for fluid level and non-stress-tests (NSTs) every few days after 41 weeks; she agreed to trying all natural methods before any chemical ones; she agreed to let Fay labor at home as much as she liked, even saying she could come to the hospital for just the birth.</div>
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The pregnancy progressed uneventfully. The due date came and went. Forty weeks. Forty-one weeks. Fay had passed her NSTs with flying colors, but the fluid level around the baby was shrinking. This is normal. It does that. But she was late, like an overdue library book, and now it was time to start talking about induction again.</div>
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I did not attend this discussion, but I know that Fay's attitude had changed. Going from wanting labor to start on its own and under no circumstances using Pitocin to induce or augment labor, after the visit with Dr. Kim, Fay said she wanted to induce on the first day of week 42 rather than waiting until after the weekend. I asked why.</div>
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"I think I have lost faith in my body's ability to go into labor naturally."</div>
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After initially trying a pep talk, I sighed. Not because of Fay's comment. But because I sincerely felt that Dr. Kim had finally gotten to her. Of course, it was Fay's decision, and I would be by her side no matter what.<br />
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Fay set up her induction appointment for the night before the 42nd week. Following my advice, she again brought a list of questions with her to ask Dr. Kim. Here is the list, along with Dr. Kim's answers.<br />
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<li>Can we wait a few more days?<br />
<b>Reason</b>: If the instruments Dr. Kim is using to measure the comfort of the baby (namely, the non-stress-test (NST) and the ultrasound to verify the fluid around the baby) show that the baby is doing well, can we wait?<br />
<b>Answer</b>: Though unhappy about the option, Dr. Kim said that yes, Faye and her baby can wait three more days, given a negative NST. Then, Faye would be 42+2 (two days past 42 weeks) on the evening of the induction.</li>
<li>What is the exact procedure for induction?<br />
<b>Reason</b>: Knowing is half the battle.<br />
<b>Answer</b>: Cervidil at night, then we wait 8 to 12 hours (see below). If Fay is not in active labor at the end of 12 hours, we start Pitocin, increasing the dose every 30 minutes. Faye expressed concern. "In 3 out of 4 cases," Dr. Kim said, "Cervidil alone does the trick," and Pitocin is not needed.</li>
<li>Can Cervidil be started in the evening before bed, with the night spent in the hospital?<br />
<b>Reason</b>: This gives the parents time to rest while letting the cervix ripen.<br />
<b>Answer</b>: Yes, it is started at night.</li>
<li>How long can we wait after Cervidil for contractions to start on their own? Can we go home to wait?<br />
<b>Reason</b>: Once the cervix is ripe and thinned out, it may be just a matter of time for contractions to start on their own, or we can use <a href="http://www.webmd.com/baby/inducing-labor-naturally-can-it-be-done">natural methods</a> with some success.<br />
<b>Answer</b>: "No, you cannot go home after Cervidil, because we need to monitor the baby," Dr. Kim said. "After Cervidil, we wait 8 to 12 hours for dilation to be 4cm" -- that is, 12 hours to get into active labor after administering Cervidil.</li>
<li>If Pitocin is required, can we stop Pitocin after contractions have a strength and pattern that dilates the cervix (and resume trying to labor naturally)?<br />
<b>Reason</b>: Sometimes the body just needs a kick-start and can maintain a good labor pattern on its own.<br />
<b>Answer</b>: Yes.</li>
<li>Once induction is started, how long do we have to deliver?<br />
<b>Reason</b>: Induction means time pressure.<br />
<b>Answer</b>: Induction in the 37th week can take a long time (i.e., when the baby and mom are not ready to deliver). But in the 42nd week, Dr. Kim said the induction should not take long: she expects the delivery to happen within 12 to 24 hours, and said she would be willing to wait three days (the same three days to 42+2).</li>
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Everything seemed fine. Dr. Kim agreed to let the couple come in for a NST on the morning of the start of week 42, and then induce on the evening of 42+2.<br />
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And then, Dr. Kim added, offhand:</div>
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"And if that does not work, we can try Cytotec." Cytotec is a pill inserted vaginally (and kept there to dissolve) in half-pill doses and it is sometimes used to ripen the cervix.</div>
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Fay and Simon rushed home to research this and were shocked -- shocked! -- that their kind (now, with some massaging) obstetrician suggested it. Cytotec (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misoprostol#Labor_induction">misoprostol</a>) has not been approved for use as a labor inducer by the FDA (though it has been used as such off-label for years), but also it is <a href="http://childbirth.amuchbetterway.com/cytotec-for-labor-induction/">bad news</a>: it is associated with uterine rupture (when the muscle of the uterus breaks) and fetal tachycardia (when the baby's heartbeat is too fast).</div>
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So when Fay and Simon learned about this, they felt betrayed. They cried, "How could Dr. Kim suggest such a thing?" Fay <a href="http://prepforlabor.tripod.com/id6.html">read more about it</a> and was convinced that she would not let Cytotec anywhere near her cervix. And her feelings about fighting for a natural birth were reawakened.<br />
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Continue on to <a href="http://dynamicdoula.blogspot.com/2011/09/violets-birth-part-2-fay-gives-birth.html">Part 2 of Violet's birth, in which Fay has a baby girl</a>.</div>
PhDoulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01623923864382590386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7819443017491560251.post-88783045786501588192011-04-25T00:07:00.000-07:002012-01-24T14:27:32.630-08:00My midwife failed me: How homebirth transfer affects mothersHomebirths account for just a small percentage of all births in the US: 0.59% of births happen at home. Interestingly, this number increased by 5% between 1990 and 2005, which we could call a surge in homebirths [1]!<br />
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Besides homebirths being more satisfying for women [7], one of the main reasons some women choose a planned homebirth over a hospital-based delivery is because both mothers and babies have better outcomes. The cesarean section rate in homebirths is around 4%, compared to over 30% nationwide [4]. Mothers have fewer interventions, including episiotomy (a surgical cut to open the vagina), and babies die less often [2].<br />
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There is no way to sugar-coat that. Babies born at home die less often -- because of the lack of unnecessary interventions. One meta-analysis found that the neonatal mortality rate tripled in planned homebirths versus hospital births, and attributed the better outcomes for babies to the decrease in interventions [2].<br />
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Not all mothers that plan to deliver at home end up doing so. For a variety of reasons, a transfer to a hospital may be necessary or preferable during or after childbirth. Sometimes the reason for transfer is maternal exhaustion -- labor takes a very long time and the mother is too tired to go on. Sometimes there are negative health signs with the baby -- heart rate decelerations, or meconium in the amniotic fluid. Rarely, the transfer is caused by something more grave. Usually, the decision to transfer from the home to the hospital rests on the midwife. In the US, the transfer rate is around 12.1% [4].<br />
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But how does a woman, who planned to deliver at home, who spent months preparing for her natural birth within the safety and comfort of her home, who anticipated an intimate experience, feel about a transfer to a hospital? Anecdotal evidence hints that something is missing from the birth experience. Does the mother blame herself for failing to deliver a baby at home? Does the blame later shift to her midwife, for letting her down? Is she grateful for being able to spend even part of her labor at home [6]?<br />
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We turn to science for an answer.<br />
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<b>Is homebirth transfer traumatic?</b><br />
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Let's take a look at the Netherlands, where the homebirth rate is much higher than the US: In one study, over 38% of first-time moms and 67% of repeat mothers delivered at home (recall that the US average has risen to under 1%) [3]. For the first-time moms, 40% of the planned homebirths ended up transferring to the hospital at some point during birth or shortly thereafter; and 11% of repeat moms transferred to the hospital (compared to 12.1% of home-birthing mothers in the US, both first-time and otherwise). The Netherlands data is summarized in the table below.<br />
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11%</div>
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</center>The women in this study rated their birth experience, their midwife, and their immediate postpartum days by marking agreement with specific adjectives on a five-point scale (where 1 is strongly agree and 5 is strongly disagree). The conclusion from this study?<br />
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Our research showed, contrary to expectations, that an <b>unplanned transfer from a planned home birth to hospital has little influence</b> on the experience of childbirth [3].</blockquote>
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Let's look at Sweden.<br />
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In Sweden, homebirths are rare -- as rare as in the US -- that is, less than 0.1%. In Lindgren, et al.'s study [5], the homebirth transfer rate was 25% for first-time mothers -- that is, one in four women that plan a homebirth end up in the hospital (much better than the 40% rate in the Netherlands). The most common reasons women transfer to the hospital are "lack of progress" and (this was surprising to me) the midwife being unavailable for the mother during labor. <br />
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The exciting conclusion in Sweden:<br />
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<b>Being transferred during a planned home birth negatively affects the birth experience </b>[5].</blockquote>
Looking elsewhere, we find agreement:<br />
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Women who are <b>referred to the hospital while planning for a home birth are less satisfied</b> than women who planned to give birth in hospital and did. A referral has a greater <b>negative impact on satisfaction</b> for Dutch women [than for Belgian women] [7].</blockquote>
In fact, the Swedish study found that women really hated and resented their homebirth transfer experiences, as visualized (by me, from Lindgren's data) by the graphs shown below in <b>Figure 1</b> and <b>Figure 2</b>. In these graphs, the blue line indicates a "very satisfied" response and the red line is anything less than "very satisfied." The thing to take away from these graphs is the area inside the red line. A large red area is bad. In the homebirth without transfer case, you can see that women were more likely to be "very satisfied" with all aspects of their birth (except for being in control -- but can you really control birth?). In the homebirth transfer case, women were more likely to be less than satisfied with everything except partner support and the midwife making the partner involved.<br />
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<b>Figure 1</b>. Satisfaction among Swedish women regarding their homebirth experience [5].</div>
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<b>Homebirth: Forbidden fruit</b><br />
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Could it be, then, that in places where homebirth is rare, women place undue emphasis on the location of birth? Could it be that birthing at home becomes kind of a holy grail that women strive for? It is so rare in the US and Sweden that it is like a forbidden fruit. We hear and read so much about its beauty that we -- that is, those women that yearn for homebirth -- strive for it and are crushed when we do not get it.<br />
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Consider another birth outcome some women consider traumatic: the cesarean section. One thing that childbirth educators did to make the prevalence of the c-section more palatable and less scary is to demystify it. In childbirth education classes, c-section is presented as a possible birth outcome -- a real possibility. In a good prenatal education class, analgesia, surgical procedures, and postpartum recovery will be discussed in detail. When you think about it, this is a really good idea, because one in three people in the classroom will have this surgery, whether or not they planned for it.<br />
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It may be that one of the things that makes homebirth transfer an emotionally crushing outcome is that it is still an unknown evil. So why not demystify the homebirth transfer? Describe it in detail for women and their birth partners to take in: causes, procedures, outcomes. The Wiegers study made this interesting note:<br />
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It seems more important ... to reduce the fear of unplanned [homebirth to hospital] transfer, especially among nulliparas, than to advise women to choose a hospital birth in order to avoid such transfer [3].</blockquote>
Interesting because this is the only study that I found that did not result in negative emotions in the mothers resulting from homebirth transfer. Maybe in the Netherlands they drill the transfer as much as we (ought to) drill the c-section?<br />
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Lindgren had a different conclusion:<br />
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Treatments as well as organizational factors are considered to be obstacles for a positive birth experience when transfer is needed. Established links between the home birth setting and the hospital might enhance the opportunity for a positive birth experience irrespective of where the birth is completed [5].</blockquote>
In fact, in the Sweden study, one of the main reasons women were unhappy with the hospital setting was because everyone was <i>so dang mean to them</i> -- possibly for choosing a homebirth to begin with. They found that doctors -- obstetricians, general practice physicians -- simply do not understand what a midwife does in the home and why she should continue to be useful even after a transfer. Maybe the homebirth transfer education should start with the hospital.<br />
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<b>Did my midwife fail me?</b><br />
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I do not know. But I do know that everywhere around the world where homebirth is rare, homebirth transfer to a hospital carries with it a negative weight. In the Sweden study, half of the women that underwent homebirth transfer were less than satisfied with their midwife's support, compared to over three-fourths (76%) of those that stayed home. Not surprising when you consider that the #2 reason for transfer is because the midwife simply could not come to the birth [5].<br />
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<b>Conclusion</b><br />
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There are three ways to fix the problem of the negative affect of homebirth transfer.<br />
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<li>Teach hospital staff about homebirth transfers. Drill it, demystify it. Emphasize that a transfer is not the mother's fault; it is not the midwife's fault. These things just happen.</li>
<li>Teach mothers that plan for homebirth about homebirth transfer. I mean, <i>really drill it.</i> It is a real possibility and a mother should know the routine. Drill it, demystify it. Encourage that a transfer is not her fault.</li>
<li>Encourage homebirths. There is reason to believe that, when the overall percentage of women that plan for a homebirth is large, a transfer to the hospital is no big deal -- possibly because the hospital staff know what to expect from a woman and her support team, and how to best help.</li>
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Given our <i>surge</i> in national homebirth rates (still under 1%, but we do our best), you would think we would be quick to implement these items.<br />
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<b>References</b><br />
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[1] United Press International (2010). <a href="http://www.upi.com/Health_News/2010/03/17/US-home-births-few-but-on-the-rise/UPI-71211268804070/">US Homebirths Few, But on the Rise</a>. Retrieved 4/24/11.<br />
[2] Wax JR, Lucas FL, Lamont M, et al. (2010) Maternal and newborn outcomes in planned home birth vs planned hospital births: a metaanalysis. Am J Obstet Gynecol 2010;203:243.e1-8.<br />
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[3] T. A. Wiegers, J. van der Zee, and M. J. N. C. Keirse (2001). Transfer from Home to Hospital: What Is Its Effect on the Experience of Childbirth? <i>Birth</i>, 25 (1).<br />
[4] A. Haas (2008), <a href="http://www.midwiferytoday.com/articles/HomebirthAfterCesarean.asp">Homebirth After Cesarean</a>. Midwifery Today.</div>
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[5] H.E. Lindgren, I.J. Rådestad, and I. M. Hildingsson (2011). Transfer in planned home births in Sweden – effects on the experience of birth: A nationwide population-based study. Elsevier 2011.<br />
[6] J. Davies, E. Hey, W. Reid, G. Young (1996). Prospective regional study of planned home births. BMJ 1996.<br />
[7] W. Christiaens, A. Gouwy and P. Bracke (2007). <a href="http://www.biomedcentral.com/1472-6963/7/109">Does a referral from home to hospital affect satisfaction with childbirth? A cross-national comparison</a>. BMC Health Services Research 2007.<br />
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